Why do you unconsciously say the name of another person?

Calling a person's name unconsciously is because they care about that person.

People generally subconsciously call the name of the person they care about the most, the name of the person they love the most, because sometimes the person who people care about the most is actually the most important in their hearts, and if he loves someone, he will keep this person firmly in his heart, and sometimes he will subconsciously call his name and think about him, because he actually thinks about him every day.

Introduction:

Caring is a Chinese word, pinyin is zài hu, which means mind.

Qin Lisi's "Book to Qin Shi Huang": "The heavy ones care about the color and the pearls, and the light ones care about the people." This is not the art of crossing the sea to control the princes.

Yang Xiong's "Drama Qin Meixin": "The first generation of the people, the emperor first existed, and when he cared about the chaos, the provocation was rare, but he did not see it, and the world was unobtainable. ”

It may be that the person who has been thinking about it in his heart is usually caused by absent-mindedness, that is, he keeps thinking about someone in his mind.

That person's name was deeply imprinted in his heart, maybe they had a vigorous experience, then in fact, he originally wanted to live his life with the person whose name he said, but due to all kinds of helplessness in reality, he chose another person, but when he was in the depths of his love, how much he hoped that the person in front of him was her, he unconsciously called out her name, which may be a fantasy in his heart.

However, the above is only one of the possibilities, and I am often called by the wrong name, probably because I think these two people are very similar and have no special meaning. He confused the two men. If this is the case, then these two people should have a certain relationship, and their names also have something in common.

For example, the two brothers, although they knew that it was the elder brother in front of them, called the younger brother's name when they called. In this case, the distinction between the two is not very obvious, and the salutation is confused, and there is a slip of the tongue.

When the name is called, the person is thinking, which is the most common situation that causes a slip of the tongue. When the name is called, the person is thinking and has a lack of concentration, which leads to a slip of the tongue. Usually in this case, what he thinks about should be related to the name.

The two men developed an intrinsic connection. Unlike the first case, in the first case, there is an explicit correlation between the two, that is, outsiders can see that there is a correlation between the two.

And this situation is an intrinsic correlation, and there are many possibilities for such an intrinsic correlation. But it's all events that connect the two. For example, when I saw my current girlfriend and called my ex-girlfriend's name.

It was because of this intrinsic relevance that when he looked at his current girlfriend, he naturally contacted his ex-girlfriend and made a slip of the tongue.

Thinking about a person in your heart, you really say the name of another person unconsciously, what's going on?

According to Freud's theory of consciousness and ethnicity: all our thoughts, words, and actions are not in our consciousness, but in our subconscious, that is to say, many of our external behaviors have internal and subconscious motives and reasons, and we will not be aware of them. Includes:

Pen mistakes, slips of the tongue, missing movements, loss, forgetting, etc., are not simply caused by panic, nervousness, and carelessness, but the outpouring of a certain complex that we have suppressed in our subconscious.

According to Sigmund Freud.

In other words, many of our external behaviors have internal subconscious motives and reasons that we are not aware of. Including: clerical errors, slip-of-the-tongue, slip-offs.

Actions, loss, forgetting, etc., are not simply caused by panic, nervousness, carelessness, but the outpouring of a certain complex that we have suppressed in our subconscious.

For example, dozens of strangers want to go to a classroom to listen to a class, the seats in the classroom are not numbered, that is, sit casually, then we will find an interesting phenomenon, some people go directly to the front row to sit, some people sit in the back row, some people sit in the middle of the filial piety, some people do close to the door, some people sit next to men, some people sit next to women, some people sit with peers, some people sit with long seats, some people sit in very inconspicuous corners and so on. This process is completed in a few minutes, and it looks like it is very random to be in place, but it is not! Everyone likes to sit there for a reason, and this reason is that we are unconscious.

From the perspective of personality, this simple action can completely reflect a person's personality characteristics, extroverted? Love to express? Introverted?

Prim? Love making friends? Prefer to be alone?

Interested in attending classes? Tired of listening to lectures? Love to raise your hand to speak?

Afraid of the teacher's questions? Like communicating? Prefer to think personally?

Discipline in the classroom? Or do you go your own way? Know more about the opposite sex?

Multi-touchpoint homosexuality? Or is there some other motive? Just such a simple act of finding a seat exposes a certain motivation and need in our subconscious.

Please don't lie, because your actions, expressions have already revealed your motives.

I don't know, many people make this mistake.