Do you have someone you love? Do you prefer to find someone who loves you or someone you love

I loved a girl for 5 years, and the first year I confessed to her, first promised me, and then refused.

We've been in touch for 5 years, because we work together and see each other often, but we are each looking for our own happiness and don't dare to cross the line.

We traveled together, watched movies, and every time we came back and separated, I had a bit of unpleasantness, and I knew she didn't belong to me.

As long as the other person is in trouble, they will do their best to help each other.

Yesterday she suddenly talked to me and said that she was going to get married next year, and my heart ached after hearing it, and she said that she had a quarrel with her boyfriend, and asked me what to do, and I said, I can't give you advice, my opinion will mislead you, I don't want to do that, and finally wish her happiness, and joked that the money is ready.

I know we're not going to be able to get along, and I've been waking up in my sleep for many mornings, and I'm going to think I'm going to dream of her later, and I'd have looked away.

I've never regretted knowing her, and I've never forgotten her in my life.

Maybe leaving is also a kind of love.

Yes, but I'm confused.

There are those who love me and those who I love.

Yes, it's the kind of fate that will meet in the next life!

I've been looking for it, but I haven't come across it so far.

I like it a lot, but I haven't felt it yet.

This gives the question a premise.

First of all? The person I love doesn't love me, and I don't love the person who loves me. Otherwise, this problem would not be a problem, hehe.

In the past, I would look for the person I loved, because I didn't understand before, I only knew how to pursue what I loved, and pursue the happiness I thought, but then I found out that I was wrong after love, because the person I loved, I didn't love myself, and I didn't care about myself, I would be happy for his words all day, and sad all day because of his words, but he had a cold attitude and didn't care, which was the most heart-wrenching, and he cared about it but didn't care about himself.

Now I understand, so I will choose the person who loves me, he will be happy and sad because of my words, he will care about what I care, he will not make me sad and sad, no matter what time it is, he will be there for me, no matter what happens, he will be the first to appear.

When such a good person appears in front of you, maybe you will be moved, no feeling, but at least with him, you will not be sad, and he will not let your heart be lonely and empty. Maybe one day in the future, you'll like him too.

No matter what, people have to be happy, if you feel that you will be happy with the person you love, then you can choose the person you love, if you find that it is not like that, you can try to accept the person who loves you, as long as everyone will be happy.

I hope you can make a choice that you don't regret and make your life happy every day!

Be happy to be loved.

If I had to choose, I would choose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulating, and getting along slowly may be better than going to yourself, if you choose what you love, you may be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love his person, and then people were not also a lifetime, some things are fateful, because even if you choose what you love, you will not necessarily be together, Maybe you choose to love you, maybe you will be together, people are destined, not who says who will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.