How do you speak confidently in a crowded place?

The whole person should be relaxed. Don't shy away from your eyes, but don't stare straight at it either. Breathe calmly and express yourself naturally.

Say "Invite me to dinner" as light and confident as "I invite you to dinner." If the other person perceives your tightness, he will be alert. Remember, once he is alert, he can always find 10,000 reasons to reject you.

The best killer is not how many defenses he can break through, but he will not provoke the other party's defense at all, and he has already plunged a sharp knife into the enemy's heart.

Personally, I think that self-confidence is something that I can give. Once, the first thing I said when I encountered a challenge was that I couldn't do it, but then I tried to say "I'll try" under the forced interference of a good friend, not just to say it, but to really do it, to give myself constant psychological hints, and not to underestimate the power of psychological effects. Of course, this takes time, and if you can't communicate with others confidently at the moment, then try to look at each other boldly, and if you can't do it, just smile and listen.

Let's say it word by word.

You don't always communicate with people without confidence, and there are times when you are confident, right? When you are not confident, you are controlled by fear. When you're focused on fear, you can't focus on chatting.

You are afraid of being denied because you want the other person to like you. Adjust your mentality: treat the other person as a girlfriend and don't expect the other person to like you or anything.

Practice more, experience more.

Arrive early to test the slides** on site, including checking the computer, projection, wiring, and page turner. Secondly, you have to walk around the podium, stand for a while, say a few words, look at the audience, and feel what it's like to be on stage. That is, to be familiar with the environment, understand the position of the stage, the position of the audience, and the position of the guests, and clarify when you will be on the stage during the event, and who the guests will be before and after.

The benefit of this is that the whole environment is no longer alien to you. Advance confirmation of equipment and speech order can also reduce unexpected situations and make you feel more at ease.

Don't deliberately care about other people's eyes when you speak (what you say is correct), in fact, I have also encountered these situations, go out for a walk, cultivate good exercise habits, relax your heart, and speak much more smoothly in the crowd, which are all psychological problems.

Look a little farther away, don't look directly at the audience, or look at the friendlier audience and tell yourself that they are on your side and want your presentation to be successful.

You will find that when you talk to your friends, you will talk and laugh and never be nervous. You're more cautious when talking to strangers, and you're nervous when you're talking to your boss. When you don't understand the other person and you even feel pressure from the other person, you can be very nervous.

Therefore, to deal with the tension of facing strangers, it is necessary to familiarize yourself with the audience.

If you're nervous about your presentation, you have only one way to take a deep breath. Even if you are an experienced host and corporate training instructor, the difference between your unprepared speech and your prepared speech can still be heard by ordinary people.

In my experience, if we want to speak well and make people look confident, we must first have an excellent design level and form confidence, which is what we often call self-confidence, and finding this can fundamentally solve the difficulties.

In fact, if you feel that you are not confident, you have no confidence in yourself, I feel that when you try to make yourself strong is when you have capital worth showing off, you will naturally return to self-confidence.

How can I be allowed to speak in a crowded place, I am afraid that what I say is not right, and others say that I am very unconfident.

It's actually very simple to want to be confident, are you a person who likes to sing, if not, then you won't have confidence. Singing can make people feel confident, and that's the secret I've discovered. I never sang before, I tried to postpone every time I had a singing activity, and I never dared to open my mouth when I went to KTV, and I was afraid of losing face in front of others, no matter how others pulled and dragged, I just didn't sing, and would rather sleep on the side.

But God just doesn't let people like me go, once there was a singing competition in the class, and everyone was required to participate, and there was no reason not to participate. I didn't think about how to prepare for the game first, but found a thing that can bless myself, this thing is called a wish bag, I found it in the store that helps you get rich, because it is open, the store Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said that they can bless people with all the best, I just want it to bless me not to make a fool of myself on the day of the game. I've always kept the wish bag by my side, hoping it would give me a little courage and confidence.

As the competition approached, I had to make some preparations, chose a song I liked, and began to practice at home, when I opened my mouth to sing the first sentence, it didn't feel so unspeakable, and then I let go of my voice and sang, and slowly found the feeling, I suddenly found that the feeling of singing is so good, and following the melody to experience the artistic conception of the lyrics, it will make people forget their own existence. On the day of the competition, people who had never sung in front of people, maybe everyone was not optimistic about me, but the result was unexpected, I didn't expect that I actually got warm applause from everyone, at that moment I suddenly had a lot of confidence, I felt that I was flying, and the result of the competition was no longer important. Since then, I have fallen in love with singing, and in singing I have found confidence, found myself, and found a sense of flying.

1. There are too many people to rely on, and you can only rely on yourself to survive. - Napoleon 2, self-confidence is the first secret of success. —Emerson.

3. Look deep into your own heart, and then find that all the miracles are in yourself. - Bacon 4, everyone should have self-esteem, self-confidence, sex, otherwise they are slaves. 5. Any point on the earth is equally too far from the sun.

Burton 6. The confidence we have in ourselves will make others tremble with confidence in us. —Lalawsfogu.

7. In addition to personality, the biggest loss in life is the loss of self-confidence. - Persin 8, a man of faith can turn the small into the great, and the mediocre into the magical. - George Bernard Shaw9, resolute faith can make ordinary people do amazing things.

Marton 10, Columbus discovered a world, but did not use a chart, he used the "faith" of the sky to solve doubts. — Santajana.

First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.

This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good. This is the most basic.

Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence. If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything.

The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time.

You can start with small things and gradually increase them.

Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes. As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength.

Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you. Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset.

Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself. When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.

In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you. To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.

Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.

No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

In the last sentence, as long as you believe in yourself, you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.

Boost your self-confidence to solve the problems that have been made:

Who am I? What is a person? What is Optimism? What faith? The first two must be understood. But it is possible to practice not developing theories, making more friends, cultivating a sense of achievement, and minimizing frustration, and frustration comes to the correct attribution and reduce.

A sense of dependence, more work, and cultivating a hobby that you love the most, or something you are best at. If you are not satisfied, become a nun and learn the Dharma, your heart will be stronger, and the Dharma will guide you: break the order of values, for example, I have low self-esteem.

I am happy, and your heart will not be in pain, but you must not force it, and you know that contentment is the way. Inferiority is a great talent, and ordinary people can't feel inferior if they want to be inferior.