She used to be my girlfriend and we broke up a few years ago. But we ve always been friends.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is a word called things are people! I don't know if it's appropriate to use it here! Since it has been a few years since we have broken up, we must have a certain psychological preparation, maybe she is no longer the original her, and a lot of things can happen in five years!

    Maybe your idea is perfect, but she's already in another world! Taking a step back, even if she hasn't changed much, how likely is it that a woman will re-accept her boyfriend who has broken up?

    At the same time, you also have to think about it, why can't you let go of her for five years, a person who can't let go of five years, then why did you break up in the first place?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Friend, love is to learn to give, what you have to do is: you use your heart to express that your love for her is true, is wholeheartedly, is to give everything, to impress her with heart and affection, and strive to get her love, if you can't get her love, you have to learn to give up, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to be with him, I think it would be nice to think of a way to let him relive the good memories you left her and see if they can really be together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be nice to her, ask her what she wants, respect her, and you will grow old.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Move her with true feelings, every time she encounters difficulties, she is the first to help her and silently protect her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be brave enough to show your love, and only she knows whether she loves or not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do what she likes, and be gentle with her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's always okay for a man to take the initiative, you ask here, and we won't answer her heart, why don't you ask her yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go tell him, and even if you refuse, you won't regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can still be friends after a breakup.

    Either never loved.

    Or still in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love or not, only she knows if you still love her, confess.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let it go, or it will be a sin.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you have been with your girlfriend for a long time and know each other well, you should have a certain degree of trust, and of course, if you know her as well as you think, maybe you are right.

    Your kind of separation and integration situation shows that you still can't let go of each other, give each other more trust, many times things go in a better direction to think, people, make our own life simpler, easier, and the sense of happiness will be very strong.

    In fact, there are choices all the time in life, since the choice is together again, cherish each other, take it seriously, and really can't go on again, and there is no regret. Since love is deep love!

    People are afraid of losing trust when they get along with people, and without trust, it is really a chicken feather, and it can't get along for a long time.

    Give each other more trust, as long as you feel worthy of it, may you always be happy!

    I often encourage myself to think in a positive direction and change when I encounter things, so that I can be optimistic and sunny, and I like to see the perfect ending!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is not called thinking too much, this is called seamless connection, if it is just a girlfriend, it doesn't matter, you have to think carefully about marrying a wife.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This should be thinking too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Now that we are friends, how should we get along with each other, how should we deal with it?

    That might just remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    A breakup is a breakup, and you must never mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your adoption!

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