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That's fine. It's better to be outgoing. In this way, others will think that you are very cheerful, not pretentious, just be yourself. Maybe your boyfriend just likes you like this. If you're afraid that your boyfriend will misunderstand, play with him more and less with other boys.
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Don't change and hide your true self, I understand the psychology that you want to show the best side of yourself in front of the people you like. But the true self is the loveliest, the most real, and the unique. Maybe he prefers the real you to a perfect lady.
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The nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to change, sister, you are a sophomore in high school, I'm afraid it's a little difficult! Ladies are not as good as you think, and a little restraint on the spicy will make more people like it. Isn't the purpose of being a lady also to make many people like you? (
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…As the saying goes, nature is hard to move, and it ...... for 1 weekMaybe it's just enough for you to imitate someone else and then pretend ... Let's just let it be... Extroverted girls are actually not bad, wow.
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Congratulations, it's impossible, change it slowly, and if you change it too much, your classmates will not be able to adapt to it, and you will say that you pretend. Studying in the third year of high school will allow you to slowly change a lot. When you get to college, you unconsciously mature a lot, really.
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What you should be doing now is not to be a lady.
It's about being a focused girl.
If you change your personality in a week, people will only say that you are fake.
It's better to try to change slowly.
Change in attitude and temper.
Or make a little improvement in your grades.
It would be better that way
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Hardly possible. You are who you are, just be yourself. Don't care what other people think.
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Imitate the ladies of your class.
For example, speech, movements, gestures (I see the general like to cover the mouth).
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Like me, I wanted to transform myself into a lady, but I found that I couldn't. Actually, I deal with girls a lot, dress elegantly, lightly, and smile toothlessly. You have to go to the barber shop and ask the man to cut you ladylike and well-behaved.
But, think about it, if you change, will your boyfriend still like it? What the lady grabbed was a light, but you should still be spicy, lively, and have a bright smile now, right? Why restrain yourself?
Keep a little distance from other boys, only take care of the people you like, you and the ones you like are noisy, other boys, you can say two sentences and laugh at the end. It's OK to smile brightest and cutest at the person you like every day!
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Pull to put, a week? Are you God? Everything is done slowly, and you are just hypocritical in the eyes of others.
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Ay! My daughter-in-law is an introverted and silly lady, and she is also inspired to become a wise woman. Later, she became an introverted and silly woman. (t_t)
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A moment of time (dress) It's useless for a female man to dress up, and you can know with a few words.
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It depends on whether you are really stupid or not. Or is it [smart and clever]?
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When you fall in love, you will naturally learn to put on makeup
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It's good to give your environment and your own heart about being yourself.
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Should it be possible to pack it for a short time? In the long run, it is estimated that you will be depressed. Short-term immediate solutions: just listen, don't speak, cover your mouth and smile, nod slightly, move in a small range, and if you really want to speak, just speak softly.
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Personality can not be changed in a short time, but slowly changed over a long period of time, a week is too reluctant, only pretend,
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Read more literature, communicate calmly with others, don't raise your voice just because you talk about your concern, dance with your hands, be polite to people, smile and smile at people, don't laugh, don't move your hands and feet, don't jump when you walk, the ladies I come into contact with are like this, even speak quietly.
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Read, listen, learn art.
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It's not like a tomboy or a woman.
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Can I understand that you are far from the image of a lady now, or at least you can't find a defining standard?
First of all, you need to be prepared for change, both temporarily and in the long run. Many people will suggest that if you want to become something, you should be strict with your image as the standard of yourself, that being said, it is okay to be strict with strict requirements for a short time, and it may backfire for a long time, but it will become a form of physical and mental exhaustion. Therefore, being a lady is not a one-step but a little bit of the process of transformation, the former is abrupt and fast, the latter is not conspicuous, but over time, you and others have witnessed and approved of your changes, and these changes have become your habits bit by bit, it has quietly become a trait of yours.
What has been said above is not superfluous, but tells you a mentality of not rushing, taking it step by step, so that you can develop the habit of being a lady, rather than just pretending to be a lady. Every week or month or every six months or every year, ask yourself to change the same, change a little, and you can always gain after a period of time.
The second is to take action, mainly to improve the taste of beauty and accurately position the definition of beauty, whether it is in terms of clothing or inner cultivation. The main signs of a lady are dignified, graceful, elegant, gentle, courteous, sitting, standing, smiling, behaving and talking, sometimes abrupt and meaningless words are not as good as gentle silence and knowing smile. Usually when it is too late to understand a person deeply, her clothing has been regarded as our standard for classifying her, so the appearance must be light makeup, neat and dignified, coupled with appropriate manners and conversation, although people do not speak, but you have stood out in the crowd and polished people's eyes.
If you learn more and find that you are still as elegant as the moon in still water, then no matter who you are, you will be sincerely poured for you. To do this, usually look in the mirror more, pay attention to your appearance and gestures, and you can slightly follow the example of some ladies, such as Audrey Hepburn. Then read more books when you have time to improve your connotation, which is the source and foundation of your becoming a lady.
After all, a lady can pretend or do. It can only be pretended to be a day or two, and it will give people disgust after the original form is revealed, and it can be permanent, always like a bunch of white lilies, fragrant bursts, where people tend to be, where people go. In the process of action, it involves what you have started to say, bit by bit, step by step, you can slowly correct your walking posture, sitting posture, and laughing posture for a month, two months, and every day you ask yourself to read a book for half an hour, an hour, and so on.
In the end, it's a matter of perseverance, since you have identified a lady, you will be a lady firmly. Because in this era of "savage girlfriends" and "pretentious women", it seems that people have forgotten about ladies, but in fact they are not. It's just that now the word lady may be given more meaning, it is better to behave generously, talk elegantly, go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen, etc.
Let's write about this first, and then communicate and add when we have time.
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This is to your own mentality You feel that you are a lady, you are a lady Ladies are also different from person to person, the important thing is to be yourself. Live for yourself, don't be too restricted, become a burden· Hehe, I'm just telling the truth, I used to think about being a lady, but later I found out that there really is no real lady in this world, every girl is born cute and naughty So let your advantages be carried forward, don't restrain yourself...
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You can wear some ladylike clothes, and you can add your own temperament.
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There is also a Japanese drama called the Wild Boar Makeover.
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Miss Perfect Evolution Sort of, Japanese drama.
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You can check this out, Witch Youxi.
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First of all, you have to write down what you think a lady should do, and then go and follow the goal every day. For example, the column of "no swearing" is done today to draw a tick if there is no orange, stick to it for a week, and at the end see how many ticks you have, and then set a reward plan according to the number of ticks per week. For example, 'don't hit people' 5 ticks a week, and buy yourself a favorite thing on Sunday to encourage yourself to cheer up.
Hope you can!
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Dress up properly, make people feel pure, lofty and elegant, and the widest and most important is the elegant and cautious mountain.
Don't speak very loudly, be gentle, and walk in a word.
Try to be elegant, just don't make it look like it's done on purpose.
Empathetic, gentle and generous, smile before speaking, hehe.
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Try to be as natural as possible, just don't be too pretentious, and don't lose yourself because of that.
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In fact, the lady is also pretending, and this sentence is also true.
Because all images are pretended. Pretend first, and then form a habit at the end.
The first time I put on lipstick, the first time I wore a tie, I was not used to it, I was pretending to be it, and it was natural to pretend to come and go.
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Feign!!!
First of all, you have to learn how to pretend].
It certainly didn't look like it at first.
But it doesn't matter.
You can learn from others.
When you pretend that you don't think you're pretending.
Or when you get used to it, you become a teacher.
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Mature, steady. It's very difficult to do. I can't study it for several years. If you're not a lady, don't learn. I'm so tired
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"Book" girl, this breed is now endangered, if you want to know then you go back to the Jurassic, maybe you will know, ruthless!!
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Actually, I think it's best to be yourself, and there's no need to deliberately be a lady, so that you don't feel comfortable, and maybe the people around you are not used to it, because only being yourself is unique.
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In today's real society, it's really hard to find a lady! There are too few ladies, it should be very few, and now girls don't want to be ladies!
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Wear a lady**!
Still can't do it? Then speak quietly.
The demeanor is steady, elegant, and inward.
I like sassy girlfriends though.
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Upstairs I said everything I wanted to say, and I added to it. To put it bluntly, it is the beauty of the soul, and you can also read about the three from the four virtues and so on. Can't pretend.
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It's good to let it be, whether it's a lady, or a violent girl, you can live comfortably and happily without harming others!!
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is the language of a typical ancient Chinese beauty, who wants to be a lady and watch more costume films!!
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Just look at Korean movies, or if you look at the temperament of a master's degree or higher in college, you can just imitate it.
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Say everything is "people" and walk with a few steps.
People are so shy
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Lady? Growing up, I didn't know what a lady was like.
It's better to be yourself.
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Ziwei in Huanzhu Gege is a typical lady image, you can take a good look at Xuexue!
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You can be what you are.
Don't change your mind.
Don't follow suit.
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It's easier said than done, but it's hard if you're not in this life right now.
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Suave, with a modest smile, proper manners, and a gentle tone
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Where is the lady these days?
Or should I ask where there is a lady?
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Ladies don't pretend, as long as they are themselves, they are the best!
If you are a lady for a man, it is even less worthless, if you don't like you now, he has no taste, and it is not a pity to abandon him!
Now that the ratio of men and women is out of balance, are you afraid that you can't find someone who really appreciates you?
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Lady is a feeling of self If you want to be a lady, you need a process of self-improvement, not on the surface, but on the inside, a lady is not on the outside, but on the inside, maybe not full of poetry, but you have to be proper, speak well, behave elegantly, and have a gentle temperamentIn fact, these are just the characteristics of a general lady, the most important thing is your own cultivation, you don't need to be taught, when you feel that your heart is so elegant, then you have succeeded, because this is the nature of women, "Soldiers are confidants, and women are pleasing to themselves", I believe you can do it.
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Be self-conscious, don't be hypocritical, be lively, and be sunny.
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The one is not necessarily pretty, but it must be educated; I don't necessarily know a lot (but I will read books a lot) and simple words at critical moments can move and enlighten people; Extremely compassionate, caring, and unpretentious; You don't need to be dressed up, but walking by you must make people feel like a breeze and very comfortable; The most critical point is to be yourself, a lady is not made out, it is the kind of temperament that exudes from the inside out after developing a good habit ......
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You can't scold people, you can't speak loudly.
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A lady is not made, a well-cultivated woman is a lady.
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Just do the following:
1. Don't speak loudly.
2'Be graceful.
3. Don't swear.
4. Proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
5, and the most important point, is that the lady must be"Reserved"
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Don't deliberately move closer to the lady, pay attention to your image, manners, and manners, and be hygienic, civilized, and open-minded.
And behave elegantly and not be too impulsive. Also, keep a smile on your face at all times and give people a sense of intimacy. If you do this, I am sure that you will become a lady.
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For the problem of feelings, you just need to be brave, strong, and most importantly, optimistic! Although I don't know who you are! But I hope you can be happy, don't be too difficult for yourself for emotional matters, and don't let yourself be wronged too much!
The love that is worth paying, you must not miss it!
By the way, I'm going to tell you a little secret--- pat myself on the head and tell myself---I'm going to be strong!" I'll be brave! Right.
Shrewd! I'm sure you'll be happy and happy in 2008!
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