How to become the person you want to be

Actually, I've had problems with you. Becoming the ideal person is very simple, it is to do what you want to do, to have personality, to be confident, and to constantly check your words and actions. That's it!

Whatever you think in your heart, you show it!

So mentality is important, and if you want me to always be the best!

Then you will succeed!

What does your ideal self look like? It must be perfect! Try to be your current self. It's not far from the goal.

In fact, you should ask this question to make it clearer: What is my ideal? Leave the answer to you! Because you know best.

Change your own image.

One of the greatest discoveries in psychology is that you can become the person you want to be through your imagination.

You have to imagine yourself as a very successful person, a very wealthy person, a very positive person, a very enthusiastic person, a very motivated person, and you have to constantly spend some time every day imagining yourself as a successful person.

Keep changing your inner self, these so-called soft bodies in your brain, and keep repeating these successful drawings, and your subconscious mind will slowly guide your behavior, constantly adapting to your thoughts to make changes, so that you can achieve your ultimate goal.

You have to imagine yourself as a natural winner and keep letting the image stick in your mind.

Before I go to sleep, I close my eyes and imagine how good I will be tomorrow and imagine when I reach my goals.

Keep imagining what I'm trying to achieve each year, keep being concrete again and again, and let the messages into my subconscious mind in my sleep. When I sleep all night, my subconscious is helping me integrate the information and images in my mind with **.

Because your subconscious mind is omnipotent, as long as you can repeat your imagination and believe that your dreams will come true.

Another way to help you change your mind is to build a so-called "dream board". I have personally used the dream board for two or three years, and every time I find a proper ** for my goal, cut it out, paste it on the dream board and continue to look at it, there is almost nothing that is not achieved.

Sometimes it's very strange that someone gives me the dream I want just after I put it on the dream board.

I remember when I wanted to buy a black car, it didn't take long for me to put it on, and it came true almost immediately; I wanted to buy a gold Rolex watch, and it didn't take long for it to happen.

Later, I posted a Mercedes S320 car, on my dream board, two or three months later, I felt as if it was too expensive, to save a little, I took that ** out, I didn't expect that after about nine months, I still bought a Mercedes S320.

The power of the subconscious mind is so amazing, you might as well use your target today with the appropriate **, cut it out, paste it, imagine it every day, imagine it every day, and instill it into your subconscious sooner or later to change yourself.

Do your inner subconscious planning, you will have unexpected results, as long as you are willing to try, no matter what goal is achievable.

Set goals and plans'' step by step!

Just move towards your ideals.

What do you want to look like?

To make a long story long, I suggest you read Anzhi Chen's book.

1.Don't be afraid to fail because failure is part of success.

2.Stick to your dreams and don't be swayed by the opinions of others.

3.Cherish every day because time is precious. 4.Learn to respect others, because everyone has their own values and meanings.

5.Don't give up on learning because knowledge is endless. Tachibana stares.

6.Be a kind person, because kindness is the most beautiful quality.

7.Don't forget about family and friends, as they are your most important supporters.

8.Be brave in the face of challenges because challenges can make you grow.

9.Cherish health, because health is the foundation of everything.

10.Most importantly, believe in yourself because you can be who you want to be.

I once saw a line in the movie: "No matter how small a person is, he can change the future." ”

If you want to be your ideal self, you should know what kind of person you want to be.

I think I have three things about myself, and if I really stick to it, I can become what I want to be.

One is reading: I once dreamed of opening a big bookstore, and I could hold a cup of coffee and talk to time slowly, so life is very beautiful to think about. It's just that what should be done at this stage is to pick up books after work, and if you are tired for too long, you will not be able to read as much as you used to.

I read about a quarter of a book when I took it around, but it was something I always wanted to do in my heart. Reading may not bring much change in a short period of time, but it is a process of knowledge accumulation. Always believe in a sentence, only the accumulation of quantity will have a qualitative leap.

The current text is immature, just a few subtle insistences. Reading is always something that should be insisted on, although in this day and age, a very small percentage of people can pick up a book and read with peace of mind.

The second is exercise: the body is the capital of the revolution, and a healthy body in this era is the greatest hard power; Many dreams need to be fulfilled on such a basis. Exercise can make people more energetic, modern life is fast-paced, work pressure is also very high, young people are generally in a sub-health.

status. Exercise can make people healthier, improve the body's immunity, and change people's mental state.

As you wait for your ideal day, study hard, exercise, and your body and soul should keep up with you.

Establish lofty ideals and achieve a better life.

The ideal is the goal of progress. Only self-confidence without ideals, just like only a power car, but there is no goal in walking, the result may be the opposite and far away from our beautiful life. With an ideal, every step you take, you will get one step closer to the goal, and get closer and closer.

At the age of 15, the famous explorer John Goddard listed 127 of his grand aspirations on a blank piece of paper, such as exploring the Nile, Amazon and Congo rivers; climb Mount Everest, Kilimanjaro and Mount Maithorn; riding elephants, camels and wild horses; visit the path of Marco Polo and Alexander I; starring in a movie like Tarzan of the Apes; Piloting aircraft to take off and land; read the works of Shakespeare, Plato, and Aristotle; compose a piece of music; Write a book; Visit every country in the world; Visit the moon and more. He named these aspirations "the wish of a lifetime." And 44 years later, he finally fulfilled 106 of those wishes.

When asked why he trampled so many of the "impossible" under his feet, Goddard laughed and said, "Anything I can do, I want to try." "And at the age of your classmates, if you don't have ideals, if you already feel that you can't do a lot of things, then you can't do anything in your life.

To turn one's ideal into reality, we must first distinguish whether it is an ideal or a dream, and secondly, we must be down-to-earth and step by step, and we must not rush to achieve success.

The ideals of life are not static. Many people find out what they like and what their ideals are in the process of moving forward in life and work. A rational life will not subvert existence and pursue ethereal ideals.

If a high-paying job is a way to compress your interests and even violate your sense of morality, it is often discouraged by many people, even if it is not because of ideals. Because the pursuit of life is not just because of money. But for the thirst for money with.

For successful people, a high salary is undoubtedly a motivation and motivation.

I think first of all, I personally have to define my own ideals. If this dream is related to a high-paying job, I'm happy. Because ideals are linked to the economy, the more you do it, the more fun it becomes.

But if you're going to ask me to give up a job I'm doing and focus on my ideals, I'll have to see how much I've accumulated in my purse. Usually, the accumulation of young people is not very thick, and it is impossible to chase the so-called dreams on an empty stomach.

Ideals and well-paid jobs are sometimes not incompatible, unless high-tech jobs occupy all the time......and has endured unbearable pressure, so the meaning of the existence of this high-paying job is very worrying.

I myself usually make a trade-off between my ideals and my job, which is ......A job can satisfy both survival, and the rest of the time is the ideal pursuit.

Disobey. I don't give up my job because I pursue my ideals. In the current ......In this world, a job means survival and dignity.

Career is more important because career is how you realize your personal value.

To say that career is more important is not to say that family is not important, but to really ......A positive family will let you fly without pressure, and your family is a harbor ,...... when you are tiredYou have to be nice to your family like that.

But only through your career can you prove your worth, and we have been studying hard for more than ten years, but we are just looking for and creating a way to prove our worth;

No one wants to find a ...... who doesn't support their workWife or husband, because we subconsciously think that career is more important;

We can give up our own pursuits for the sake of our family, but as the family of someone who wants to have a career, we must hope that he will stick to his career, because in the family is serious, only by realizing your dreams and ambitions can you be happy, in the family is serious, career is also the most important;