Do you hear someone say something about you, and you feel useless?

On that day, when I was returning to my hometown, I passed by the prison. I asked my second aunt if this was a place for prisoners, and she said yes. Then I continued, who will go to prison if people like you don't go to prison, and I thought to myself, what did I do wrong.

A few months later, I told my stepfather that I really wanted to be admitted to the first high school, because it was the best high school, and he sarcastically said to me, "You still want to be admitted to the first high school, and then I learned about Tsinghua University, I think it is a very good university, I want to take the test but I am embarrassed to say, so I tentatively asked, how hard it will take to be admitted to Tsinghua University, he said sarcastically. Thank goodness that someone like you can get a book. Then one day he asked me if I wanted to go to ** for dinner, I cautiously said one, go eat pizza, he opened his mouth and scolded, what kind of pizza to eat.

Later, I asked me what I wanted to eat Many years later, in a big quarrel with my mother, she said I don't know what I did when I gave birth to you.

I like a girl, she also likes me, confirmed the relationship, but found that she and several men are ambiguous, but I like her so much, pretending not to know, hoping that she can see my good, but also hinted at her, afraid that she will be snatched away by others, she said don't let me think blindly, she is not a courtesan, later, she said the day before that she liked me, missed me, and the next day found that she called me "donkey" with other men in WeChat, the tone of the man's communication with him obviously felt that it was not a day or two to call me so, and said that I was a villain, The communication between them is very intimate, maybe the body is also very close, I feel that the whole world is so fake, I feel that everyone looks at me very viciously, now that I am divided, I don't say anything, tacitly, we are colleagues, and we don't want to resign, I really don't care, I recognize it, I think I'm blind, and I like a green tea.

My brother asked me to borrow money, but I didn't. My mother said: Do you think that if you marry far away and marry a rich person, you will start to dislike your mother's family, then you don't have to come back in the future, and you don't have the face to come back.

Me: Just because I don't have the money to lend my brother, I don't have the face to go back? My dad said:

You have always had the last name*, and your brother has trouble and you have to help him. Me: I bought the TV, dining table, air conditioner, and microwave oven at home, of course I remember that my surname is *, and when I borrowed money, I said that I was always surnamed *, why didn't I remember my surname * when I demolished the house last year and could get two house subsidies?

What does it matter if the waste is delayed? This is a teacher who often pours chicken soup, often bragging about the achievements of his students, what rural people were admitted to Peking University, the penultimate struggle for three years became the first in the positive number, and the words are not good for people who have 130 in the Chinese test, as long as you work hard, you will definitely achieve excellent results, and the down-to-earth children are always in the eyes. I've always felt like I'm particularly useless, why am I inferior to them.

Your life has come to an end, and God will answer you sooner or later. Compared with the famine period of more than six years. If you want to sleep, ask Lord Yama for a regular post.

Follow the lazy roots of your ancestors. I was malnourished and sickly since I was a child, but my mother didn't admit it, just said I was lazy. I don't know what you're like, take a pee, it's good if someone wants you.

The blind date introduced by others has a problem with the character, and I don't agree.

I've always had emotional problems, but I haven't seen a doctor. Some time ago, it was painful and I needed to hold back tears anytime and anywhere, and I laughed and joked with my colleagues that I had the skill of crying in seconds. Colleague said:

Oh my God, you're a drama spirit, and you're crying in seconds. I was stunned for a moment, my heart was cold, and I echoed her and laughed exaggeratedly. yes, I'm a drama spirit.

This may be a psychologically unhealthy state, many people suspect that others are talking about you behind your back, in fact, this state is very abnormal, or you should pay more attention to yourself.

Why sometimes I hear people talking about me, sometimes people don't talk about me. But I heard people talking.

As follows: 1. If the other party says that you are ridiculing or jealous, then you can compliment the other party or respond in the form of self-blackening.

2. If it is provocative or ill-intentioned to say you, it is recommended to go back.

3. If others talk about you "bitterly" and say you from a moral height of thinking about you, your choice of "escaping" will also alleviate this depressing atmosphere.

Characteristics: People with high emotional intelligence are good at controlling their emotions, can be level-headed at all times, behave rationally, suppress emotional impulses, and restrain eager desires. Resolve and eliminate your bad emotions in a timely manner, so that you can always maintain a good state of mind, be cheerful, open-minded, and mentally healthy.

Many times, people are easily provoked, angry, and angry. Actually, tantrums don't solve anything. But if we can give a good explanation for something bad and keep a cool head, we can suppress the excitement and make ourselves cheerful.

When others say about you, you decide what to do based on what you say and the "character" of the other person.

1.If the other party says that you are ridiculing or jealous, then you can compliment the other party or respond in the form of self-deprecation.

2.If it is provocative or ill-intentioned to say you, it is recommended to go back.

3.If others talk about you "bitterly" and say you from the moral height of thinking about you, the way you choose to "escape" will also alleviate this oppressive atmosphere.

When you talk to your friends in the future, don't rush others to speak, and when others have finished speaking, you can listen quietly and be a loyal audience. Don't interrupt someone just when they're talking, it's rude. And you must think about it before speaking.

In this way, you can be recognized by others.

It may be simple mental anxiety, and proper relaxation will be better.

Maybe you're just having a problem, that's why don't talk about you!

If I had heard it, I would have been very disappointed at the time, and I would have been very unhappy to be denied by others like this. But when he says this, it should be that there are some things that you have not done that meets his expectations, and there is a certain gap between them and the goals in his heart. If it's something positive and hard work, after I hear him say you're useless, I'll try to do it again, if it's a bad thing, something you don't agree with, you don't have to pay attention to him, let him say it.

First, you don't get discouraged, second, you can improve if you don't do well, learning is productivity, constantly changing your shortcomings.

The first thing to do is to affirm yourself, and before going out every day, say to yourself in the mirror with great certainty: I can, I am the best! Isn't there a saying that says dripping:

When there are many lies, they become the truth! Look in the mirror and believe that you are the best. This will give you a lot of confidence to turn your attention to yourself and not pay too much attention to others.

Blindly imitating others and caring too much about what others think, will only make you feel inferior, listen to others do it, isn't it similar to a puppet? Gradually, you will lose yourself. Give yourself more confidence!

Believe in yourself, everyone has their own strengths and potential.

How to adjust your mindset? It is certain traits that individuals are born with or have learned, and it is the ability of individuals to exercise self-control and some positive and healthy coping styles. American psychologist Luthor defines resilience as a positive adaptation process in the face of significant stress or risk, that is, "the ability and process by which people can successfully adapt regardless of the challenge or threat they are in."

Now, more and more people are starting to take a positive side of people's mental health problems: "Why is it the same stress and frustration, some people can adapt well, and some people will be unbalanced or even collapse?" "What motivates people to cope more effectively with life?

If people can be taught to be more resilient and optimistic, then they will have fewer chances of depression and anxiety and live more constructive lives.

Think about it, you usually have places that look down on others, first, you may be poor people, second, you are lazy people, and third, you are people who specialize in cheating friends......There are many more, not to mention them all.

I think, the questioner may want to say that it is the first kind of person, the ancients said that "people are not poor", if you are such a person, it doesn't matter, we live ambitiously, regardless of the eyes of others, he looks down on me, then I want to ask, why do I want you to look down on it? You look down on me, and I look down on you.

Like the first. Two or three kinds of people, not much to say, deserve to be looked down upon.

Sometimes when you are looked down upon, first find your own reasons, inspire others to laugh at you, and make it so that others are speechless.

For this kind of rotten person, the first is disdainful, the second is ignored, and the third is what to do. Fourth, compete in secret, and let him show his eyes when the time is right.

In this world, speech is free. You live in this society, you shouldn't care so much about what others think of you, accomplished people are like this, some people envy and some people are jealous, you have to know that if he has the ability and self-confidence to surpass you, he will not be jealous of you! In short, do what you want to do, fight for what you want to fight, what others think of you, whether it is good, bad, envious, jealous, that is his own business, you don't have to care.

That's an interesting question. When you hear such words, the following situations generally occur, the first is that you are immediately angry with the past, you are useful, you can do it, why don't you go to be the boss, be the boss, resulting in a war of words or excesses. The second is to put your mind right, pretend not to hear, and have him to go, because his mouth grows on his head, and he treats him as if he does not exist.

The third is to see your own shortcomings, work hard to learn business knowledge, ask for more advice, make yourself better, and let him have nothing to say to you.

I was born to be useful. Don't bother with what other people say. If someone else says it, you'll have to go back.

You just say. You are useful, then you fall. Set an example, don't be here.

Blind. If you're really useless, then you. It's really time to try.

So you really don't have to pay attention to what other people say. Some people say this because they are jealous. Envy, jealousy, and hatred will make people.

Hatred. Don't pay attention to what others say. I have to go back, because I was born to be useful.

Don't bother to pay attention to them. I was born to be useful. I was born to be useful.

I was born to be useful. Say the important thing three times. Be sure to remember.

Reflect on yourself and why others say that.

People who have self-confidence are praised. When he says that about you, it will make you feel like you have lost all your self-confidence. Don't try to please him, just try to scold him to death in your heart. In order to cheer yourself up and make yourself work hard to live a good life. If you fight back, it will only lead to conflict.

I would laugh and say, I would confidently tell her (him) - everyone is born useful, I am the only person in the world, you want to be me and I can't be.

The more others say that we are useless, the more we have to make ourselves powerful.

"Counterattack" indicates that you have hit rock bottom, and that you have problems with your will and direction. Then, it is also necessary to adjust from these two aspects. Strengthen your perseverance, adjust your direction, and do the field of horse racing.

Perseverance, you have to be stronger than most others. In fact, people's intelligence is almost the same, and most of the competition in society depends on play. The direction should be your strengths and the relative weaknesses of others, and it is best to have your unique resources that cannot be copied by others.

Is this question still to be asked? Do you think that when others say you don't have it, you admit that you're useless? I don't think most men think like this, why do others say that you use it, don't you want to prove yourself?

In his own eyes, he is his own god. No one can deny a God.

Don't care what others think, prove yourself with facts.

I will silently say to myself, you can only overcome life by working hard to make money, and only then can the person who looks down on you prove that he is a person who has no eyes!

Forbearance, cultivate the connotation of one's own concentration, accumulate one's own strength, accumulate thick and thin, and let one's positive ability explode, and you will definitely be able to do it.

Ignore it, just be yourself. How can other people's words negate your life?

It's an interesting question. Generally, it can be divided into two manifestations. The first is to immediately slap the past, you are useful, you are useful, why don't you become the mayor, this is a more direct character, and immediately counterattack the person who says you, and it is easy to cause a war of words.

The other is to keep silent, treat the other person as air, pretend not to hear, or silently try to make yourself useful in your heart.

Let him say go, if people want to say that it is someone else's business, what can be done about his mouth. You just have to be yourself, and you have to do better. I'm angry with him, see if he dares to say that casually in the future.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer your question, and the answer to your question is: I'm not going to listen to what you say, I'm going to feel how you treat me.

The meaning of this sentence is that this is a boy who imagines the future for a girl, and the girl may have heard too much, but lost confidence, so she rationally said to the boy: "I won't listen to you or anything (because it's all invisible), like our age (this age is the time to struggle), we will only see what you do (this is to see action)"!

I'm not going to listen to what you say, I'm going to feel how you're doing to me. The meaning of this sentence.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question, and the answer to your question is: I'm not going to listen to what you say, I'm going to feel how you treat me. The meaning of this sentence is that this is a boy who imagines the future for a girl, and the girl may have heard too much, but lost confidence, so she said to the boy rationally

I won't listen to you or anything (because it's all invisible), and at our age (this is the time to struggle), we will only see what you do (it's action)"!

Action refers to planning strategic intentions, having super self-control, and being able to break through oneself and achieve what one wants to do but is not afraid to do, or what one thinks is not enough, and makes up one's mind to achieve it when making a plan.

For the individual, it is self-control; For individual teams, it's leadership. Action is also the second level of ability in the five forces model of the profession, and action is good at "speed and hands-on operation".