What is it like to somehow like someone who knows that there can t be results?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's that you have him in your head when you're working, he's in your head when you're eating, you're in your head when you're watching movies, and you'll think about whether he likes it or not when you buy clothes. Thinking about what he is doing now, thinking about becoming better, thinking that one day when he has the opportunity to stand in front of him, he can look at him with a smile, thinking... Just thinking about it, knowing that it is impossible, but I can't deceive my heart, I wear a mask every day to live a given life, if it is destined to be two parallel lines, so be it, I hope there will be no intersection in the future, maybe I will forget you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Knowing that liking will not have results, it means that she does not belong to you, as long as you have worked hard, but any progress, you can only choose to turn around and look back, maybe the person who really belongs to you is waiting for you not far away.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, everyone has their own opinion. Some people think that although they know that there is no result, they should also be impulsive for love. Sometimes love is just willing to do things that you dare not do in this life for the sake of such a person.

    I knew that there would be no result, and I knew that one day I would be separated, but I still wanted to take his hand and accompany him through the journey.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He was sick and cared only superficially for him, even though he still blushed and his heart beat faster at the sight of him. I don't have a choice, I just try to be a better version of myself. I resolutely did not choose to forget, because he was important to me, and he let me know that I am beautiful when I am well-groomed, that I will be appreciated by others if I work hard, and that it is beautiful to fall in love with life seriously.

    Even if there is no him in the future, he has already become the innocent and beautiful in my heart. I have to live well, live wonderfully, how can I let you down.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are too many regrets in life, and the regret of not being together is just a sweet dream, and I have to continue to live when I wake up. The relationship without results is destined to be a heartache, and if there is a hole in the heart, people will often be in pain, and if you are too tired to insist, it is better to let go, and loss is the real relief. Life is all vain.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Falling in love with a fruitless one, now I'm in this situation, I'm a man, I like a girl, we have done more things for the object, I have always admitted that she is my object, but people have never regarded me as an object, I am really uncomfortable now, I don't know why I always feel like she is running away from something, I always say that I don't want to think about falling in love now, but I like her sincerely, I can do everything for her, but she also told me that she doesn't let me treat her as an object.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you like each other, I think as long as you stick to it, your relationship will definitely blossom. I don't know why you feel like you can't be together. You should find this resistance factor and work with him to solve the problem instead of running away.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Like it or dislike it's a feeling. Who you like is only about how you feel. It's not about anyone else. Some people like it for a certain result, and some people just like it. There is no right or wrong way to this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You like the wind, and the wind doesn't stay and wait for you; You like clouds, clouds won't jump down and hug you; You like mountains, they won't go with you for thousands of miles."

    Like a person who knows that there will be no results, so is Wang Shen.

    Zhang Ailing has a sentence that portrays her life, "Love is a lifetime of tribulation, and not love is a lifetime of regret." ”

    The first half of the sentence is all because you want the wind to stop waiting for you, you want the clouds to jump down and hug you, and you want the mountains to walk with you for thousands of miles. Liking someone doesn't have to be together to be liked, and you can't force him (her) to agree to your liking because you like it alone.

    But you can't give up this love just because you like this, and let him become the regret of your life. You can tell him directly that you like him. You don't necessarily need him to respond, you just need to prove that someone liked him at some point.

    If he feels sad one day, he can still remember that there was once such a person who silently liked him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, it is necessary to figure out that liking and love mean the same thing, but from liking and love to wanting to get him (her) are two different meanings, and then there are some eyebrows when you figure out these two meanings.

    First of all, if you simply like or love a person who knows that there is no result, I think you can persevere to the end, always like or love him (her), and don't want him (her) to accompany you in bed for the rest of your life, so what is wrong with liking or loving him (her), but to make it clear that the one who likes or loves him (her) and the one who gets that heart are two different things, you like or love him (her) this is your own business, and the one in your heart Whether you like it or not, whether you love it or not, it's his or her business, you like it yourself, love is love, right.

    But on the basis of liking and love, and want to get him (her) who knows that there is no result, and you know that you can't get it, then you can only choose to hold on for a period of time to see if there is any hope to get him (her), if there is no hope, then you should give up or give up, why do I say this, because you have an age limit, for example, you are from the age of 20 to simply like or love a person who knows that there is no result, you can choose not to give up, But if you start from the age of 20 and like or love and want to get the him (her) who you know has no results, but you know that you can't get it, and you still choose to stick to the end and not give up, I'm afraid you will miss your life's events, so I said that you hold on for a period of time, but you can't get the one you like or love, and then you still have to choose to give up.

    Since you are only twenty years old, you insist on a year and a half, three to five years and seven years, and you should not miss your love and marriage at this age, such as at this age, you have room to pursue another person who likes or loves and wants to get the one he (she), if you are still hanging on a tree after the age of twenty-five and continue to insist on the one who can't get him/her, and when you are thirty years old, fifty years old, and eighty years old, you still choose to insist, then it is meaningless, so you can choose to persist before the age of twenty-five, If you are too old and know that you can't get it, you should give up, or if you simply love or like it, you don't want him (her) to accompany you for a lifetime, so you can choose to insist, but you should choose to give up if you like or love and want to get it and can't get it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sometimes I like someone, I like him so much that I can't do it, I always want to stick to him and send him messages, I always want to test my position in front of the objects in his heart, and I always want to be clear about his care and care, and that unique preference.

    There can be a variety of reasons for liking someone and staying attached, such as attraction, shared interests, emotional connection, etc. Here are some suggestions and considerations to help you deal with this situation:

    1.Know how you feel: Make sure you truly understand why you have a strong love for this person. Consider their qualities, personality, and alignment with your values. Be clear about your expectations and goals.

    2.Give time and space: Don't be too eager or dependent on the other person's response.

    Allowing the relationship to develop naturally and giving each other some time and space to be independent can help build a healthy relationship. 3.Keep it to yourself:

    While pursuing each other, don't forget your own interests, goals, and life. Continue to pursue personal growth and development, remaining confident and positive. 4.

    Establish in-depth communication with the other person: Have a sincere and open dialogue with the other person, sharing your feelings and desires. Building a relationship of openness and mutual understanding is essential for the development of both parties.

    5.Respect the other person's decision: If the other person doesn't feel the same way or doesn't want to develop the relationship further, respect their wishes.

    Be open to the possibility of rejection and maintain your self-esteem. 6.Seeking support:

    Talk to a friend, family member or counsellor about your feelings and confusion who can give you support, understanding and advice. 7.Self-reflection:

    Constantly reflect on whether your liking for this person is genuine and healthy. Make sure your feelings are not based on inappropriate dependency, fantasies, or other negative motives. Most importantly, remember to balance your emotions and reason, and be patient and honest with the relationship.

    Regardless of the outcome, it is important to maintain a self-growth and healthy mindset.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've asked myself this question countless times, and I've tried to keep it in my heart. Don't let this dusty person outside touch this sad past. Don't pay attention to his dynamics, endure not sending him a message, and even delete all the information about him when it hurts, etc.

    And will also pull him into the blacklist. But what's the use of doing this, when you really love someone, can you really turn a blind eye? The answer is no.

    At least I can't, I've deleted and added, added and deleted, deleted and added, capricious.

    I thought that deleting it would make me feel better in my heart, and I could forget it slowly. But it backfired, but it was more and more wanted. I think that to really put him in my heart is not to erase all traces of him, but to let go naturally and bless him silently.

    True love for someone, it doesn't have to be together, as long as he is happy and happy, this is the best way for you to love him. Don't hurt, don't entangle, don't complain, don't care, forgive him, let him go, let you go.

    Life is a mood, even if life is like a play. It's never time to rehearse, but the director in the play is ourselves. Whether it's for people or things, don't think too much, be simple, be indifferent, and life won't be so tiring.

    Like her gentleness, can't tell secrets, the best way is to ask her for clarification. It is indeed a combination of Zen energy without luck, so let the style drift with the wind, and love in the heart may not be impossible. Emotions are not a thing, nor is it a noble forgery of life.

    It is a precious legacy of true love, although it is meaningless, but it will also make you feel happy to recall. I've loved countless lives online and socially, but I've slowly learned how to deal with emotional proportions, so I put them in your heart without reservation. Don't let unnecessary troubles infect your pure friendship, and you will have endless happiness in life.

    There is no such thing as a sincere and pure liking in the world, only mutual use in the face of intentions. If you don't want her use value, she will betray you, or if his use value is not good for you, you will definitely dump him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There will definitely be no result, because it is impossible for two people in the first place, so there will not be a good result together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think there may be results, sincerity, gold and stone, if you like someone, always wait by his side, there may be results.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's fruitless, it hurts you very much, and you're also upside down, so there's no result.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no result, so you must learn to stop your losses in time, this is because the probability of two people being together afterwards is almost 0.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Like a person who knows it's impossible, even if you like it, please let it go.

    (1) Since ancient times, deep affection cannot be retained.

    The laughter gradually faded into silence, but the amorous was ruthlessly annoyed. In the world of love, the one who always gives more will sigh that he likes him so much, why can't he like me a little. There aren't so many whys, because love is the most unreasonable thing, and there is no specific reason why you like her, and it's not his fault that he doesn't like you.

    Now that you know that this is an impossible person, don't be obsessed, sometimes what you like is only the person you illusory, and what you can't let go of is not the person you like, but your own obsession and your dedication. When you really let go, you will find that you don't like him as much as you imagined, and you are often deeply trapped in a certain emotion.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, you must adjust your mentality, slowly expand your circle of friends, and slowly choose to forget this person who knows that it is impossible to be together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then be brave and pursue it, maybe a miracle will happen, so that at least you will not leave regrets in your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really can't get a wishful feeling, then you can only give up and contact other people, maybe you can meet another person you like.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then continue to like it, but you must not enter into marriage, otherwise it may be very painful for both of you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I know it's impossible, so let's keep him in my heart. For the person you like but can't, you might as well invest in a new relationship, because you can only forget this person when a new love replaces an old love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    At this time, I still have the courage to tell the other party what I want, even if I know that the other party is impossible, but I will not regret it when I think about it later, at least I have worked hard and fought for it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel that I can hide this love deep in my heart. You can help her when she sees her in difficulty. You can talk to her when you see her bored, but you know it. You can't cross that line.

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