My boyfriend asked me to chase someone else

There are two possibilities.

1. He still likes you, but his feelings are not so deep, and he is afraid of hurting you, so he makes this strategy to let you slowly accept others and forget about him; Clause.

Second, he likes you very much, but he doesn't have the ability to protect you now, give you the happiness he wants to give you, so he can't help but hope that others can give you the happiness he wants to give you, atone for his incompetence, and then he will recapture your heart when he succeeds.

It's best to give up, you don't hang yourself from a tree, "a good horse doesn't eat back grass" you know? Yes But he treats you as his best friend and doesn't treat you as his lover? It's possible that he doesn't deserve you, you leave him, the more you pester, the more you pester, the more annoying you feel, you know?

It's really like a cancer, saying that you want to give up is actually just to keep it, if you really chase another person, he will be very sad. He's jealous, but he's compromised, and he's giving you the choice. Your good relationship with your friend of the opposite sex makes him insecure. Of course, this is just my personal opinion.

You should tell your current boyfriend very directly that you love him very much. Say he's just a friend, just like everyone has a friend, and your boyfriend should understand you.

You can't have this kind of man, if he loves you, he won't treat you like this, isn't it just a man? Do you feel good about leaving him? What is he?

If you have a boyfriend, you have to keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex. Maybe he's jealous, and if he loves him, he'll chase him back!

He doesn't love you anymore, and you just make it sadder to follow him.

It's better to decide what you want.

Break it up, your boyfriend doesn't like you anymore.

Should.

At the very least, respect is still required. Take the initiative to tell him and let him deal with it, it will probably be better.

If it were me, the other party did not deliberately harass me, and I would generally ignore it. Of course, if you call ** after 12 o'clock in the evening, or send a message. I'll definitely call back.

Precautions for couples.

1.Don't be suspicious of each other, trust each other.

Have you ever been jealous of her or him? Everyone has it, because it is in human nature that there is no escaping this disposition. But please trust him (her) absolutely, not up to the eighty old lady (old man), down to the 5-year-old child, do not let go, as long as the other party's gender is different from your lover, you will be jealous.

Please give him or her trust, because the world is already full of suspicion, not even the people closest to you.

2.Don't say the word "break up" lightly.

If there is no principled contradiction, just because of trivial matters, different habits, or who forgot whose birthday, etc., do not say those two words lightly.

Human nature is to pursue perfection to a greater or lesser extent, and feelings are even more so. If those two words are easily allowed to cause a rift in your feelings, it will be endlessly brought up again, hurt again, and scratched again.

3.Don't be too sensible.

Falling in love is not addition and subtraction, please don't follow the rules. Does the emotional effort have to be reciprocal? Hopefully, it often backfires. Don't care who gives more, because being together is already the most desired reward in itself.

4.Don't turn away from the other person because you're angry**.

Quarreled! The fire is big! Lao Tzu is angry! If after a quarrel, the other party calls you, you can hang up at most twice, but you must not hang up again after the third time, let alone shut down.

Although it is not a ** that can solve the problem, but even if it is a ** in the middle of the quarrel, please do not shut down or hang up. Because what you hang up and close is not **, but the door of your heart. Or maybe it's a reason for you to continue.

5.Don't expose each other's scars, because there's no point in doing that.

Conflicts will always emerge one after another, and quarrels may also be an unavoidable problem for many couples. But no matter how intense, don't bring up the bad stories, because they don't mean anything but more pain. It's a good idea to reminisce about the good past.

6.Don't be small-bellied, be tolerant of each other.

Women need to be tolerant, because they can be exchanged for a man's sincerity and loyalty to you. Men need to be more tolerant, because it's not just the result of natural selection, it's a quality you should have.

When there is a conflict, please be able to give in to each other, because what is not to give in to your lover? Remember, you have to protect each other for the rest of your life, and don't die early because of your energy. Tolerance makes a woman more lovable, and tolerance makes a man more attractive.

Of course I should have told. 1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb in this relationship, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure.

I feel like I'm being hidden. Second, be honest with each other and show sincerity.

When faced with other suitors in a relationship, it is obviously impossible to refuse and hide that it does not exist, what happens is what happens, things will pass, but things will never go away. Therefore, when faced with this situation, the best choice is to be honest with your object about someone pursuing yourself, and explain to your object how you treat such a thing and how you deal with it. In this way, it will make the subject feel more secure and feel at ease, their subject does not need to be silently protected, they do not want to be hidden, and they want to be honest with each other.

If you don't do anything to be sorry for your relationship, then you won't worry about confessing your situation to your partner. Only those who do things that are invisible to people, stealing chickens and dogs, will be afraid to confess.

If you can handle such a thing, don't tell your boyfriend, and if you can't solve it yourself, tell it.

Don't tell your boyfriend anymore.

If you are a particularly beautiful girl, your boyfriend also knows that there will be a lot of boys chasing you, especially normal.

If you tell your boyfriend, he will feel that you are showing off, or want to make him jealous, and he will feel uncomfortable.

It should be told that if you don't say it, the other party will know, and the conflict between you will be more serious.

If someone pursues you, you can tell your boyfriend or not.

To be told, couples should be honest with each other.

Hello, I think someone is chasing you, of course you have to tell your boyfriend, and you'd better tell your boyfriend in a light-hearted and humorous way. In other words, if someone is chasing you, you have to tell the other party that I already have a boyfriend, so thank you for liking me. Then you go back and tell your boyfriend, for example, honey, don't you think I'm quite attractive, then my boyfriend will think it's right, you're really attractive.

Then you can say, scumbag, haha, there are still people chasing me! If you don't treat me well, I'll go with someone else. Then if your boyfriend is particularly cheerful, he will also say that you can't run out of the slender spirit in the palm of my hand, little cutie, so not only will your relationship not be affected, but will get better and better.

I must tell you that there is no leaky wall in the world, and the moment he passively discovers, your feelings will also be hurt, because this is an insincere behavior, and the most taboo in the relationship is distrust.

If you still want to be with your boyfriend, you must tell him and clearly tell him your attitude and choice, let him feel that you are sought-after and sincere, let him feel that you are so rare, so firmly believe in your relationship, this for him, there is also a sense of crisis, when he clarifies your attitude and feels your choice, he will also be very moved, and make your relationship deeper and stronger, much better than the helplessness and anger when he passively found out.

If you feel that you like your suitor more, then you should also be honest with your boyfriend and make it clear to your boyfriend that you don't have a sense of boundaries with other people of the opposite sex while being with your boyfriend.

In short, no matter what your feelings are for your boyfriend, and no matter what your choices are, you should tell him that he also has the right to know.

Blind concealment is not a good choice, you watch the TV series**, it is because concealment has led to a series of problems, which led to the final parting of ways between the male and female protagonists, so honesty is the best choice, and sincerity is the most important thing.

In a relationship, there is a person who loves himself who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object when this thing does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know.

However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day. This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb for this relationship of oneself, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure and feel that it has been concealed.