Do you think love depends on the right match ?

As far as love itself is concerned, there are no restrictions such as the right match, age, black and white ugly handsome. But the world is different, it is always required that love should be flawless, and marriage must be the right person, age and education must match, and only when you get married can you be happy. Only then will they have a common language, a common ambition, and hobbies.

No, but there is a certain saying that the door should be against each other.

Now we are young, energetic, and rebellious, we all want to pursue our own happiness, and we don't value material things, but more value feelings. I myself agree with this, how can love last without an emotional foundation, what is the meaning of living only materially, that kind of life is too dull, life should still have more love.

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In my opinion, love does not depend on the right person, love love, there must be love, or it will become the words of the matchmaker of the parents.

Love depends on the heart, and the heart is the soul. It's just that in the world, I can't help myself, and there are always mundane things that tie me up, including the right person. Therefore, the germination of love has nothing to do with others, but the growth of love is affected by many things.

The emphasis is on the person's origin, and don't underestimate the impact of the background on a person. Your tastes, your hobbies, your habits, and your values are all slowly formed in your family of origin, and they are not unchanged in the future, but they are all modified on this basis, just like if the seedlings of a tree are straight at the beginning, no matter how they breed branches in the future, the trunk is straight, and if it deviates at the beginning, no matter how much it is pruned, it is futile.

When the door is not the right household, the difference between the three views formed by the origin makes it easy to contradict each other, and the two people in love form a repulsive force. And the three views formed by birth are so stubborn that it is difficult to change, which has a huge impact on whether a love is lasting.

Loving her has nothing to do with it, of course, it has nothing to do with her family business, and you don't have to care if it's the right one!

I don't want to criticize these wise sayings that have been handed down for thousands of years, but the right match does not mean that it is a necessary factor in love! At most, it is only a principle that most people pursue or follow, but true love is only possessed by a very few, precisely because they do not depend on the principle of the family! So I think love depends on the heart, on love, it is above any external factors, and it is also the decisive factor!

The door is right, parents and friends are satisfied, and the people around them feel that they are suitable to send tens of millions of blessings! But the hero and heroine just don't feel it, they just can't love it, can you judge that this is love?

Today, with the development of society, the door has become a shackle that restricts love, and the younger generation no longer believes in these things, and wants to love anytime and anywhere.

If it is not a good match, the status of the two people in love will inevitably be unequal. After a while, they may put away each other's temperament and be humble to each other. It is impossible for most people to immediately change their living environment and habits for twenty or thirty years for the sake of one person.

After all, the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change. After a long time, the three views of each will inevitably show differences, and differences will naturally follow.

The door is right"It is a traditional concept that refers to the social status, economic conditions, family background, etc. of both parties to a certain extent matching or commensurate. However, true love does not depend solely on these factors, but is based on mutual respect, understanding, support, and mutual development.

Consistency of values: Do the core values of both parties coincide? Do you have similar views and pursuits about family, career, lifestyle, etc.? Alignment of values is an important foundation for building stable and long-lasting relationships.

Communication and understanding: Are you able to communicate openly and are each other able to understand and support each other's needs and feelings? Good communication is key to building trust and solving problems.

Matching interests and hobbies: Although interests and hobbies may not be identical, sharing some similar interests and hobbies can increase the opportunities for interaction and shared experiences, and strengthen the bond of feelings.

Supporting each other and growing in stance: Are you able to support, encourage, and help each other achieve their personal goals and growth? A true door-to-door relationship is built on mutual growth and mutual assistance.

Understanding and respect for family background: While family background can sometimes affect the development of a relationship, are both parties able to understand and respect each other's family backgrounds and be willing to face challenges that may arise together?

To sum up, the true love of the family not only depends on the matching of social status and economic conditions, but also on the basis of mutual understanding, respect, support and common development. The most important thing is whether you truly love each other and are willing to experience life's joys and challenges together.

It's better to be a good match. This is also the traditional concept of our country. In fact, sometimes these traditional ideas are not unreasonable.

Look at those who are not the right door. There are some women in particular. Married into a wealthy family.

Feel yourself. It will become a wealthy family. In fact, due to the wrong door.

After entering the wealthy family. will be subject to all kinds of discrimination. Some are even abused.

This phenomenon abounds. In the end, it led to divorce. Therefore, the door is right.

It should still be followed.

A lot of people are saying that it's right and not important. But in practice. It's still very important.

Door-to-door matching, not just family conditions. Whether the academic qualifications of two people can be equal. Whether the income of two people can be equal.

And so many places need to be the right door. Of course, this is not the same as the absolute one. And about the same.

There are too many cultural levels to be different. When those two people communicate together. It's more difficult to communicate.

Even a lot of opinions can't be unanimous. It may not be so obvious when you are in a relationship, but it will be even more obvious once you are married. Discord in worldviews can lead to frequent disputes and, most likely, parting ways.

Economic asymmetry. It will also be. A focal point of frequent conflict.

Rich people always feel. People who don't have money come into their homes to get their money. Therefore, restrictions are imposed on all fronts.

leads to the appearance of marrying into a wealthy family. In fact, there is no economic autonomy at all. On the contrary, life is not satisfactory at all.

Therefore, the economic door should not be the right one. Walking together does not necessarily lead to good results. Especially after some women marry into wealthy families.

I quit my job. Concentrate on taking care of the household chores with the children at home. In the end, he was out of track with the whole society and lost himself.

Therefore, it is still very important to be the right person.

The family situation is comparable, the educational background is comparable, and the job is comparable.

The most considered thing in love should be whether the other party loves you, whether the two of you have a good mode of getting along, about career, this is a guarantee of life, as long as the man is down-to-earth, he can do it. In de facto love, you should not intersperse too many things into it, be innocent, be honest, pure, preferably, you love her and she loves you, you can meet the necessary expenses of life, such as rent, food, commuting, communication, etc., and it is best to have a part of the balance, which can be used relatively freely, or stored to deal with various unexpected problems.

In general, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan in second-tier cities, and a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan in third- and fourth-tier cities can almost meet the above requirements.

Indeed, with the basic living guarantee, there are conditions to talk about comfort.

For example, if you earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but you have a salary of 996 yuan, and you have a goal of buying a big house in Beijing, then most of you will not be comfortable, but will easily become angry and complain.

Another example is that you earn a few thousand dollars a month, and in a second-tier city, although you live in a tight position, you are optimistic by nature and do not have much ambition, and at the same time, your work is very easy, you have a lot of leisure time, and you may be able to live a quiet life.

It is difficult to satisfy people's hearts, when you first work and share a house with others, you feel comfortable in a small room, and after a few years, the salary goes up, and you don't want to live in a house without a bedroom and a large living room.

The income is high, and the eyes are also picked. The poor have their suffering, and so do the rich.

Therefore, the key to comfort or not lies in the mentality.

In this life, it is inevitable that people will encounter unsatisfactory times. If you have a good attitude and live a relaxed life, you will be more comfortable.

Everyone understands this.

What really makes people happier and healthier comes from good relationships.

And in all relationships, it is the quality of intimacy that plays a decisive role.

It turns out that a marriage full of conflict and emotionless is bad for health, and can even be worse than divorce.

And living in a good, warm relationship is protective.

People in relationships who really feel like they can rely on another person when they need to have a clear memory for longer.

People who feel that they really can't rely on another person in a relationship will have memory loss earlier.

This shows that the quality of intimate relationships has a direct impact on a person's mental state.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not strong, no matter how good the mentality is, it will collapse one day, and the quality of the intimate relationship determines a person's mentality to a certain extent.

I feel that true love is spiritually matched! If the family is right and only pays attention to the background, then the short and poor and the dead fat house, the rich and handsome and the white rich and beautiful, are they a pair made in heaven? Can their love last forever and the sea is rotten?

Don't tear up too much.

The core of the family pair is not actually the family and background, but the values.

We can't ignore the impact of the family of origin on a person, the famous American "family master" Satya believes that a person and his family of origin are inextricably linked, and this connection may affect his life. The living habits of family members, the way of communication, the way of thinking to solve problems, etc., are all subtly affecting your outlook on life, values, and worldview.

And those who look the same or similar to you become your friends and lovers.

In this way, is there no love fairy tale of Cinderella and the prince in the world? No. To a certain extent, birth affects a person's values, but this is not the determining factor, there are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, even if they are twins, there will be huge differences in personality and concepts, especially, after experiencing social activities such as study, work, and socialization, the influence of the family on us will gradually decrease, our values will be dissolved, reshaped, new circles will be formed, and new love will come.

It determines how the two people look at love, marriage, money, success, and happiness.

Writer Liao Yimei once said: "In a person's life, it is not uncommon to encounter love and sex, but it is rare to encounter understanding." "Throughout our lives, we are looking for people who are on the same frequency as ourselves.

Whether a relationship can last or not, to a large extent, is a game between the two, I understand your world, you can also interject in my world, we grow together, face life at the same pace, shout the future with the same voice, I can keep up with your rhythm, my voice, you can also understand, evenly matched, in order to go to the end.

Love is a game, an opponent who is too strong is tired, and an opponent who is too weak is tired. Only when they are evenly matched can they support each other and grow together.