Helping people don t know what to do if they are reasonable

If you think you should help, you can help, and if it's not worth helping, there is no need to pay.

Although I don't know what problems you encounter, this kind of thing is indeed common, many people think that a thing has nothing to do with themselves, and they will not get any practical benefits from helping you, and they will not want to do it for you.

At this time, some strategies are necessary, usually some people will give each other some benefits, such as buying some gifts and giving some money or something, taking people with soft hands and eating people's mouths; There is a better way, but this requires personal charm and wisdom, and it can't be taught specifically, that is, to find a way to make this matter a matter of the other party's business or something that is related to the interests of the other party, and few people are not concerned about their own affairs.

There is too little information to judge in what environment and what situation, and can only give you a few directions: 1Directly ask someone else to do it (his colleague, or other department that can do it).

2.Find his leader through the relationship. 3.

Ask him to do it through normal channels, such as complaints. 4.Have a good relationship with him and let him do it for you willingly.

5.Exchange with him at the same price, he will do things for you, and you will do what he wants to do for him, and he will do it himself.

1. The most basic one must be accompanied by a smile and good words, after all, it is to find someone to do something.

2. If you are old, you should mouth dessert and make yourself more difficult to win sympathy.

3. If you are a young person, it is best to go to the opposite sex, as the saying goes, opposites attract, pay attention to speaking skills.

4. The main thing is speaking skills, if you don't solve the problem after going a few times, just think about solving it through other ways (giving gifts, inviting you to eat, finding a middleman).

Respect, politeness, admiration is like a surging river, continuous ......

Explain the importance and impact of the event on you, and it is best to be humorous, such as this matter is related to your happy life in the second half of your life or something.

Lai, don't be a face-saving grinder, let him think that you are more troublesome than what you do, but pay attention to the heat, and don't let the other party oppose you.

Persuade, that is, to find acquaintances in your circle who are familiar with each other to help talk.

Rites, this ......There is no need to explain it, the simplest and most complicated, you must figure out the preferences of the other party, and it is best to use it together with persuasion.

Trouble, the previous methods are not good, but it must be done, you can only endure it and you don't need to endure it anymore, I can't get better, you don't want to be quiet, I hope you don't use this trick ......

1. Communicate directly with others and find the same point of view, so that the words are convincing. Discussing this matter under the same point of view is gradually substituting the topic, which is more persuasive and difficult for others to refute.

If it were me, I would do my best to mobilize those I could to convince him. Or I learned everything as quickly as I could, and I didn't just ask him to do it. Because I think in terms of doing things,There are many types of people who can still find other people to replace.,I hope it's helpful to the landlord.。。

I can't look at other people's faces and speak, and I don't know how to be a person. It doesn't make sense. Not sensible.

Don't listen to others or explain. I don't know how to do things, I don't know how to see people and talk about people. Self-centred, disregarding the feelings of others ...

Probably so. A friend of mine, his ex-girlfriend, is such a person. Last year's Valentine's Day was very close to the New Year, and his girlfriend from Zhengzhou, he was Zhoukou.

That day, his girlfriend insisted that he go to spend Valentine's Day with her, but he had something that day, saying that he would pick up his grandmother in the morning to come to the house for the New Year, and said that he would go to Zhengzhou to find her after picking up his grandmother, but she was unwilling. He had to go and accompany him immediately. Sister, for the Chinese New Year, do you have a family and no one else?

Later, he went to Zhengzhou after picking up his grandmother, and she said that he did not buy her gifts. Mom, did you buy it for him? Think everyone is just as idle as you and has nothing to do?

Later, the man couldn't stand her and broke up. What is it called? You cannot live if you have done your own iniquity.

At that time, the man was miserable. At two o'clock in the middle of the night, I called ** to complain to my boyfriend and said it crying. said that he was reluctant, but because of her, he had a sex with his mother.

It's because of the New Year's run to Zhengzhou... Now he's doing well.

Do you know what the other party means by laughing at you, you won't think that the other party is kind to laugh, and you won't think that the other party likes you.

Say that you are strong and reasonable, you don't know how to interact with people, you don't know how to do things.

It's unreasonable, dear, it's a bad ......It's a person who has no feelings.

Unreasonableness is unkind, cold, and does not understand human feelings, which means that this person does not eat the fireworks of the world.

It means that there is no family education, pampering, being too arrogant in life, never considering the feelings of others.

Such as respecting the old and loving the young, receiving people and things.

I just don't understand the other party's heart and don't know what people want, which is because of low emotional intelligence.

You should be reasonable when you should be reasonable, and you should be unreasonable when you should be reasonable.

The family is not a virtuous helper, and the family is not a strong woman.

Ignore it, he didn't hear what he said....There are a lot of people around me who are arguing like this, and they can't tell the unreasonable, Duan Hao doesn't bother to say anything, pretending not to hear, slowly he will be tired, and he will be conquered by you....

This is too troublesome, generally such people do not listen to "words", and can only be reasonable and tolerant in the end!

Patience, you don't have to worry about others.

Think more from someone else's point of view, and when something happens to someone else, think about what you should do yourself.

If you really are a reasonable person, he will definitely feel it!

To be a reasonable person is not simply to reply.

Doing one thing, answering a few words can be recognized, it is the embodiment of a person's character and recuperation, is a summary of ordinary behavior, simply speaking, doing things are very reasonable. Therefore, deal with the ordinary things around you, don't let others be in a dilemma, and naturally you are a reasonable person!

I don't know if you're the cause.

Bai asked the question for her for his reasons, or for the reasons of relatives.

All I can say is that your self-control is so bad, and when you often deal with some things, your ideas and the actions you show are two people. Your impetuousness and reckless behavior will make the people who come into contact with you think that you are a person who cannot speak clearly, and if you do not calm down and talk to the other person slowly, people can change. But human nature is always in oneself and cannot be changed.

You just go with the flow and face it with your inner mindset and a very optimistic attitude. Learn to be patient!

A little more happiness, a little more happiness!

We must be well versed in world affairs, understand human nature, and be reasonable in our words and actions. It's for reasonableness also.

Be kind, humble and cautious, not arrogant, and the important thing is to make others feel comfortable with you.

Empathy, think more about others! The temper is even better! If you don't achieve it, change it little by little! ok

I'd rather the people of the world bear me, and I will not live up to the people of the world.

Don't think about yourself, think about things from someone else's point of view, but don't be too good.

Hehe! Brother! We are connected, I have the same experience as you, I have a very good relationship with that friend but he asked me to help him!

Of course I agreed, but I couldn't figure out what he asked, and he asked me to lend him money! He gave me his bank card and asked me to pick it up, but he didn't go himself, he said: Anyway, our relationship is so good, who is different, you know?

It was uncomfortable! Ay. Later, I gritted my teeth and agreed, and the next day, he borrowed it from me again, saying that he had given him 100 yuan, and asked me to take his card to get it!!

But he said he was in a hurry!! I gritted my teeth again and agreed, and three days after I arrived on the ground, he came again, and as I had done the same two days before, I was really speechless, so I touched it myself, and said brother! Brother, I'm uncomfortable today, why don't you go yourself, but he said that I don't have time, he said again.

Don't you want to go, I said what's wrong.

I just didn't want to go, and I didn't pay attention to him in the future.

There are many other things, a lot.

I won't say more, I understand.

When someone asks you to do something you don't like, you can give me a treat! Or do you try it first! Wait, don't say it.

No or no.

and other strong words,

Be lenient with people and respect what others have to say.

Be respectful of what others say.

Friendly and quality.

If you really are a reasonable person, he will definitely feel it!

To be a reasonable person is not simply to do one thing and say a few words to be recognized, it is the embodiment of a person's character and recuperation, and it is a summary of ordinary behavior. So, deal with the ordinary things around him, don't let him be in a dilemma, and he will naturally know that you are a reasonable person!

I don't sympathize with you, you can get out of this life, the world is so big, there are so many people, don't be tormented, friend.

Anything is downplayed, tomorrow will be fine.

What makes you so helpless? Can I help you?

Look at your own work from multiple angles, but also stand in the boss's perspective to see the problem, if the boss is really unacceptable, then you will find another high, however, to remind you, in other work, will also encounter other problems, after all, the boss will have certain requirements for employees, it is impossible to arrange the work completely according to your intentions, if the current work, for you, there is still a certain development, it is best to do your job well, with results, the boss will definitely change your view, I wish you success!

There will always be this phenomenon, and when you find your next job, quit your job.

But it is possible that the next boss is not as good as this, so you will change again.

It is in this repetition that you understand the mystery, and then you get used to it and stop complaining.

If you are happy, you will do it, if you are not happy, you will change, you have to think about the advantages and disadvantages of your current job, and then make a decision.

If you have a strong character, do a good job and show him!

If you are the type of person who is not in contention with the world, then change the unit to do it, but this time look at the accurate, the boss's person!

The process of growing up! A must go through! The sun is always after the storm!

Buddha said: Treat yourself as someone else, treat others as yourself, and treat yourself as yourself.