I ve been with my boyfriend for half a year, and he s a few years older than me and in his early thi

Marriage is a matter of different natures. There is a world of difference between men and women. Men don't have to think about it so much, it's a big deal to get divorced.

A woman's life is the most valuable at this time. Divorce is equivalent to ruin, so women must be cautious when they get married. Women's intuition is generally very accurate, you yourself are hesitant, indicating that you yourself have doubts about this marriage, women get married, you must not settle, you can't have an almost just on the attitude, if you find a person, so that you have no hesitation, very firm want to marry him, no matter what kind of person he is, then there will be no regrets.

Ask yourself if this is the case now.

Think about it, you can get married, and if you can't, break up. Don't hesitate, wait until the end, the other party doesn't want to be with you, you regret it, and many of them are late at that time.

Therefore, if you haven't thought it through, don't do anything, otherwise it will only make the other party more disgusted, of course, this time to think about needs to have a deadline, otherwise the final result will only make the other party feel that you are dragging him. Even together, there will be cracks in your relationship.

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Still in love?? If you still love it, you won't ask such a question. Besides, playing games is a personal hobby, if I choose to play with him, it's better than gambling and drinking...

I'm 17 years old, my boyfriend is 23 years old, he's older, and his parents keep urging him to get married.

Hello! I'm glad to answer for you, oh dear You are 17 this year, your boyfriend is 23 years old, he is older, his parents have been urging him to get married, in fact, his boyfriend is 23 years old, he is not too old, he is still young, it may be that his parents feel that their children are too big and want to urge their children to get married early, so if this is the case, he can let his boyfriend tell his parents that he has a partner, but the object is too young and has not reached the legal age of marriage, so he can't get married Oh If your relationship is stable enough, you can also go home with him to meet his parents, let his parents raise him with peace of mind, as long as his parents know that he is serious about the object, and he likes you very much, then he will let the boy wait for you, and he will not urge the boy to get married, because 20 years old is the legal age of marriage for girls.

You're 17 years old, and we're still surprised to have such a problem, and we're also very worried about you.

1.Marriage is obviously not something you're thinking about right now.

We still sincerely advise you, don't worry now. You may have the idea of agreeing to marry the other person now, but we think that you are now affected by your feelings to have such thoughts, so it is recommended that the more you are at this time, the more you are tired of feelings, the more you can't make a decision, let alone a decision that is related to your lifelong happiness. Whether the other party is loyal to you, whether he is responsible for you, whether he is right.

Your relationship is responsible, and it will take time to verify. He is only 23 years old, and he is not used to the countryside or the city, and we think it is too early to get married. Don't listen to the advice of his parents. You have to choose your own path.

Don't let other people's opinions affect you. What's more, if the parents who can influence you don't speak, then the other party is not qualified to influence you.

2.Time is the litmus test of feelings.

If you still have feelings, then wait a few years. Wait 5-6 years, and your age is okay. However, we recommend that you still focus your energy and attention on your studies in the past few years, if you don't.

If you go to school, then put it on work, emotional matters are not a matter of consideration at your age, I hope you will remember. Another point is that I hope you will pay more attention to the affairs of men and women and learn to protect yourself.

In fact, we suggest that you don't talk about feelings during this time period, and just keep the good feelings of both parties in your heart. What time is the right time to do something.

3.The consequences are severe.

If you don't handle this well, the one who hurts the most is yourself, and you're only 17 years old, so be careful.

Doing something that is not suitable for the right age often leads to bad results, and such cases abound on the Internet. If you make a mistake, it can ruin your life. I hope you take it to heart. Listen to your parents. Take care of this.

To be honest, a 17-year-old girl is a little too young. You haven't seen much of the world, and the circle of acquaintances is relatively limited, maybe when you are 23, your outlook on life and worldview is completely different from when you were 17, and of course, the criteria for choosing a mate may also be different. At that time, what if you find out that your current boyfriend is not actually suitable for you, but he is already married?

From another point of view, my boyfriend is 23 and he is very young, does he have a stable income? How is his career growing? Are you mature?

Are you already up to the role of husband and future father? Is it even possible to live independently? If an older boy who can't even take care of himself and listens to his parents in case of trouble, please consider carefully whether it is suitable for marriage.

It seems that you and your boyfriend may not be in a first-tier city. 17 years old is not even the legal age for marriage, and 23-year-old boys in big cities, still boys, have not grown up to age, generally do not consider marriage. After being together for 5 months, you may not really know him comprehensively, why should you let others arrange your own future? ?

Even this person who is not your own parents, who has nothing to do with you ...

It is recommended that you think carefully and consult your own parents, who are the helpers you need to find and the ones you need to focus on, not the so-called boyfriend's parents.

It's not appropriate for you to be with a 23-year-old man when you're only 17 years old, after all, you're too young, underage, and too long between the legal age of marriage. You have to think about whether there will be any changes between you and your marriage, such as whether the relationship can be maintained well, which is the most important thing. Remind you that you are too young to fall in love a little early.

I hope you will consider your relationship with your current boyfriend from many aspects, and don't regret what you shouldn't have done on impulse.

You said you're only a teenager this year, your boyfriend is 23, he's even older, and you're not enough, you're too young at 17. By your age, you should be a student now. You've only been together for five months, and you haven't seen each other's parents.

You are 17 years younger. May not be of legal age to marry.

You are only 17 years old this year, and you have not yet reached the legal age for marriage. Although the boyfriend who has been in love with you for 5 months is 23 years old, as long as one party is under the legal age, he still can't get married, even if his parents force you, it's useless, not to mention that you haven't been to his house and don't know his family very well, so you might as well ask him to wait until you reach the legal age before getting married.

You're also underage, so you can't get married in too much of a hurry.

Marriage is not the grave of love, and it really is not, for you who have just graduated, marriage and employment are not a pair of contradictions, some are just their own unwillingness, perhaps just curiosity about social adaptability.

To put it simply, your marriage will not prevent you from working, marriage is a lifetime of happiness, employment is just to meet the needs of a momentary life, and a little touchstone to prove your ability.

And marriage is thinking about your dissatisfaction with the relationship, and the thirty-two views prompt you to think about it now, in fact, you should think about it when you are in contact with your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend has been waiting for you for two years, don't feel any guilt, this is love, maybe it is a man's responsibility, love can completely cross all.

Just graduated and either get married or break up, it seems to be a problem faced by every campus couple, you are really not a case, so, your future is your decision, and your boyfriend's future is also your decision, because his grade has not allowed him to wait, and today, six years later, it seems that you will choose your boyfriend to marry, it seems that it is still a problem! So, try to think about your own problems, whether you don't have confidence in him, or whether his love really doesn't make you feel grounded!!

Let me tell you, my wife is married to me after graduation!!

Communicate with your boyfriend, after all, marriage is a common thing for 2 people, and your boyfriend is indeed not young, according to what you said, you should also be almost 24 years old, and it should be time to consider getting married, no matter what, understand each other! At the same time, we must also understand the mood of the elderly! After all, Xinyi is a small place, and the proportion of men in their 30s who are not married is very small.

That's because you don't love him, and you're still hesitating to marry her.

Then make it clear to your boyfriend that if your boyfriend really loves you, he will think about you.

Then don't get married, don't you have the answer in your heart when you ask this question?

Break up, get married, and choose what else to do if you don't get married.

No, although your boyfriend is only 23 years old, he is a relatively mature boy, he is much more sensible than you should be, he knows that for a family, for marriage, the child's temper is also very important, it directly determines a humanistic atmosphere of the whole family, and plays a very key role in the direction of the family, if you are still so willful, so love to lose your temper, then it is really not suitable to get married, it is better to talk more about love, Gradually change yourself in love and learn to grow up, because you don't have much time to learn after getting married, marriage and love are completely two different things, although they are connected to each other, but they do have essential differences.

After marriage, you are a very important role in the family, first of all, the role of a wife, the role of the wife is not so good, play in this small family hope in the wife's mood is the key to the warmth of the family, just imagine, the husband came back from work, with a body of exhaustion, at this time, the wife, if you give a warm smile and delicious meals, the husband's fatigue in this life will dissipate, but if the wife at this time gives the husband a bad temper, Then you can imagine what kind of conflict will erupt between the two of you, such contradictions, if your personality does not change, will be reflected in many details of life, and eventually destroy your marriage.

In marriage, you will slowly become a mother, a warm and lovely mother, for the child is a sense of security and warm harbor, but due to your personality, you have grown up with the newborn child tantrums, and do not have the patience to educate him, then you can imagine what kind of person the child will grow up to be?

Therefore, a girl's good temper sometimes determines his life. This is a very sensible practice of your boyfriend.

Too young, don't study hard, talk about love, one day you will regret it, you graduated from junior high school and can't get a marriage certificate, talk about marriage, you are only eligible for a marriage certificate at the age of 20.

If you graduate from junior high school and can't get a marriage certificate, what kind of marriage can you talk about, you are only eligible to get a marriage certificate at the age of 20.

If he is willing to resist the pressure of his family to marry, please treat him well.

If he has waited for you for six years, he is 31 and you are 22, if the two of you have not entered the palace of marriage together, then he is basically a leftover man at the age of 31, unless his family conditions are very good, otherwise the range of objects to choose from is much smaller. If the two of you can still walk together in six years, others can only say: love is stronger than gold, cow!

On the other hand, your relationship must be much deeper than that of an ordinary couple...

No matter how you choose, you hope to follow your inner choice, not blind, not impulsive, and not regretful.

You can get a marriage certificate at the age of 20, and the legal age of marriage is 20 years old.

If he can't wait for you, just give up, give up as soon as possible, after all, he is not young, he will be thirty in a few years, and many people will become fathers when they are thirty years old.

But if he can wait for you, you will work hard to get into a good university, so that your parents will love you more and value you more. Then maybe your parents will see that you are working so hard and agree.

And if you can't wait for him, it's better to give up now. After all, you're academically focused right now. Don't delay your studies, or you'll regret it in the future.

Another thing you have to think clearly, he is nine years older than you, think about it, he was almost forty when you were still thirty, and this age gap will be estranged as soon as you get married. So you have to think very carefully and don't be hasty and impulsive.

You are too young to be 20 years old to be eligible for a marriage certificate, saying that you are still in school, you should focus on your studies, if your boyfriend loves you, he should think about you, and you have to wait for you to graduate.