University professors angrily criticize the phenomenon of picking up and dropping off children, why

Because picking up and dropping off children is a kind of spoiling performance, it cannot make children independent and autonomous, nor can they cultivate children's courage.

The professor believes that parents picking up and dropping off their children for a long time will reduce their children's independence, especially the phenomenon of parents carrying schoolbags for their children after school will lead to pampered children.

Because the child has not developed the habit of independent living since childhood, the child's dependence has been developed, and the problem will not be solved by itself, and the first thing that comes to mind is to find the parents, which is not conducive to the child's growth.

The university professor said that parents picking up and dropping off their children would ruin their children's remarks, and I think parents may just be worried about their children's safety, but there is really no way to pick them up and drop them off from school. When the child is still young, it is better to be picked up by the parents, otherwise once the child has an accident, the parents will regret it for a lifetime. <>

Nowadays, many parents will choose to pick up and drop off their children by themselves, and will not let their children walk home by themselves. In response to this phenomenon, a university professor said that parents would ruin their children in this way. He also said that in Japan, children walk home by themselves, and parents should cultivate their children's ability to be independent.

The university professor's remarks were opposed by many netizens, who said that the professor must not have children, and he will wait until the professor himself has children to express his opinion. <>

In real life, parents also expressed their hope that their children could go home by themselves, and also hoped to cultivate their children's ability to be independent, but the general environment did not allow it. Parents believe that there are many human traffickers nowadays, and the phenomenon of human trafficking is also relatively common, and for children, parents are really worried that they will go home alone. So parents have no choice but to choose to pick up and drop off their children, even if they are tired and hard, it doesn't matter, as long as the children can be safe.

It can be seen that parents are purely worried about the safety of their children, in fact, they will also feel very tired every day. <>

University professors may not be thinking from the perspective of parents, after all, they are their own children, and children's affairs are basically no small things, no matter how big or small. The situation of Japanese children mentioned by the university professor may also be due to the fact that each country is different. Personally, I think that it is better for children to be picked up by their parents in kindergarten and primary school, and when the children are older and have a sense of self-protection, they can let their children go to school and leave school by themselves.

I think every parent wants their children to grow up early, but they care more about their children's safety.

I think this university professor did not consider the national conditions of our country, there are really many human traffickers now, and parents don't want to be deceived by human traffickers because they don't pick up their children.

Although parents pick up and drop off their children, although they ostensibly hinder their children's development of independence, they will not destroy their children. Because many parents are afraid that their children will encounter danger on the road, not out of spoiling their children.

I don't think so, for some very young children, there must be a parent to pick up and drop off to ensure the safety of the child, and when the child grows up, there is no need to pick up and drop.

I think there is some truth in this statement, and the children who are often picked up by their parents are indeed not very strong, which will affect the child's self-care ability and growth and development.

Because parents keep picking up and dropping off their children, they will make their children very dependent on their parents, and they will gradually become very unindependent, so the professor will say that this will ruin the child, and parents should also learn to let go in time.

Because this will make the child lack independence, parents pick up and drop off their children is to let their children rely on their parents, and not picking up children can not only exercise children's independence, but also allow them to exercise.

Because picking up and dropping off children like this will only make children lack exercise. And it will also make the child feel that he is reading for his parents.

The professor is right, it does have an impact on children. Some netizens are also right, it does affect traffic. But I want to ask, who is responsible for the safety of the child? Who is responsible for the abduction and trafficking of children?

In fact, what the professor said is not necessarily right, now that they are all one child, can't parents go to see the child's learning and living environment?