Can you talk about the feelings that you know that broke down because of the bride price?

There are too many, and how many men have suffered from it, and my first love and I are strangers for this reason, how can this society become like this? If you don't have money, you can't do anything.

I have a friend who is good to his girlfriend, the family conditions are okay, there is a car without a loan, an only child, but when he got married, his girlfriend asked his family to ask for a bride price of 200,000 plus a property certificate to add a name, and then the man's parents disagreed.

I only know that your thinking is too dead I didn't say that I want to get married now And you have the ability It's not that you don't have the ability If the bride price is not enough, don't you know how to be moved with sincerity Besides, I don't think you are doing anything to me Why should I marry I haven't grown up yet, and you dare to marry?

When it came to the bride price when I was about to get married, my parents insisted on asking for a bride price of 200,000 yuan, which made my boyfriend's family angry, and it was precisely because of the bride price that our two families collapsed that day.

The neighbor's younger brother in Jiangxi, his mother introduced a girl, talked for a period of time to get married, the bride price was about 100,000 yuan, and he had to buy a house, buy a car, and the house could not be lived with his in-laws, and finally the conversation collapsed.

The woman in the old family has to ask for 20w, but the man's family says that it is absolutely impossible, and the woman needs to post some money, the man has an RV, and the two families refuse to give in, so it collapsed.

My sister collapsed because of the bride price, but in fact, the main reason was that the man's family was not good and he was unwilling to pay the tens of thousands of yuan, which led to the collapse.

I am now a single mother of two daughters, I am pregnant unmarried with the man, and the twins were examined at that time, and I was happy, but everything changed after talking about the wedding bride price.

I saw a lot of this in my hometown, because it was a blind date, and the two came together, but when they were talking about the bride price, the two quarreled and finally broke up.

My sister and brother-in-law met on a blind date and were ready to talk about marriage, but the man was urging him to pull the certificate and set a date for pulling the certificate, but it collapsed when he was talking about the bride price.

Because the bride price talks collapsed, it explains practical problems, emotional problems, sincerity problems, etc.

1.Real-world problems

First of all, the first reason is really a very real problem, one is that the families themselves are not equal, or the gap in economic conditions leads to such a result, the man is unable to pay the bride price proposed by the woman.

2.Relationship problems

The second is the problem of feelings, sometimes the bride price is really not the fault of one party, and some may have a high bride price, but as a boy himself, he should have such a concept when he is in love, and what can be achieved within his own ability is actually what he should be, and it can only show that feelings are better than real money.

3.The question of good faith

Of course, there is also a question of sincerity, some men's families are actually okay, but they do their best to feel that it is best not to have less dowry, but as a woman, it is also necessary to save face when the family closes the house, so it leads to the collapse of the talk, that is, there is a gap between the three views of the two families will cause such a result.

Look at the man's attitude from the bride price

1. It is considered dispensable that the bride price is credible and cracked

If a man thinks that the bride price given by the man to the woman is dispensable, and even wants to avoid the bride price, he does not give the woman the bride price, and directly marries the woman into the house, and wants to omit the bride price.

In fact, the weight of a man's bride price to a woman represents the man's heart and love for the woman, and the heavier the bride price, the more willing the woman's family will be to give their daughter to you, because they can see how much you love her from the bride price.

He is not even willing to give a bride price to his future wife, and you will definitely not be good to this woman in the future, so what kind of bride price a man gives you represents how heavy your status is in his heart.

2. Be silent at the mention of the bride price

If you talk to a man about the bride price, he will be very silent, will not express his opinion, and does not want to talk about the subject, then he must not love you so much, and does not want to marry you much.

Of course, it may also be because of his family background, the family does not have much money, so he is embarrassed to talk to you about this topic, he may be afraid of losing face, afraid that you will be angry or even leave him because of the lack of bride price.

However, no matter what, two people must have a bride price when they get married, and this man keeps his mouth shut about the bride price, it is very likely that he doesn't love you very much, and you may not have the status in his heart that you must marry.

3. Perfunctory you even say that we will work together in the future

When you mention the topic of marriage and bride price with a man, they will perfunctory you, and even say that they will work hard with you in the future, maybe he really doesn't have that ability, so he wants to work hard with you.

But it may also be that he never thought of marrying you, so he never discussed this topic with you, knowing that the person who loves you will definitely try his best to marry you and then give you happiness.

The bride price is a hurdle that cannot be crossed when getting married. There are many couples who have a very good relationship when they are in love, but once they get married, they will face all kinds of problems.

In this case, no matter how loving the relationship is, there will be a series of quarrels because of these practical factors.

To a certain extent, the bride price is the man's attitude towards the woman, and it is also a kind of attention, I can do without it, but your attitude must be there, even if it is just a process.

In this world, no one is grateful for your kindness and cheapness, and we can't miss the bride price and rules and regulations, because in this world, there are too many people who don't know what to do.

For girls, you have to ask for it when you need it, but you can't open your mouth too much, in short, the bride price should be resolved on the basis of discussion between the two parties.

The bride price is a ritual to prove your sincerity, and the two-way rush is more meaningful.

But the reality is that there are many couples who are close to getting married, but because of the bride price, the negotiation collapses.

So, is it necessary to continue those feelings that have collapsed because of the bride price? The three people who came over told the truth.

I have been in love with my ex-boyfriend for 4 years, we have a very good relationship, my boyfriend's family conditions are very average, and his hometown is rural.

It was this request, and the boyfriend was embarrassed, he felt that with their family's current economic conditions, they couldn't come up with so much money at all, so he proposed to only give a bride price of 10,000.

At that time, I had already made it clear that when the time comes, I will bring back the bride price money after I get married.

However, my boyfriend didn't want to work hard for this relationship at all, but hesitated and kept doing my job, hoping that I could ask for less.

My mother-in-law is even more so, always saying that other people's daughters-in-law don't ask for a single dowry, and I hope I can learn from other girls. I can't accept such a situation.

Actually, I don't really want the money, what I value is their family's attitude, but my boyfriend doesn't pay much for this relationship, so I can't feel his love for me at all.

To be honest, I can't marry into such a marriage. Because it's been my life.

After separating from him, I met a guy on a blind date, he was very good, he was able to meet my requirements, and most importantly, he was very good to me, and after we got married, the two of us respected each other like guests and got along very happily.

At that time, I learned that falling in love is not the same as getting married, you can not consider those material factors when you are in love, but once you get married, what is in front of you is firewood, rice, oil and salt, if you have no money, your marriage is really difficult to do.

No matter how long the couple has been talking, as long as it is time to talk about marriage and start preparing for the bride price and other things, it is easy to collapse because of the bride price, and there are not a few couples who decide to part ways.

For girls, the reason why most girls care about the bride price. Basically, it's because they think it's the best way to test how much their other half and other families value them.

In other words, the girls feel that this is the last hurdle they have to take before getting married, because after this last hurdle, there is no turning back.

For men, boys can also see the girl's feelings for themselves through the bride price, they think that if they really love their girls, they will definitely consider the actual situation in their own family, and will not raise the bride price indiscriminately, and those girls who do not consider the actual situation and blindly ask for a high bride price do not seem to be suitable as marriage partners.

In the final analysis, the bride price is the last temptation that a man and a woman make to each other before they get married. At this time, love is no longer a love that can give everything for love, and it is destined to have some interests to measure. And it is often the calculation between the two kinds of faith that is the last straw that crushes the couple.

After the couple's relationship collapses, can they still get married? On this issue, there should be two slip elimination cases.

A situation where one partner is constantly compromising while the other partner is getting worse, is not suitable for marriage. The compromising party can do everything he can, while the party who has intensified is still unrelenting and puts forward demands that make the other party unable to parry, this situation is not suitable for continuing no matter how much love is.

On the other hand, there is a situation where both sides have made efforts and the talks still collapse, and in this case, there is more to be done. Because both parties are willing to work hard for each other, the bride price is nothing more than the woman's attitude, and the man will weigh whether the other party is worth it or whether he has the ability.

If the woman can make some concessions in the actual situation, the man can also show sincerity to reassure the woman, even if the relationship between the two people is still not easy to talk in the end, the relationship between the two people will not be greatly affected, and it is only a matter of time before they enter the marriage hand in hand.

It is important to remember that the bride price is never a litmus test, but the effort made by both parties to achieve the bride price is.