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Anonymous users2024-02-11What's so embarrassing about this, you say yours, talk to her about what has happened to you recently, you just treat her as a listener, what is happy or sad to share with her, she is also very willing to listen, if you listen more energetically, you will also take the initiative to talk about your feelings, this is not very good, don't worry about this, hehe.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10...It's so simple.
I used to treat my boyfriend a lot.
Often, oh, oh, oh.
Actually, give her a little surprise, or find some topics.
In fact, over time, this will change.
Don't worry. Girls are like this--
After meeting, the situation was much better than **.
Rest assured. Definitely going to be-.-
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Find a common language, find a topic that interests her. Learn to listen, not just yourself, and say that feelings are two-sided.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You should get used to the feeling first.
And then it's just a matter of finding a way to make her more cheerful.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Maybe you haven't known each other for a long time, contact her more, take her out to play more, and when you get to know each other better, you can find common topics, go to the topics she is interested in, so that you have something to say. Good luck.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06This has something to do with the personality, she doesn't like to talk, you don't have a problem with what you do, it depends on your own feelings, if you can't stand it, you know what to do, because I used to feel the same way as you, and I will get tired of this feeling in the long run.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Don't you have a common interest?
Actually, I don't think she may have much of a sense of you, otherwise she wouldn't have shared anything with you. Move her more from the subtleties.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04What's it like to have an introverted girlfriend? I'm 93, my daughter-in-law is 96, and she's been doing this to me since we met.
A group of people who are cowardly in front of outsiders, have serious social fear, and always bully me with their teeth and claws in front of me. She usually yells at me, sprays me indiscriminately, likes to bite me when she sleeps, and asks me to serve tea and pour water with her. But I love the feeling of being needed.
I have known my girlfriend for more than two years and got married on May 7. She has always been introverted and doesn't like to talk, everything has been my initiative since we met, and she has never said that she likes and loves these words. But I could feel her sincerity.
She thinks about me every bit of food, clothing, housing and transportation in life, although she always scolds me for being stupid, but she prepares everything for me.
Since preparing for the wedding, she has been worrying about everything. Although she never expresses it in front of outsiders, I can feel that she is planning with her heart. Although I do everything myself, I can't help but lose everything. So having an introverted girlfriend is definitely a happy thing.
Finally, the important thing about marriage is not the wedding scene, not the guests, not the wedding photography, the important thing is that there is such a person who is willing to enter the marriage with you. So having you in this life is enough!
Character is not equal to ability. Maybe introverts don't have an advantage in interpersonal communication, but you must be competitive in other aspects, such as being careful, rigorous, analytical, and so on. If you like it and want to do it, you might as well give it a try. >>>More
First of all, in terms of dress, parents' thinking is relatively backward, so parents must keep their image neat, generous, pay attention to speech and manners, these are the most important, to give them a good impression, not too introverted.
It is dangerous for introverts to go out socializing, because there are a large number of sophisticated people in modern society who dream of getting something for nothing, and they are looking for a suitable goal every day. And introverts are undoubtedly their best prey. These people have chic and generous manners, are full of affinity, speak and act neatly, and can even be described as "bold", such people can easily make introverts have a good impression and think that they recognize a trustworthy big brother. >>>More
I think your problem is actually not a factor of personality, but the main thing is that you don't have a topic and strategy for chatting, in fact, there is no need to deliberately find a topic or echo anything when chatting with him, just treat him as your family or a relative, and treat him as a small thing in many aspects of life, the problems you encounter, or a little secret that only the two of you know, if you really don't know what to say, it doesn't matter, you can also say some funny things in your relationship, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter what topic you have.
You can start by learning to talk to people who are not trying to please them, and try to be as easy-going as possible. When you get along with friends, look at what they like or know what they like, so that the conversation won't be boring. Try to give others some ordinary greetings, and slowly you will learn to become more cheerful.