My boyfriend is angry, but I m a very introverted person who doesn t know how to coax

I think your problem is actually not a factor of personality, but the main thing is that you don't have a topic and strategy for chatting, in fact, there is no need to deliberately find a topic or echo anything when chatting with him, just treat him as your family or a relative, and treat him as a small thing in many aspects of life, the problems you encounter, or a little secret that only the two of you know, if you really don't know what to say, it doesn't matter, you can also say some funny things in your relationship, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter what topic you have.

Tell a story or tell a joke.

Tell ghost stories.

Say whatever you want to your boyfriend.

He just likes you not to talk much, don't be a long-tongued woman, men will be afraid, a look, a small gesture of concern is enough.

Many people are introverted, since you really love him, don't treat him as an outsider, treat him as yourself, don't protect yourself like a cactus, don't say anything is pulling, let go of nature, relax, two people can say anything together, for example, both of you are speechless, you just pose and ask if it is so beautiful? Something like boring can become chatty and emotional in two people haha.

You can say something about the little things in your life... For example, in life, at work or in study... It's good to say anything, what to say, and talk about what you have at home...

There should be a lot of topics for two people to talk about together... Even if it's the happy things you usually encounter, you can talk to him about the troubles...

It should be natural and not too deliberate. When you're with him, talk about light topics or topics that your boyfriend is interested in.

Because the boyfriend thinks that only by explaining things clearly can there be room for resolution, but such a boyfriend is not reliable at all, and when he is angry, he must coax the girl first, and then reason.

Such a boyfriend is the right one, and if the boyfriend keeps coaxing himself in this situation, then it means that the boyfriend is not a responsible person. You have to understand some of the truths yourself.

Your boyfriend may be a very direct person, so he will only reason with you when you are angry, and he may think that he will be good for you if he reasones.

Because boys are like this, and one of their favorite things is to be reasonable, and when they think you're wrong, they won't coax you, but reason.

You must know that the person who reasoned with you, he just didn't love you, if he loved you, he wouldn't reason with you, but came to coax you, which shows that he doesn't love you so much.

Because this matter is not the boyfriend's fault, he feels that his girlfriend should not be used to it all the time, and should reason with his girlfriend and let his girlfriend become a reasonable person.

Because he didn't know how to make girls happy, he used the form of reasoning to make himself understand the mistake in the middle.

It shows that your boyfriend is a very principled person and a straight man, so he doesn't know how to coax you.

Because the boyfriend is very persistent in dealing with things, the boyfriend thinks that it is right and not the right person, so he cares about it.

Because these simple men think that we don't understand the reason to get angry, but in fact, they don't understand what we are because of.

Because the boyfriend felt that at this time, he must first explain the reason for the whole thing, and analyze the cause and effect of the whole incident.

He is for your good, there must be something wrong with you, a person is willing to pay for you like this, which shows that he really loves you.

He never jokes when you're angry, so he won't be spoiled. The girl was angry, and her boyfriend didn't even coax her. What do you mean?

Imagine comforting our friends or colleagues even if they are unhappy. Not to mention his girlfriend? If he doesn't even lift his head when you're crying, or just walks away, it means that he doesn't care about you at all and has no empathy.

A man who truly loves you will pay special attention to your joys, sorrows, and sorrows. He can't bear to see you cry, and he can't bear to leave you alone with grief and heartache. He will do his best to hug you, comfort you, and love you.

So, a man who doesn't even want to coax his girlfriend really doesn't love you. At most, it's a faint liking. There is a difference between liking and loving.

Beat you mercilessly, sarcastically mock you, and ridicule you. Some men have good appearance, good temper, and good popularity. When they come home soon, they'll find fault with you.

This kind of man, when getting along with others, can't get the sense of superiority he wants. He comes back to you, belittles you, and gets him the kind of feeling he wants. This kind of man loves himself more than he loves you.

He always sends signals that you are not good-looking, not good-looking, incompetent, and unproductive, and you are not worthy of me. If your boyfriend is such a person, then I advise you to go back as soon as possible, and don't completely fall into the world where he completely denies, and even suspect that you may really be that bad. So you can't do without him.

Why? Because you're also very uncomfortable, and no one wants to be with you except him. For the rest of his life, I can only be by his side and let him rub.

A man who truly loves you will appreciate you, identify with you, and respect you. Even if there are your shortcomings, he will feel that this is a sign of difference, called love house and wu.

So, when you meet this kind of man, you don't have to compromise. The rest of my life is not long. Why bother yourself?

After a year of dating, their feelings and dedication were greatly reversed. Ah Xiang seems to be doing her best to be with her boyfriend. The boyfriend who took care of her very well once became a man who beat her, sarcastically mocked her, and sarcastically mocked her.

In this relationship, the man does subtraction and slowly withdraws from love; And women, when combined, lose themselves in love. Now, Ah Xiang lives like a nanny. She's pathetic.

She didn't even dare to lose her temper when she was dissatisfied with her boyfriend. Otherwise, not only will no one coax her, but she will also be said to be a princess disease. A man actually has the following behaviors, which means that he does not love you that much.

I think such a man is either machismo, or he doesn't love you at all. Under normal circumstances, if the girlfriend is angry, the boyfriend will coax it, and the man should have let some women and should not be careless with women.

Because your boyfriend doesn't understand you, and he doesn't love you, he doesn't feel like he's wrong, so he doesn't coax you.

It is possible that he is more rigid and will not fall in love; It's also possible that they don't like you at all, so they don't want to coax you.

In fact, I think your boyfriend's emotional intelligence is very low, and he always feels that he is not wrong, so there is no need to apologize to you, and he should really stay away from such people.

Maybe people think you're too much, and then they let you lose your temper, and you'll be fine, and then they don't want to pay attention to you.

In fact, it's the kind of psychology that he doesn't care, and he also thinks that his girlfriend will come over to coax him, and he won't care too much after having such a habit.

Because he doesn't like you, he doesn't think you need to coax, and in his heart it's not worth coaxing you, so he will do it.

In fact, this is the psychology of machismo, thinking that he is the head of the family, a man, and should not easily coax girls.

In his heart, he feels that you are pretending to cry, which means that he never cares about you, he should not like it, and you don't need to be attached to him.

This is because his emotional intelligence is relatively low, and he feels that he has not done anything wrong in this matter, and he is not willing to take the initiative to give up his posture.

Why should I coax her fault, no matter how angry she is, I won't coax her anyway, what temper will get angry at every turn, it's not my fault why should I coax her.

That's because in the process of getting along, the boyfriend knows how to deal with this matter. It may be that the more you persuade, the more entangled, so you will be reasonable. Or it may be that his judgment character is more mature.

Why don't men coax you when you're angry, mostly because you can't coax you well. For example, the more you coax, the more angry you get! In other words, the more you coax, the more aggrieved you become.

When a man suffers from such a situation, he will remember it and feel that coaxing you when you are angry is like planting a mine for himself! Once the coaxing is not good, it is easy to provoke the fire and make a fool of yourself in public.

It's better to let yourself be rational and digest it yourself.

As people often say, the only one who can save oneself is oneself.

When a man is angry with you, he will no longer coax you, but will give up on you, let you be rational and communicate alone. Therefore, when a woman gets along with a man, if she is angry and the man comes to coax, she must know how to stop the loss in time, go down the ladder if there is a ladder, and never give shame. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will be left out in the cold.

Since you chose her in the first place, he must have his strengths to attract you. It's not easy for each other to get engaged. Women are very sensitive creatures, hoping to be pampered, hurt, coaxed, and loved.

And men often don't understand.

They think that women are the most vexatious. A little thing, it will be noisy. It's not a misfit. It's that you've been together for a long time. They know each other too well.

As a result, there was aesthetic fatigue and imitation of excavation. And every man's personality is different, and some people like to admit their mistakes as soon as they make them. And some will never fight back once they quarrel.

Actually, he doesn't coax you, maybe it's a benefit, women are always coaxed. When the time comes, it will be pampered and proud. It's not easy to meet someone you like.

It is even more difficult to get married.

Don't give up on a relationship so easily.

Many years later, you will definitely regret it. And you just lack communication. You think he's not good. You can communicate with him. If after communication, you still feel that he is not the person in your heart. You might as well make another decision. Hope it helps.

If a man does this, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, so it's better to give up and find someone who truly loves you to be happy.

Your boyfriend knows that you are angry and doesn't coax you to reason because:

1. He knows that you are angry, but he thinks the most reasonable way is to be reasonable.

This is the inertia of thinking that is commonly used in our land.

I used to be, and it was very serious, and it took many years of returning to Wang before I had an epiphany.

I suffered a lot of losses and studied a lot of psychology courses.

Your boyfriend is like this, it's really annoying, everyone is so angry, and he doesn't coax people, he's really a straight man, it's unbearable, it's so annoying.

If he really loves you and is just used to reasoning, it's okay to tell him and then guide him and teach him how to do it.

Because most of his original family, his parents usually use reason to deal with problems.

and his life experience, all of which he encountered that could be solved with reason, or he didn't find anything wrong with such a quick draft.

But that doesn't prove that this is all right, it's very different.

Because you don't have any other detailed description, I don't know if you are students, or if you have been working, how long you have been working, what occupation, your family situation with him, basic personal experience, or not much experience, etc., I don't know, so I can only say as much as I can.

Because between couples, the first thing to communicate is emotions and emotions, which is obviously that he can't pay attention to your emotions, which must be infuriating.

But now that you know, he can't know your emotions and ask him, so he still can't realize it, so I repeat that if you love him and want the relationship to go on better, tell him in as clear language or words as possible.

For example, I am angry now, because of what I am angry about, what do I need him to do, is to come and comfort me, if he can't comfort, what can I do, if not, I can push my land to him, let him see.

If he loves you too, he will do it.

If you are not willing to change, this is not called change, it is called growth, and if he is not willing to grow, he just doesn't love you.

2. It's just that you think that he knows that you are angry, but in fact he does not know that you are angry.

This seems to be a bit winding, because it is like this, your way of expression, such as the error of the state of the bulging, the difference in life experience between you and him, the level of his receptivity, and so on, will produce errors in the transmission and acceptance of information between you. That's why communication, intimacy needs to be communicated. No matter how happy "Family with Children" is, there are many such conflicts.

3. He knows that you are angry and knows that he can care about your emotions, but he still deliberately reasoned with you.

This is deliberately foolishness, even if you want to be reasonable, you have to calm your emotions first, and then have the opportunity to be reasonable. It's not called reasoning, it's about communicating with you. I once again emphasize the importance of communicating with Mu Lingxiao, as the name suggests, let's take a look at what is said in the text of the explanation:

Communication": Communication, there is a chasm, only need to be dredged. The ditch, on the left is water, which means that you need to pay "three waters":

saliva, sweat, and even tears to "communicate"; The right side is still "hook", the heart knot is still there, and the knot is unsolved.