Should I leave her or not?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you chose your current girlfriend in order to find someone to comfort you under the premise of being hurt by the person you love, so the decision you made at that time really wouldn't be impulsive? In that case, the current troubles are inevitable. You have also paid the price for your impulsiveness, then ask if you really love your girlfriend now, until you can do anything, even if she is not in good health right now!

    Secondly, it is impossible to completely cure hepatitis B with current medicine. There are many friends who think it can be cured, but are just confused by the current advertising. At best, it is to maintain the current physical health, pay attention to observation, check the body several times a year, and take medicine as soon as possible if small lesions are found, which should be able to maintain the health of the body.

    But it is impossible to completely cure it, and as for whether it will have an impact on having children in the future, you still have to listen to the doctor.

    Therefore, if you are together, you must prepare your own mind, and if you really choose her, you must take care of her for the rest of your life. Ask yourself if you want to? If you don't want to, then break up early, don't delay others.

    The opposition of the family is not unreasonable, after all, family affection is selfish. They also dare to make such a big move because they love you and care about you, I think you should think about it carefully, after all, they will live together in the future; However, if you decide that you want to choose her, I think your family will understand you too. 23 years old is no longer a child, be a man and make his own choice.

    Finally, I hope you all are happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's best to leave, although medicine is developed, but I don't know when it will be thorough**, you'd better check it, I was unconsciously passed on hepatitis B, and my body is somehow better, go to the examination to know. Love is precious, and life is more valuable! Mom and Dad have raised you for many years, I don't want you to be wronged again, you have to understand him!

    After all, you are a piece of meat for your parents, and you only think that you are selfish and unfilial, what do you say?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think you love her, you keep emphasizing a problem, that is, you are moved by her, so you have a relationship with her, this question is very important

    If you really love someone, you will feel sorry for her because she has this disease, not what you think now

    If you really don't love her, tell her early Don't delay others and hurt yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really love her, there shouldn't be any big problem, because she has this problem, and when she wants to have a child in the future, she may have to take an injection so that the child will be fine, because I have a friend who is too! Besides, any disease may be cured in the future, what is this! But marriage is a matter of two families, and you have to think about what your family will do to your girlfriend if she really marries into your family in the future, so you have a lot of things to think about.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hepatitis B is okay, it's not a big problem, you have to stick to your own opinions, convince your parents, and seize your own happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you willing to take on the responsibility of caring for her for the rest of her life?

    Or maybe you feel guilty about leaving her.

    If you can bear it, have the courage to bear it, then tell her that you are willing to work hard for her, raise her, and take care of her.

    If not, leaving is the right choice, of course, you can give her as much help as you can, without expecting anything in return.

    A momentary infatuation can lead to a very painful memory or marriage Based on the reality of the situation, if it were me, I would not marry her Marriage is realistic after all

    But according to what you said, I still want you to take care of her more in the future.

    Do you think your family will be happy like that?

    Since you can't be happy, do you still love her?

    If you think you can give her happiness, take this step bravely, and if not, live yourself first

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love still has to be loved, can hepatitis B be **! I wish you all happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love a woman, and she loves you so much, don't say anything about hepatitis B, even in the face of a terminally ill lover must not give up, in fact, she is also very painful, can you understand her? She doesn't want to have hepatitis B herself, but how many people can live a smooth life, who hasn't encountered ups and downs.

    It's not easy to meet true love in life, and if your family resolutely opposes you, it's a little too selfish, but you are a man, your family can say whatever you want, but a good man will never let his beloved be hurt a little bit. In addition, don't worry too much about hepatitis B, tell you that hepatitis B is divided into big three yang and small three yang, the small three yang is not contagious, but the big three yang is contagious, you must first determine her condition. As for the offspring, some are inherited, and some are not.

    Also, the big Sanyang can become a small Sanyang through **, go to check the body twice a year, and find that there is no problem with taking medicine quickly if you find a small lesion, my girlfriend just has hepatitis B, but I never worry about her infecting me, because I love her, even if she infects me, I won't blame her, just because I love her, because I love her, so I'm not afraid of anything. Friend, I wish you to cherish her well and have a good outcome with her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Dry !Maybe he's telling a lie I want to see if you love her or not1

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can see that you are a responsible person, but that girl should have told you in advance.

    There is a kind of love called letting go, and if I were her, I would let go of you and keep the sadness to myself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you leave her at this point. Do you still have humanity? Why can we only share prosperity and hardship? If you want to choose to leave the year, at least wait for him to come.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to figure out, do you love her or not, if you are just because of responsibility, I don't think you will be happy, few people can really carry out the responsibility to the end (although many people say that they can be responsible to the end), and then if you really love her, then it's no problem, love is love, why do you need so many reasons, besides, it is not your parents who can live with you for a lifetime, but the person you love, not to say that you do not respect your parents, but to really understand, you "love each other or not", this is the point.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although I also think that you should not give up this relationship, although I also sympathize with you very much, sympathize with her, and sympathize with your love, but you have to think about it carefully, because this is a matter of your generation, and the parents' disagreement also has their bitter loyalty, after all, they don't want their children to have a bad life in the future, of course, maybe you will have a better life after being together, and you must think carefully before making a decision. Don't get too emotional!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Really, if you really love someone, you shouldn't give up, whether it's poverty, disease, or war, and what disease can't be cured now, and it's not a terminal cancer.

    If your family puts pressure, it can only show your determination to see if you can move your family.

    If you don't love someone, it's better to give up and save both parties the hard work.

    The choice is yours

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I chose her because I was moved, then I think she is.

    A responsibility drove me not to leave her, and I was really lost.

    So do you love her?

    You know, no one in the world is healthy!

    Everyone has a disease, but what matters is what it is, in fact, hepatitis B is very common! There are 10 people on the street, and half of them have this disease! Diabetes is also present.

    A lot of people have! Now that technology is so advanced, hepatitis B is a reward.

    Medical! Tell her to be optimistic, and don't care too much about her illness, just keep a good attitude! Although it is contagious. But, as long as you two usually pay attention, that's fine!

    I guess now you'll only have to get past your own level!

    The most important thing is your own psychological problem

    No one knows what the days to come! If you really like her, then you have to cherish this relationship! After all, two people are also together.

    It's not easy, if it's you, and you get sick, what will happen to you?

    What if she left you because you were sick?

    It's psychologically uncomfortable, if everyone has to find a healthy partner.

    So what about the unhealthy ones? Isn't that sad?

    If you can't see it, then it's not about dying or living!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You shouldn't abandon the person you love for this reason. This only shows that you don't love her.

    Hepatitis B should be curable, and it will be okay soon after you are healthy.

    What kind of illness is not the most important issue, if you really care about her, you should stick to it, as long as you feel very happy.

    As for the question of parents -- I believe that there are no such desperate parents in the world, and they will always understand you if you persuade them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Feelings are not something that others can command, landlord I sympathize with you, you are now in a dilemma, on the one hand, your beloved girlfriend, on the other hand, you love your family, which requires you to make your own decisions, you can go to the hospital for consultation to understand the knowledge of hepatitis B, if you think you have the ability to take care of him, care about him, love him, you should make it clear to your parents, in front of your parents, we are still just children, parents also care about us, if you Thinking that this disease will affect your health, the health of your family, and even the health of the next generation, please consider carefully, after all, what is the powerlessness of feelings in the face of science, I hope that the landlord will understand the situation and make decisions, do not act recklessly, and finally hope that you will have a perfect result in "Expanding Your Girlfriend and Your Family".

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm so touched to cry

    I don't think you should worry about these trivial things, you love her, 94 will do anything for her, and a person's love is infinite.

    But you also have to do your best to convince the people in the family

    I was 94 with her with the monotonous idea of doing anything for her (because I loved her so much).

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to figure out whether your feelings for her are responsible, touched or loved.

    This is very important, if it is the first two, I think your relationship is not strong, even if you don't leave her today because she is sick, then one day you will leave her for this and that reason. So, if there is no love, leave him. There is only responsibility, no love feelings, and I don't think she wants it.

    Secondly, on the premise that you love her, try to help her heal, so that your parents know that it is not a big deal, it can be cured, and you can live like a normal person in the future. Then your parents won't object.

    In the end, no one can say what the future holds. Let's settle the matter at hand.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Emotional matters must follow their feelings. How do you ask someone to help you analyze it?

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