Why do some people not like children? Why don t some people like children?

Maybe it's because I haven't had contact with children, but I don't like it on the surface, and some people like children only because they have to experience becoming parents.

A father for half a year will come to you. In fact, before I had a child, I was upset when I saw a child, and I especially didn't like those children who were making noise and crying, it was very annoying, in the heart of the man I thought, I was a child who wanted to play, how could I let the child restrain me. What do you want to do without children; If you have a child diaper to change, you have to feed when you are hungry, you have to feed when you get up in the middle of the night, you have to take care of your child's hygiene, and you have to take ...... to the doctor when you are sickI can't do it anyway!

So why have a baby?

I knew I was going to be a father, but in fact, I didn't feel as strongly as my daughter-in-law, after all, the child is not in a man's belly, and you still live like that every day, I don't feel it. Even when the child first came to my arms, he was stunned! I don't know what the concept of a father is, I don't know what to do when my child cries, I'm afraid of the feeling that I can't control, I'm afraid that I won't have room ...... life in the futureI was scared too much, but it didn't take long for my worries to be dispelled by my child's first smile at me, a feeling I will remember for the rest of my life.

I'm sorry I can't describe it, the child is growing up little by little, getting more and more skills, and I love my child little by little. I look at my child so much like me when I was a child, I feel that my life has been extended, life is no longer firewood, rice, oil and salt, but also has an extra taste, an indescribable taste.

At its best, both husband and wife are looking forward to a small life coming to the family. If one of the parties is not ready, but both parties are responsible, then there is nothing wrong with that, it is nothing more than a slow half-beat. If one party has no sense of responsibility, then the birth of the child is also a sin, and the child and the responsible party are sinned.

Both sides have no sense of responsibility, just, hey, there are really a lot of such China, and the children are also innocent, and after reading so many news reports, I feel distressed.

Everyone has a compelling reason, and around us, such things are not uncommon. Some people are the reason why. Abandon your own children.

It's because I can't help it. I have a terminal illness. had no choice but to leave his children.

There are also some people who are divorced. I found it again. New wife.

Because he is a wife, he is strict. That's why not. Take care of your own biological children.

In real life, there are a lot of such things. That's what happened to me. The two have been divorced for more than a decade.

When the woman learns that she has an incurable disease. I want to entrust my children to my ex-husband. But in this case.

Not only did her ex-husband not help him. And it doesn't matter about the child. Begging and begging again.

the case does not get comforted. This woman had no choice but to take her own child. Returned to his mother's home again.

After going back. He died in less than a month. Think of how sad it is for such people.

Think about the warmth and coldness of the world. Think about your own children. I am incapable of continuing to accompany and take care of my children.

had no choice but to abandon his children. Of course, there are also irresponsible young people in reality. I just know that I am happy.

The little one who fell down was abandoned. For the latter approach. I believe.

Later in his life experience. He would regret what he had done when he abandoned the child. But here I want to say this.

There are no ifs in life. Life can't be rehearsed. Everyone's life is only once for everyone.

Take advantage of it. The time now. Don't do something that you regret yourself.

And something that can't be remedied. Although you said that you abandoned your child in the first place, there was a last resort. But have you thought about this child?

He was at least innocent. He's because of you. will come into this world.

But you because. Some reasons. Or out of your selfishness.

And became an orphan. For a small child. There is no one with whom I have loved ones.

How pitiful, how helpless. So I advise those. People who don't like small children.

Or people who are not able to take care of small children. Don't have children. In this way, there will be one less innocent child in the world to be abandoned.

Of course, for those who are terminally ill and have to abandon their children. All I can say is. I also understand your feelings very well.

I am also very sympathetic to what you are going through. Just hope you're in your lifetime. Do your best to make arrangements for your little one later in life.

If you don't have any relatives around. You can find this local painting to give you enough support and help. Because this society is so good now.

As long as you have an appeal. As long as you are really in need of help. So.

**Relevant departments will. Strong support for you to help you. So before you die.

You can walk with peace of mind. So in real life. Those innocent abandoned children.

Not a very important reason, who would abandon their children?

Dislike of children may be caused by mental and psychological problems: 1. There may be depression, depression is easy to appear in a bad mood, unhappy, depressed, always irritable, for interpersonal communication has a great rejection and disgust, etc. At this time, it may be very sensitive, for example, it is particularly difficult to accept children, and even have a great irritability for lively and cheerful children.

2. There may be social stressors, such as recent work pressure, interpersonal tension, bad relationship between husband and wife, and family conflicts. At this time, you may be angry with children, especially your own children, and often quarrel and fight with them, and children may play the role of a scapegoat. 3. It may be that you have a negative experience in your childhood, and at the same time, you have suppressed a lot of contradictions and conflicts in your subconscious, and you can't get normal or reasonable catharsis, so you may have symptoms such as hating children.

Behind this problem, there may be a lot of subconscious contradictions and conflicts suppressed, and the external manifestation is to hate children. The above may be the more common reasons.

Don't have children, whether or not it will affect the relationship between the two depends on the friendship earlier than the individual's values and life plans. Some people are willing to have children, believing that it is an important part of life, while for others, they do not want children or cannot have children for some reason.

If two people disagree on this issue, then it can cause conflict and friction. However, if they reach a consensus, make a life plan within the scope of mutual acceptance, and actively solve any problems that may arise, then not having children may not affect the relationship between the two people.

So, whether you want children or not, be honest with your partner about your thoughts and needs, and try to find a solution that is satisfactory to both parties. The most important thing is to be open, honest and respectful of each other and face the challenges that come your way together.

Some people don't like it because they don't want to give.

There is an old saying that "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest", so our country has paid attention to inheritance since ancient times, and once the newlyweds get married, the family will urge them to have children. And now young people are under a lot of pressure, either postpone having children, or choose Dink without children, based on this situation, it depends on your family tolerance, if your family is very tolerant, parents and elders do not interfere in the affairs of young people, then you can not have children, and it will not have much impact on you. But if the family does not agree, then your family pressure will be overwhelming in the future because of the problem of not having children.

2. Family atmosphere.

You don't necessarily have to have children to live a good life after getting married, and not having children has the advantage of not having children, but having children is more fun. For example, during the New Year's holidays, Jingsui other people's homes are lively and lively, and a large family gets together, teasing children, talking and laughing, while your home is deserted, and the family is relatively speechless, at that time, even if you don't want children, you will still have a little envy in your heart.

3. Whether financial resources allow.

This is a very critical question, when you are young, you don't have children and feel very relaxed, you don't have to think about your child's milk powder money, you don't have to think about your child's tuition fees, you don't have to think about your child's growth, you can live your little life how you want, but what about getting old? If the other half goes first, he is lonely, there is no one to talk to, and there are no two people around him to bring water and medicine when he is sick. So if you don't plan to have children, you must save a sum of money, and you have to rely on your own financial resources to take medicine and live in a nursing home when you are old.

Of course, it is up to you whether you have children or not, and if you have already planned your future life, it is okay not to have children.