Have you become the person you want to be the most?

No. For the student dog who just graduated this year, I probably should be a miserable mix. Taking this as a line, if you have to find a few words to describe your student career in the first half of your life, it is to eat and wait for death, calm and smooth sailing.

Of course, feelings aside. After that, I couldn't find any other adjectives except for confusion. I don't like people who set limits for themselves, to put it bluntly, they are lazy, many times I have no ideals and I don't want to be what kind of person I want to be, maybe there are too many people I want to be, and I end up without a problem.

But I still want to have a lot of money and a happy life with my family. Before I had time to vent, my loneliness was lost to reality alive. Come out and mix sooner or later, I have to pay it back, the previous days were too comfortable because someone carried the weight for me, and when I relied on myself, I couldn't make my life comfortable, so that my family could rest assured.

The time spent in school has become the regret I regret the most. What I want is peace and joy when I am young and elder, less suffering from illness, and I can have sincere love; When I was old, the family was around the fire, my young daughter-in-law was cooking in the kitchen, I was telling my little grandson stories that my grandfather had told me, and his grandmother was teaching his sister to unbraid. That's it, it's wonderful.

No. There is no gold to be bare and life is regrettable. Blessings and misfortunes depend on them, and disasters and blessings come.

Life is precious, but it needs to be chosen by heaven. In ancient times, heroes sighed: Accompany the king like a tiger, the heroic hero fights the world, and the overlord kills the Wujiang River.

Today, there are successful people, whose lives are like the morning light, and the mountains only look at the top, but do not know in the mountains. Civilians are clothed in "I", making a lot of livelihoods, letting go of vulgar things, and not afraid of the years.

Not yet, but I've been working on this path and getting closer. Do what you are interested in, put sincerity and energy, based on action, based on persistence, witness your own change and growth, and witness that there will be gains if you pay. Be yourself all the time, but get better at every moment.

For me, the answer is yes, no! Maybe that's life, most of us are lived by others as they want to be, and we have no self at all. If you can't live yourself, life will be very tiring, and it will be full of all kinds of helplessness and sadness.

As far as the current situation is concerned, there is no such thing, how to say, a large part of the reason is myself, but I didn't know how to work hard in the right way at the time, I wasted my time in vain, and now I try not to think about the sense of loss I once had. I just look forward and can concentrate on doing what I want to do, but I don't get what I want now, and I hope that it can be achieved in the future.

I am over half a hundred years old, and I have long forgotten what I imagined when I was young. I don't know myself who has been changed by life, how can I remember my original ideals. The reality is cruel, and life is unpredictable.

No one can live in their imagination without being changed! When people reach middle age, they are under pressure up and down, and it is really mature to find a way out under pressure! I've been trying to be what I want to be, but I haven't succeeded.

I continue to struggle on the road to success, and thus change the trajectory of my life, so I am working hard for my original dream from now on, come on, struggle, and persevere! I'm sure I'll see the one I want.

Although I am middle-aged, my life has just begun, and in the days to come, I will face every day with a smile, and work hard towards the life I want every day! Happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day, so let's live each day happily!

What kind of person you want to be is to establish a goal in life in psychology. Once the goal of life is determined, if he can persevere in this direction, then the possibility of becoming such a person is very high. Of course, the possibility of not reaching the goal is also very high, because there are many factors that affect success, and it is not only determined by perseverance.

On the contrary, how can we succeed if we only have a goal but do not work hard?

Foster Less, "The Simplest and Most Difficult Things in Life".

You are still young and can be anyone you want to be, it turns out that you have lived this problem with your friends, children of the same age are similar, what kind of life I want to live, but there is an impression "I don't know what kind of person I want to be, I don't know what kind of life I want to live, but I know what kind of life I hate to live".

In fact, sometimes, what you want may not be as good as what you don't want, and it is more motivating. So, when you want to do something, but you don't want to stick to it because of your species, think about what kind of person such laziness and procrastination or other excuses will make you become.

Do what you want to do, and it's never too late.

I have always liked a travel blogger, she went from 0 to 700w fans on the whole network in a year, many people said that she was lucky and took advantage of the loopholes of the ** era, but she said that she deserved these achievements she received, how hard she worked, every section of the road she walked, every mountain she climbed, and every sunrise she waited for could be witnessed.

She used to be an ordinary student with an ordinary second degree and a salary of 2,000 yuan per month, but her perseverance and desperate efforts day and night have made her what she is now.

If there is a shortcut to dreams, then that path must be perseverance.

I believe that everyone who has struggled for themselves can better understand the meaning of perseverance.

Finally, I would like to send you a word, if you don't want to dig into the trembling power, naturally someone will work hard, then the life you want to live can naturally only be lived by others.

The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now. May you and I be the people we want to be and live the life we want to live.

Introduction] In the Hybit primary training camp, before the mentor guides everyone to set habits, the first question is what kind of person you want to become, only if you become the person you want to be, you will have the motivation to achieve it. So what does it take to be who you want to be?

Text] Lesson 3 Theme: Take responsibility for your own growth.

Purpose: To clarify the meaning of responsibility; clarifying how to be responsible; Summarize the relationship between self-discipline and growth.

The importance of responsibility.

Self-discipline is the first step to personal growth, and to achieve personal growth is to become the person you want to be. The three elements of self-discipline are postponement of gratification, respect for facts, and responsibility. Finding the key point in time to postpone gratification, finding the source of emotions, facing reality, and finally taking action and taking responsibility for what is needed is logically responsible for personal growth.

On a practical level, what do you lose if you pass the buck? From the scales of gain and loss you can know that you will lose a lot.

How to be responsible?

Working in a Sino-German joint venture, responsibility is the value of the enterprise, how to be responsible? Keeping everything on oneself (neurosis), blaming others for everything (personality disorder), or confusion (personality neurosis)? Mentor a formula to clear the clouds:

Responsibility = Identity (clarifying your multiple identities) + Standards (setting high standards in the draft) + Action (Action Landing).

Who are you? Employees, QRK, squad leaders, party members? What standards should you set for your identity?

You know, the standard you set determines your life, and the standard you set makes your moat deeper. The last step is action, and developing a feasible landing action is what GTD calls the next step. To determine whether this action can be landed, apply the following formula:

Action = Verb + Main Content + Key Resources.

The relationship between self-discipline and personal growth.

If you encounter problems in the process of personal growth, which leads to mood swings, if you don't solve the problem, you will become a problem. Through self-discipline, we can postpone gratification, face reality and take responsibility to improve our ability and accumulate value, and finally become the person I want to be!

The following table is the short-term self-discipline improvement table: