I m confused, should people be vain? For a dream?

Different stages of life have different thoughts, like never eating acid before, but now they start eating because it's good for the body. It is undeniable that a good university is different from a normal university in many ways, and the people you meet are also different, and it is not a matter of vanity.

I have also faced this problem before, and I am deeply touched, maybe I think it is wrong, prestigious university = reputation? This equation is rarely proven to be true, in fact, if a person has his own dreams, and then works hard to put them into action, in the end, he will definitely succeed.

Jobs didn't go to any prestigious university, just graduated from high school.

Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must be able to endure hardships and work hard, so that you can achieve something

The era of reading is the best, cherish it, and when the society is more vain, there are still many things to do, first accumulate good knowledge, and then there is capital vanity in the society.

It's good for people to have a little vanity, which can help people to be motivated, but everything has to have a degree, and it's not good to go beyond that boundary.

...It's good to be alive. The road is always to go on.

Just don't go crooked. Everyone has vanity. Society is the greatest vanity.

for yourself. Everyone will be affected by the environment in the depths. Each stage will have a different idea.

Well, first of all, you should work hard to study, and it's normal to be a little confused now.

Don't think about it that much.

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, I understood.

In fact, let your heart be shallow, ask yourself what kind of life you really desire, what you like to do, don't ask others, only you know yourself best, if you still don't have a clue, do the things at hand, no matter how big or small, accumulate little by little, you will feel that life is very good, it is really like this, in fact, anything, it is interesting to live, is to live in the moment and every moment.

Find a goal and make a plan for yourself. Then work hard.

First of all, look at what you have learned, look for jobs in that field according to what you have learned, and then see what you are lacking in, and strengthen it in a targeted manner.

The main thing is to have a big goal and then move towards it.

It's still rare to see a girl like you who is not willing to be mediocre, and it's good that you have this kind of thought. Don't give up on your current job, it is a starting point for your future development, and it is also for you to understand the society faster, master knowledge, and lay a foundation for your future. You have to have a good attitude, you can think that you are working here to learn how others manage and operate, no matter what you do in the future, you may be able to use it.

Starting from the small things around you, I think the most important thing for you now is to accumulate more experience, don't blindly want to climb to the sky in one step, interest can be cultivated, don't think too far, find your own goals in the near future, step by step, I'm reading a book now, "The World's Greatest Salesman" has ten chapters of parchment, according to the above will be of great help to you, will let you find your goals again, and you won't be confused!

You are a calm and thoughtful woman, why can't I marry a wife like you? All men want to have their own sky, and only if they have a successful career can they better protect their families and give them a better material life. That's why he wants to start a business because he loves you and your family.

But often too much haste can lead to blind consequences, and that's where you need to be.

Hehe, I support your empathy and your opinions, in fact, you can tell your husband your views, after all, no matter how dreamy you are, you have to see reality.

From your point of view, you can support him to do what you think is good, and of course you have to have a mature plan.

Confused people often don't know why they are alive, like the walking dead, their ideals are too high and they don't act, which is equivalent to a fantasy, and in the end they will draw water with a bamboo basket. A person knows what he wants to live, and achieves it little by little, even if he does not achieve the expected goal, he is also fulfilling, and he will not just think about whether he should do this or that, how to do it, and waste his time, and in the end he will get nothing. Everyone knows these things, I'm talking nonsense, but there are very few things that can be done.

I think that her habits have been formed, and she may have even lived like this since she was a child, and it is not easy or impossible to change her. So your thinking should be: if you can afford all her requirements, and the money you earn is willing to spend so much for her, and you can last a lifetime, then marry her, give up the idea of reforming her, and work hard to earn money to support her for the rest of your life.

Another option, of course, is to break up, believing that you haven't found someone who really suits you, endure emotional sadness and discomfort for a while, and continue to meet new people until someone who really has similar interests and fits you out. Breaking up is not a pleasant thing, the other party may be very hurt, but it is not divided into your own injuries, how to choose, you need to calm down and compare yourself to decide. Personally, I suggest that you leave her as soon as possible, her attitude towards life is not a person who can play a family, it doesn't matter if you talk about friends, just meet your emotional needs, but marry and go home to live like this, you have to ask yourself if you can stand it?

If you still have points at that time, it is better to make up your mind sooner now. Don't say that you can't extricate yourself, if you don't want to leave her, you are willing not to regret it, then even if it is wrong, it is you who suffer, and others can't say anything about you. Your conditions are very good, without her, there will still be many excellent girls chasing you.

Oh, my God! Your girlfriend is really good!

You're not married now, and you can still say it's because of love together. One day you get married. After a long time, you will know what suffering is.

I once saw a passage that said, "Why do men and women get married?" It's because life is hard.

If you face it alone, you will inevitably feel lonely and helpless. And if it's two people, it won't, and when the storm comes, you can hold hands and not be afraid.

That's what marriage is.

Do you think she will take your hand when the storm comes?

This kind of little girl who will never grow up has been spoiled since she was a child.

She is not suitable for you, and you will become a wronged person in the future.

Does she think that the secretary and the assistant are just to accompany the boss to dinner? I really don't know how naïve I will be?

If you combine this personality with her, you're going crazy.

So I think long pain is better than short pain. Do you understand?

How can a woman not be vain? It's not greedy for your money, or greedy for your figure, or greedy for your literary talent, if you don't have anything, no woman will choose you, look at the point, you are the same, you always have a place to covet her to like her, right? Maybe it's because she gives you the feeling that no one else can replace, then you have to accept her other shortcomings.

Dump her

You're not a good fit with him.

Attention, I'm not saying she's bad, it's just that she's not suitable for you, it's true that your values are completely different and you can't communicate at all about many things

Divided, divided

Don't want this kind of woman

It's torture to get married before it's too late.

I don't see how smart you are at all, your view of interests is very similar to mine, but how can you invest so much in your feelings, you contradict yourself. If you are really this kind of character, then you will choose to be rational over emotional in terms of feelings, and find someone who is useful to you rather than what you like.

In my opinion, you're better divided. You and Ben are her bank.

Behind every successful man there is a woman who is silently dedicated. I think you should marry such a woman. Now you have two paths: one is to desperately earn money for her to spend; The second is to find someone who is willing to share happiness and hardship with you. I guess you should have a yardstick in mind.

When you run out of money, you're going to drown in your girlfriend with spit.

Finally, I would like to say that if you don't listen to adults, you will suffer in front of you.

You know that she has so many shortcomings, and you still love her, which shows her status in your heart, if you are willing to continue like this, then keep tolerating like this, if you don't want to, then break up as soon as possible

Let's take a look, it is guaranteed that in less than 2 months, your place will be replaced by another big boss.

Hehe, you're a treasure! Who said that women are only blessed and share weal and woe?

Break up, such a woman is not worth what you pay for her?

If you are a person who dares to start a business, if you think you are a good person, you can think about the team. I can be contacted. I want a partner, a partner who conspires for great things.

You don't have to pursue too much in life, just be satisfied. It's good to live a luxurious life, but don't force it, make it easy for yourself, and you will appreciate the beauty of life.

In order to live, ideals, if you don't have perseverance, it is difficult for you to strive towards your goals, but life is a life that everyone who lives in the world must adhere to.

To live is to see how fair and unjust the world is. In people's hearts, they say that the world is beautiful, and if they are unbalanced, the world will not be beautiful, depending on how you measure.

Life is like a dream, I don't know where to go in my dreams, I don't know the scenery for a moment, I don't know the scenery.

In fact, all the reasons are only imposed on oneself after man has life! We can't be irresponsible for our lives.

Everyone's thinking is different.

So it's going to be relative.

Famous quotes don't represent all people.

Very few are outside the column.

People live for the mission; This kind of life is valuable.

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In fact, running business, expensive insistence, men 30 and stand, generally you see running business are more cheerful, flamboyant, in fact, there are more real, no matter what line you do, it is not easy to do at the beginning, but you have been doing it for a long time, as long as you are willing to learn, willing to ask others for advice, diligent to customers, visit customers, there will be harvest, but the harvest is sooner or later. No matter what kind of industry you do, some people may be more suitable, just get started quickly, but even if it is not suitable, it doesn't matter, the stupid bird flies first, you are diligent and learn more, I believe there will be a day. Have confidence in yourself, don't have stage fright, be strong in your heart, be diligent + persistent, you will do more and more smoothly, I hope it can help you.