I am a 19 year old man who is often bullied by my colleagues, I hope you can help me!!

Are you more honest? If others are just joking with you and have no malicious intent, don't take it to heart, if you say something that hurts you, you have to be serious, let others know that you are angry, so that ordinary people will not say anything about you casually in the future.

Always remember to put yourself in a group so that no one dares to bully you, you must have a sense of group to not be bullied, so you must have team spirit! Don't feel that all people are enemies, because you are small you have to win the sympathy of some people, so learn to put yourself in a group!

Maybe it's because I think you're a nice person.

I want to amuse you.

Well, is it a woman who bullies you or a man???

If it's a woman, it doesn't matter, it's okay.

Normal to death.

If it's a man, it.

Cut him. Or express your dissatisfaction in an appropriate way.

Let him know that you are not a bully either...

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Watch more violent films.

If someone bullies you because you offended them, then you have to endure it.

If someone finds fault with you and bullies you, don't get used to it, what to do.

I advise you to exercise more and make more friends.

If others bully you, they think you down, and if you want others to look at you differently, you must first change your current situation.

Remember. Horses are well ridden.

People are good and some people are deceived.

What kind of bullying is it, if it is unintentional, don't care too much, the speaker has no intention of listening, there are many people like this, just relax your heart, if you are interested, check yourself in those aspects that are not good, just correct it, and be enthusiastic about colleagues.

I just grew up being bullied, relax my heart, and I will be fine in the future!

To be a little more powerful, the main thing is that ability determines everything.

...Copying guys, cut down those bastards.

If it's a mental bully, you can ignore them and pretend you didn't hear anything. While you'll still mind, it's still okay to ignore it. Be generous! You just have to work hard, work hard, work harder, surpass them, and then make them look at you again.

Don't be afraid of them, think carefully about why they are bullying you, if you are doing something wrong, correct it if it is, and ignore them if it is not.

They bully you You first have to see if you have any problems with yourself, starting from yourself, who are they Usually communicate with everyone more. It depends.

Endure the calm for a while.

Remember, in fact, suffering is a blessing!

Find your own problems first.

You're not somewhere to do annoying.

Everything has a cause.

Looking at the tone of the question you asked, it can be seen that you are more introverted, and the kind of person you said often bullies more introverted people, and they are all fine. Try to let them see your extroverted side in the future, and then, do your job well, let them feel that you have a great side, or just report this matter to the leader, it's not a big deal, don't be afraid of them!!

You should get along with them, everyone is a colleague, be generous, men should be upright, what is what, don't be afraid of this, as long as you don't break the law, you should also reflect on why they all bullied you together? Have self-esteem

Find out the reason first, whether it's because you're too introverted or your boss is better for you, etc., and sometimes be bold and ask them why they do that in front of all of them. If they say something excessive, observe who among them is the one who leads and who follows ... Then take the strategy of "distant friendship and close attack", ignore the leader, for the followers, when they are alone, you can chat, you can also care, this is complicated, try it yourself, be brave, be calm, don't have the heart of resignation, don't be impulsive, talk about strategy problems can always be solved, rest assured, believe in yourself!!

Forget about leaving this company, such a company is generally not full of work, and everyone is very idle.

Go your own way and let the puppy sweet go.

If it's a joke, you ignore them, and if it's on purpose, tell them well

If that's the case, you can only leave this company and find another company to start well.

Go to court and sue them for mental harassment.

After reading your story, I know that you are a very good boy, at least you will not cause trouble, but this society is so realistic, especially between people There is no sincerity at all, more sarcasm and exclusion, so you must learn to be confident, take out the spirit every day and regularly, and be a truly personable man, I believe that when you are confident, no one will look down on you anymore, first of all, you must look up to yourself, I believe that you will be able to do it, I support you. Smile at the villains around you!

Be realistic and learn to keep a hand

Remember. People are good and are deceived by others. In fact, people who are often bullied have a fire in their hearts.

It's just not time to explode yet. I think so are you, landlord. When it's about to erupt, it's more terrifying than anyone else.

And there is only one solution to this dilemma. It's about communicating with others boldly. Make them feel like you're not a person who doesn't care.

Before you get bullied, bully them.

I'm an introvert, but I'm not going to be bullied

Half of the people who are bullied are their own fault.

You have to be a little stronger

But it's not a strong force with a hurtful nature

To put it bluntly, you have to know how to protect yourself

Be peaceful with others and be generous

Look at the world from a transcendent perspective, such as looking at elementary school from the perspective of middle school, looking at middle school from the perspective of high school, and looking at the present with the perspective of the future.

Learn to choose and give up, choose a living environment that suits you, and strive to achieve it even if it is difficult. Remember to choose what suits you, don't be too self-conscious, and live too poorly like that.

1 In general, honesty is an advantage, but when you encounter the old and sell the old, this is a fatal shortcoming.

Let's give you a few directions.

First of all, have a good relationship with the leader, even if the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, you will only be damaged.

Second, try to find a satisfying, resounding friend among your colleagues. Sincerely exchange sincerity for sincerity, and you will hand it over.

How to find it? The most basic thing is to spend a little money and try them one by one. Of course, if you are sarcastic every day, there is no need to scold him.

If you can't adapt to this environment, let's change it. What is a diploma? A diploma is a piece of, you have three years of relevant work experience, and you are not afraid of not finding a job!!

Honesty is not your shortcoming, in fact, what some companies need most now is to be honest, have a responsible person, rely on people, and people who are too slippery don't need it, I have watched a series of dramas, which is the "Soldier Assault" staged in the past few days. He is what you say, but his hard work, honestly, in the end, in exchange for the praise of none of his comrades-in-arms, you have to work hard, you have time to go and see it, it is very good-looking, it will give you confidence, but you also have to have confidence in yourself, believe that you are the best.

Discover your strengths, move towards your goals, have dreams, don't just think about these, when you have had strengths with those who bully you, you will laugh at them, I can, work hard, and believe that you will succeed.

When talking to someone, be loud and look straight into the eyes.

Who asked the helper to use you as an errand runner--don't go and ask why, just say that you don't want to talk about the collapse, and you will fight if you break down The first shot must be ruthless (as long as the first punch goes out, don't hesitate, if you want to suffer, don't stop) I'd rather die.

In this case, even if you lose, no one will bully you in the future.

When you change jobs, you must become a different person after the change, and the first impression is the most important. ~!

Speak less when there are many people, speak when you should speak, and be polite and polite.

Respect for others equals respect for yourself. , you show respect to him, and naturally he won't be casual with you.

He'll respect you too, don't say anything to your friends, don't let them know too much about you, !

Well, that's all I can say. `!Be kind, eat when you should go out, drink when you can, !I won't let you drink it, and I won't drink it in the future, you know.??

It's better to be kind, but you can't go too far, you just belong to the category of going too far!! Be brave enough to say no and stand up for yourself!!

Let's change the working environment again, I can only say that your colleagues are too unkind.

Let's change jobs. Some small companies, but they are very united!

As long as you dare to say no! I don't think anyone can bully you, be confident!

As long as others are kind to me, I am absolutely kind, but I have met all those who are not kind, so I am not kind. Why don't I meet you?

Remember that "you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people".

Stick a bone cleaver in your waist when you go to work and see if anyone touches you!

You know your shortcomings ... Won't it change?

Buy a book.

Manual of Hypnosis

Yes, you're too honest, or too honest, remember: being too honest is a bag, and that's not good!

My suggestion is as follows:

1. Quit this job and don't work with your relatives because they will always feel that you owe them and you will slowly lose yourself and live uncomfortably.

2Find a job of your own, develop your own career, and start from scratch, after all, you are only 19 years old!

3. Re-establish faith in life, which should be purposeful, not aimless.

4 Being bullied is usually that they look down on you, you don't have to pay attention to these people, just work hard, improve your performance, and wait until the day when they ask you.

5Don't shut yourself up at home all day, make more friends, what are you afraid of!?Or go to a class to learn some specialties, or entertainment: such as swimming, or something. Have faith in yourself, just be the best version of yourself and don't care what others think.

6 If you have a girl you like, of course you have to tell her, what's the matter with a crush! Don't be afraid to say no! Just say it ...

Hehe, everything will be fine anyway.

Give them hair, and no one will mess with you again after a few fights.

The one on the second floor said really well.,Give it to him.。

If you want to be bold, you should first overcome your inferiority complex and have self-confidence. Start with the people and things around you. Take the initiative to greet the people around you, play with friends often, and don't always close yourself off and be alone.

Then you will have a feeling of being alone behind closed doors, which will not benefit you.

Being bullied? Why don't you bully others?

I said it casually, don't go too far. It's not cost-effective because of a small loss).

Don't pay attention to them, don't care what they think of you, go your own way, thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, no one knows how the other party mixes, and there is a program in the Spring Festival that says it well.

Others are better than my parents, and I am better than others than tomorrow.

Your tomorrow is in your own hands, and you can't stand this little one, how to make a name for yourself in society.

Go your own way and let others say go. The dog barks at you, and you have no reason to bark back"it"Yes. Ignore them and leave time for something meaningful. Hope this helps you.

I think you also have a certain responsibility in this matter, and when they scold you, you also scold them, which shows that you are not a broad-minded person; There must be a reason why a few of them are against you, they are not children or neurotics, and they will not trouble you for no reason (of course, this is also related to their own self-cultivation). Take a good look at yourself. Be low-key and humble.

Go your own way and let others say go

Ignore them!

Envy or envy, otherwise it wouldn't be like that, there are no natural enemies !

You ask him why he says bad things about you.

If you really can't bear it, just beat him This is how men in the Northeast solve problems, and as a man, they have to solve problems in this way.

Patience quietly surpasses him in business.

If you don't like it, you have to be careful.

There is nothing to say with the villain.

Of course, it is not impossible to resolve it.

They're so boring that they actually bully you!! Ignore them, I'm sure they take bullying you as fun, and once you ignore them, they'll find themselves bored, and they won't bully you anymore... A matter will not end if it is quarreled endlessly, on the contrary, if it stops, it will end...

You know what I mean??。 Good luck.

He can't bully others, don't care about him too much!

He just grabbed the weakness of your heart, and just wanted to drive you away, and you can't surrender at this time!

He can't let his purpose succeed! It may be that if the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the person is cheap, it will be invincible!

I'm envious, men can solve problems with fighting!

First pretend to be reconciled with them, then sow discord between them, make him have no friends, and then deal with him and see how he dies.