I like to count a person and don t know what to do? chased him and was afraid that he would refuse.

Pay more attention to him, people with a heart will always feel it, and even if you confess that you don't succeed, you don't have to regret it, at least you chased him, it's not your thing.

If it's written wrong, it should be liked.

Like the bold chase, even if it is rejected, at least it will not leave regrets,

If you don't say it, you will definitely not have a chance, and if you say it, there will be a 50 percent chance.

Then ask him if he likes you! Don't confess it first, just ask directly, if he says he likes it, you say I like you too, let's be together! How nice.

To love him, be brave enough to speak up.

Beauty, let go, it's nothing, and if you refuse, you turn around and walk up in a chic way. A personality that dares to love and hate will make you glamorous!

What abilities, abilities, and good morals does he have that you should like and pursue? If not, forget it! Women should open their eyes to men clearly, be rational and not emotional, otherwise it will be too late to regret it!

If you like someone and are afraid of rejection, then you give him some hints and see how he reacts.

It's better to start with friends.

Don't be afraid, after being rejected, you shouldn't love anymore.

Be brave, it doesn't matter if you don't succeed, you won't know until you try.

You said you were 50 percent sure, but you didn't say anything at all.

Brave confession, what's the big deal.

If you don't follow it, forget it, let me chase you, right?

Do you think he likes you, you feel it yourself.

I don't know the specifics, how long has it been? Taking your time is not forced.

What if you're chased by someone you don't like? There are three ways for you to choose, as follows:

1.The first way is to give him a chance.

What would you do if someone you didn't like chased you one day? Personally, I think that if there is no object, you can try to give him a chance, to see a person can not just look at the appearance, some people are introverted, introverted, not good at expressing themselves, but the heart is a kind person, give others a chance is also to give yourself a chance, try to try to contact him, maybe he is the person you are waiting for, if you get along, the relationship will go further. A person's appearance does not represent all of him, the focus is on character, interpersonal relationships, whether he truly loves you, whether he is loyal and able to work, whether he has the ability to protect you and make you happy and live a happy life, this is the most important thing, whether he is responsible, self-motivated, loving, enterprising and filial piety, examine him, so I think it is feasible to give him a chance.

2.The second way is to resolutely refuse.

If one day someone chases you and says they like you, but you don't like him, what will you do? If it were me, I would resolutely refuse, I don't like him, why waste our respective time, delay each other, and hurt each other? Direct Kabo is brittle, direct rejection, how good, each looking for their own happiness.

People need fate between people, since there is no fate, you should tell him, to avoid deepening the misunderstanding, long pain is not as good as short pain, he will understand, the twisted melon is not sweet, let alone make do, marriage is a lifelong event, sloppy, if you don't like it and don't refuse, hurting others is also immoral, you can't be a boyfriend or girlfriend can be an ordinary friend is good, he will understand your feelings, or it is better to refuse directly.

3.The third way is to hang as a spare tire.

If one day someone says they like you, but you still have someone you like, but the relationship is not determined, then what will you do, I think it's good to be a spare tire, merit-based admission, haha, it's really a good note. If you don't like her, you can tell him, let's be ordinary friends, so that you can leave room for yourself, ordinary friends can also become lovers, and it won't hurt him. If your boyfriend breaks up with you one day, you can go back and continue to get along with this ordinary friend, if you get along, the relationship will still take a turn, and it is also a good choice to leave yourself a way back and give the other party a chance.

But don't step on two boats, this is immoral, the relationship between people can be transformed into each other, leaving a way back is to give each other a chance, but also to give each other a chance, don't talk to death, how good! If someone chases you one day, you have three options, and you can only decide which one is more suitable for you.

As long as you firmly refuse him and clearly explain your thoughts to him.

Isn't it quite a sense of pride to chase after you?

You can tell him that you don't want to interfere with other people's feelings or that you don't want to be involved. If he insists on asking you for help, you can again explicitly refuse and tell him your reason. Remember, you have the right to refuse inappropriate requests without feeling guilty.

If you think you can help him, but you don't want to, you might consider telling him about your concerns. You can tell him that you're not sure if your advice will be useful or that you think they might not be a good fit. You can give him some advice, but also make it clear that the final decision is up to him.

Whatever you decide to do, try to avoid hurting his feelings. Try to stay calm and rational in the conversation and don't let emotions affect you. Most importantly, respect his feelings and try to find a solution that will satisfy him.

The teacher gave you some advice. If you don't want to help him pursue someone she likes, you can say it euphemistically. You can tell him that you don't want to interfere with other people's feelings or that you don't want to be involved.

If he insists on asking you for help, you can again explicitly refuse and tell him your reason. Remember, you have the right to refuse inappropriate requests without feeling guilty. If you think you can help him, but you don't want to, you can consider telling him about your concerns.

You can tell him that you're not sure if your advice will be useful or that you think they might not be a good fit. You can give him some advice, but also make it clear that the final decision is up to him. Whatever you decide to do, try to avoid hurting his feelings.

Try to stay calm and rational in the conversation, and don't let your emotions affect you. Most importantly, respect his feelings and try to find a solution that will satisfy him.

But if you lose the game, you have to help her.

But you've found out that she's chasing you, and if you don't like him, the best way is to say no.

Simple and clear, explain the reason, the right type makes him have no feelings, and there is really no feeling of being together, if you don't refuse directly, give him a chance to feel that Bushan is possible, he will only continue to pursue you, until you are the only one.

Probably not, because in a relationship, most people are afraid of rejection.

People who have a chic emotional outlook and a strong mentality will continue to chase.

Because, in their opinion, liking you is my business, of course you have the right to refuse, and even if you reject me and love me more, I generously pay for my heartbeat, continue to chase, because I like your process, my own feelings are great, if one day I don't like you, then I will stop chasing and let go freely.

This kind of emotional outlook, which seems to be unrequited love, has nothing to do with the other party, but it will not affect one's mentality because of the other party's rejection and coldness, and it is easier to grasp the initiative in the relationship, and it is more likely to be happy.

And most people can't.

Because we are afraid of rejection, afraid that we will show our sincerity, but the other party will regard it as a mustard and abandon it like a clog, afraid of the psychological damage after rejection, feel faceless, and have frustrated self-esteem, so we don't want to, don't dare, don't want to take the initiative, and would rather miss it than be humble.

Why do some people not affect their mentality at all after being rejected, while some people never dare to try again?

Because, everyone has a different sensitivity to "rejection".

Some people have a cold attitude, they feel a strong "rejection", and the inner uneasiness immediately sounds the alarm, he just hates me, he definitely doesn't want to help me, next time it will never be like this, we call such people "rejected sensitive".

People who are sensitive to rejection "often experience the trauma of rejection." For example, being rejected in front of everyone, being ridiculed by everyone, feeling particularly embarrassed and embarrassed, will form a psychological fear and helplessness about this matter, and if you encounter similar things in the future, you will be traumatized and replayed, and you will not dare to try again.

Be brave when you are young and when it is time to confess, even if you are rejected, there is nothing to regret, if you miss the opportunity, then you will regret it later.

Be brave and do it.

Make a great memory.

Confession is not about the occasion.

It's your sincerity.

Even if the occasion is not suitable.

As long as you are sincere.

She will also be impressed by your sincerity.

Then. It doesn't matter what the occasion is like anymore

If you like someone, you have to be brave enough to chase it.

What to do about this, if you like it enough, you will have the courage to take the risk to confess, even if you fail, at least the other party knows your mind, but if the level of liking for that person is not deep enough to make you timid, shy or afraid of failure, then that's it.

If you don't confess and hide your love in your belly, how will people know?

Since you have a crush on her and she deserves your love, don't be too shy.

Gently show her what you have for her. Generally speaking, she would definitely be happy to hear it, in short, if she didn't chase it, there was no hope. Chasing, at least 50% hope.

If you like it, you have to be brave enough to confess. Otherwise, you will miss out on the good relationship.

Be brave to chase, you don't chase others.

If you don't confess, how will she know, confess to her.

Then care about her silently first, she will definitely know, if she cares too, there will be a play.

If you like someone, you have to be brave enough to chase it.