In the confusion, big brother and sister, what s wrong with me What should I do Confused

If it's me, take the initiative to communicate with him, because I don't think there is a flaming mountain that can't be passed, and if you ignore anyone, it will only make the misunderstanding deeper and deeper. I wish you a happy day

First of all, you have to apologize to him first, because you hurt him.

Then have a good talk with him, maybe he really likes you.

The most important thing is to ask yourself, do you like her, but have been together before, and you don't know?

Understand for yourself what is primary and what is secondary.

Your current studies are the most important, and if you don't have a foundation now, even if you find a good wife in the future, you won't be able to keep it!

Clearly saying that you don't like others is a sign of looking down on others.

Hehe. Don't care what others say about you, how it should have been before and how it should be now, I encountered too many such things at your age, now think about how stupid I was at that time, if others say that you like her, then you tell others: Hey, I just like her, how to pull, does it have anything to do with you?

Is it interesting for you to talk about people like that? What is my relationship with you?

If you take care of yourself, you will get it, and you will be able to control others, which is really idle and panicked.

When the time comes, you can tell your sister, I am good friends with you, and you don't have to think about anything. No, it's going to be.

In fact, the relationship between the two people is quite at a loss, and he may be a little interesting to you like this, so you can just dating!

What's the matter, if you fall out of love or your work and life are unsatisfactory, people should look forward, emancipate their minds, and think more about happy and happy things.

May you be warm in three winters, and may you not be cold in spring; May you have a light when it's dark and an umbrella when it's raining. May you have a loved one on your way, may you be happy without pretending, may you be happy and sincere in this life. May time slow down, may the deceased not be separated; May someone accompany you from place to place, may the person you miss can say good morning to you, and may you not feel lonely in the days of solitude.

May you go through the world, complete the Three Realms and Six Realms, and see through right and wrong, good and evil; From then on, the blessings come to the heart, and they are all free.

1. Don't be swayed by emotions and recognize the importance of goals. The reason why many people can't get out of the downturn is because they don't know how to do it, some think that they can solve the problem by talking to a few friends, and some of them will do whatever they want, and the result will make the situation worse, in fact, at this time, you can't be swayed by emotions, the important thing is to find your goal.

2 52. Learn to be still and reflect on yourself. Find a time, find a place, calm down, take out a piece of paper, list your mood, list what you yearn for and what you hate, and see which one you need to change the most, you think of ** go, only in this way, your analysis is rational.

3 53. Don't idealize, learn to face reality. Everyone will have dreams, but dreams are based on facing reality, for example, your current position is an ordinary employee, but you hope that you will become an executive all of a sudden, that is also unrealistic, for example, you are studying history, but it is impossible for you to become a chemistry expert, so it is time to set goals and face reality.

4 54. The goal should be clear and feasible. Don't be confused and set a goal for yourself in general, but think carefully about what situation you want to achieve in the past six months, what efforts you have to make, one year, two years, how you have to work hard, and what goals you have to achieve. Set some short-term and achievable goals first, don't set a 20-year goal all at once, 20 years is just a direction.

Life is not easy, do it and cherish it.

You have such an optimistic face, I don't see a very confused expression!

Is the goal clear?

When it comes to goals, they are often associated with lofty ideals, in fact, if you haven't found your long-term goals for the time being, why not set some small short-term goals for yourself first? Make a plan for what you want to do or need to do recently, such as: change to a job that you are more comfortable with, and change your mediocre work status; Another example is to read a few books that are beneficial to yourself, and the harvest is always accumulated slowly; Even if you exercise twice a week, you can use it as a small goal to improve your self-quality.

Women will not eat a big meal, you go up to see your sincerity. When a girl gives you these hints, you should take the initiative to pursue her In love, girls are often very reserved. Because most girls are thin-skinned, they are afraid of rejection, and they are afraid that they will not even be friends after two people.

If a girl has a crush on another person, she won't directly pierce her heart. Rather, give some. Inadvertently hinted at revealing her own true thoughts.

Hurry up and pursue it boldly.