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First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.
If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him (her), at least let him (her) feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.
Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you have rejected him or her.
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If it's a friend, find a chance to return it to him, and wait until he understands that you don't like it and don't entangle, if you don't know him, it's best to say it directly, don't drag it out, just order. But after all, you have to be a little grateful to the people who like you
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Just pay him back for you, and find a suitable opportunity so that he can't refuse your gift and won't embarrass him.
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Accept it, talk to him about dating for 1 week, break up if it's not suitable, and return the gift to him.
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Retreat, but not to hurt people's face.
Resolutely retreat. But you can't hurt face.
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You: 1 If you don't take it from me, it's useless to keep it, so you have to throw it away. 2 It's okay, it's my pleasure to spend money for you, and I'm happy to spend money for you.
3Our relationship is not based on money, no matter how valuable it is, it is just something that life does not bring and death does not bring, the important thing is my heart for you, I want to leave all the good things to you... And so on.
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It doesn't matter if the gift is expensive or not, the most important thing is your sincerity, as long as it is sincere, everything is the best, if it is not sincere, even if you give a mountain of gold, there is nothing to make up! First of all, you have to know what your girlfriend likes, and there is another part of the woman's duplicity, look at her mind, you are very dangerous because you don't know what your girlfriend likes and wants!! How do you do boyfriend!
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Hello, if she doesn't accept it, then you don't want to send it, if you still insist on sending, then you have to think about whether you want to continue to send, because girls don't accept gifts, probably because they don't like you, so you have to think clearly about whether you want to continue to send, and the gifts you give are too valuable, girls may feel that your financial ability is not very good. You can give it in exchange for a gift.
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Send something is simply send something, and the hearts of two people are OK if you understand me and I understand. Now young man, you give something to someone else, there is no need to tell her **. No matter what you buy, she will know what it is**, now in the Internet era, it is not difficult to check it, and you don't need to tell her at all.
And your sentence, will she still accept things if you send them in the future? These languages should never be there. You're in college, and you're not a child of one or two years old, so if you're chasing her, won't she see it?
Since you like her chasing her, you should have given her a gift. Don't forget that if you send it in the future, don't mention it intentionally or unintentionally, she will accept it if you buy it. Don't let people think you're going to keep a record of what you're giving away.
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As usual, a girl will not be disgusted that others have a good impression of her, you continue, if she treats you the same as before, it means that you have great hopes, you don't think of your own thoughts as hers. If she's unusually distant from you, she doesn't want you to chase her.
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You should give up.
Because long-distance relationships are hard.
At the same time, the success rate is very low.
I know you're not afraid.
It's hard, but you should think about it for the woman.
There is a saying that the building near the water gets the moon first.
You know. You will not be reconciled to do so.
No way, that's the reality.
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Girls don't like to receive gifts the least:1. Flowers.
Many people may think that it is right to send girls flowers, but in fact, not all girls like flowers, and the survival rate of flowers is very low, and they will wither almost overnight, and even if they are raised, they will wither quickly. In the past, everyone liked flowers very much, but now many girls like the kind of more substantial things, and it is okay to send flowers once or twice, and often, it will make girls feel disgusted. Therefore, when a boy gives a gift, he should never give flowers, and it should be based on the girl's preferences.
2. Snacks. Nowadays, there are very few girls who like to eat snacks, and they strictly control their weight in order not to gain weight. Therefore, the most disgusting gift for girls is the snack given by their boyfriend, after all, the snack will be forgotten after eating, and the snack has no meaning. In adult society, what girls hate the most is snacks and gifts, and if boys don't want to be rejected, don't give them.
3. **Box.
When I was young, many people wanted to have a **box, and after opening it, there was a villain dancing inside, but in today's society, this gift is too earthy. Boys must not give a ** box to satisfy a girl's princess dream, because girls hate this kind of gift, it looks very cheap and naïve. Every girl has different hobbies, so boys must learn about it before giving a gift, and don't give it the wrong one.
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It depends, after all, everyone is different.
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