Why is the divorce rate in first tier cities such as Beijing and Shanghai close to 4 percent?

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It shows that the beauty in our lives is also sad, everyone has their own happy things, of course, there are also their own unhappy things. Happiness, some people will feel that they can go home to be with each other is happiness, feel that they can have a house and a car, and have their beloved is happiness.

In our eyes, we think that the happiness of coastal cities should be very high, because of the economic development of coastal cities, everyone may live a good life, then they must be happy, but what we don't know is that in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, their divorce rate will exceed forty percent, so why are they so high divorce rate? I think there are several reasons for this:

For example, housing prices, etc., the higher standard of living and the higher cost of living lead to people's life is very stressful, and the beauty of individuals are busy earning money every day, and there is no time to spend with their beloved, so there will be estrangement between them, or disagreements, and eventually lead to divorce, which is one of the reasons.

The pressure of life makes everyone have to be on time every day, work early and return late every day, and the time to stay with their beloved is not long, so they can travel and play together after they get married, and the time is very short, and the two of them will also have conflicts because of work, etc., so they divorce.

The pace of life in coastal Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai cities is very fast, and you can see it every day, going to work, busy people are trotting all the way to catch the bus and subway, or driving their own cars and blocking the road, etc., there will be a plan that is heavy, and the very fast pace of life leads to their stressful life, and everyone will feel uncomfortable because of this, which will lead to the breakdown of their relationship, and eventually lead to divorce.

Only for first- and second-tier cities.

In China, non-marriage and infertility have always been non-mainstream, and it is difficult to say that they may marry later and have children later, and vote with their feet on a large scale. However, the notion of not marrying and having children will become mainstream. Young people in first- and second-tier cities are roughly labeled as the following, and a careful analysis will find that each of them does not seem to have the need to get married and have children:

Either the economic pressure is high, and they can't even gain a foothold in the first and second-tier cities, and such people basically can't have children; Either the economy is acceptable, but such people often do not want to get married and have children, because it is likely to seriously affect their current living standards; Either the economy is not a problem, but they are very concerned about their spiritual needs, and such people do not care about worldly things; Either they are financially strong, but such people are afraid of economic disputes caused by marriage. In life, we tend to look forward to many things, but there may be some risks and *** to try this thing, when this risk and *** loose pants are big enough, we would rather not try new things, and shrink into our own small but warm little world.

This is the case with love and marriage. Now there are actually two very mainstream values, one is to marry high and marry high, which reflects that we are not willing to suffer. In reality, you often come across examples like this:

Girls with 150 like boys above 175, indicating that boys under 175 are not considered; But you ask 175 boys and they like girls over 160; And you ask girls over 160 who like 180 boys. But 180 boys are a very small minority after all. So you will find that in the field of marriage and love, the Matthew effect is extremely obvious, regardless of men and women, everyone is actually only interested in those few people, if you can't find a few high-quality people, you would rather not find it.

Second, the vigilance is very heavy, and everyone's mutual trust is very low. Some people are worried about the other party's domestic violence, some people are worried that the other party has a bad temper, some people are worried that the other party's financial resources are not good, some people are worried about the other party's excessive beauty, some people are worried about meeting a bad mother-in-law, some people are worried about the sky-high bride price, and some people are worried about the property after marriage. And now the first- and second-tier cities are stranger mode, you know little about the other party, this kind of information asymmetry blind box model greatly affects everyone's yearning for marriage.

Therefore, the people who get married are often either classmates who have an emotional foundation and a certain understanding, or they have a reliable middleman to match in a small area, which also leads to a weak marketization of blind dates.

Therefore, the overall environment of first- and second-tier cities determines that everyone has a low marriage rate and a high divorce rate. If you are involved in the child Chong Jianzi, then a series of bad things such as taking children and cram schools will follow one after another, and for young people in the new era who care about their personal feelings, they will retreat.

Hello! Because you have to make money by checking the book, so that you won't have so much time to divorce, because the environment is also good, so it's normal to be willing to travel or have a low divorce rate.

Shanghai is an open metropolis with a developed economy, a prosperous culture, and relatively open minds.

The essence of divorce is that the two people in the marriage are dissatisfied with the status quo, or on the material level, or on the spiritual level, in the final analysis, they are not satisfied with the reality (dissatisfaction), they cannot meet their personal expectations and needs for life, and they want to change the status quo, so they choose to divorce.

The higher the level of economic development, the higher the consciousness of self-realization. In the process of pursuing self-realization, if there is a crack in the marriage, it is easier to choose a divorce.

And the translation is as follows:

The more developed the city, the more men and women become helpless to survive all year round and the workplace, and some even go to the town and the international workplace.

The more money you have, the hard-working people will not get your shoes wet as if they always walk by the river.

At this time, it is necessary for two people to be considerate of each other and never abandon each other. Life and death depend on each other, and blessings and misfortunes depend on each other.

I hope that we human beings can be like Ruyi in Ruyi's biography, and be able to treat feelings without abandoning and communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems, which is the only way for husband and wife to never divorce and stay together.

Thank the Lord and thank us all for being alive. In this way, having a posture leads to a good happy life and contentment.

If the sun rises tomorrow and the sun shines abundantly over your room, thank the Lord and pray for it.