It s all about inexplicably hating someone

Normal. Like a person, the main thing is to like the advantages that the person already knows, that is, to appreciate the point, which is in line with your liking, so you have a good feeling. However, it doesn't mean that there is nothing you hate about this person.

You can't know a person 100% well. So, when one day he exposes a side that you are extremely annoying, you will be shocked and of course disgusted. So, why should people think twice?

Look before you leap? Clam up? Be cautious in what you say and do?

Silence is golden? It means that your people, your thoughts, and your views may not be right, correct, valuable, positive, and reliable. Only standing on your own position and speaking and doing things according to your own subjective judgment is likely to be criticized by others.

It's okay for you to hate others in your heart, if you don't show it, you won't hurt people, and if you do that, you're definitely safe. But you don't want to be hated by others, you must know how to promote your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and don't let your own shortcomings or even faults, vulgarity, and disgusting others. If you don't hurt others, being recognized by others is the most important thing, and you are successful in life.

Then, when others have problems and shortcomings, they think that they also have bad places, the so-called people are not perfect, so as to adopt a tolerant mentality, to be tolerant and elegant, know how to take care of others' face, do not criticize casually, especially criticize others in public, and tell them not to do to others what they do not want, that is, there is cultural cultivation, your life is successful, you can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles, and your life will develop more smoothly.

France once said that a man without a friend is not a complete man. This makes me think deeply. I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution.

From this point of view, the folk proverb once mentioned that the body is sent all your life, and you will fly at the age of 100. With this in mind, we need to look at this issue more carefully: it is inevitable.

In this case, then, from this point of view, as far as I am concerned, the significance of inexplicably hating a person to me cannot but be said to be very significant. What is the crux of the matter? Everyone has to face these problems.

In the face of this kind of problem, with these questions, let's examine the inexplicable dislike of a person. From this point of view, why does inexplicably hating a person happen? Personally, it means to me that I somehow hate being someone, and I can't help but say that it's very significant.

This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. So, with these questions in mind, let's examine the inexplicable dislike of a person. Understanding what kind of existence it is to hate someone inexplicably is the key to solving all problems.

We have to face a very embarrassing fact, that is, Anonymous once said that life consists of two parts: the past is a dream; The future is one of hope. This sentence is like a bosom mate in my life journey, constantly motivating me to move forward.

From this point of view, in general, we must think carefully. We must unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem of inexplicably hating a person. However, even so, the appearance of an inexplicable dislike person still represents a certain meaning.

Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully. We generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved. However, even so, the appearance of an inexplicable dislike person still represents a certain meaning.

We all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered. It's inevitable. The so-called inexplicable dislike of a person, the key is how to write an inexplicable dislike of a person.

Under this difficult choice, I thought about it and couldn't sleep well. w。Clement.

Stone once said that if we can control our thoughts, we can control our emotions. It's a short sentence, but it makes me think about it. Anonymous once mentioned that if you really love someone, then even if you change time and space, you can change your face, you can recognize that familiar soul from millions of people, and then fall in love with him again.

It may be that he has some style or behavior, which does not meet your opinion for the time being, or the eye edge is a little worse, this is not a big problem with God, and if you get along with people for a while, you will find that he actually has a shining point, and you will gradually like it.

It's an amazing feeling.

1.It's like this between people, some people look at it right at a glance, and some people feel disgusted even if they only see their backs.

2.This feeling is not good, everyone has people who don't like the eye, and everyone has people with particularly good eyes, it's their own fate, some are born and some are acquired.

3.When you see a comfortable one, say a few more words, look at it twice, stay away from the disgusting one, and if you really can't avoid it, just look at what he is disgusting, you just do something, let him avoid you.

This situation is a discord between the five senses, and the sixth sense is not good, and it is reasonable to hate this kind of person, if you want to have a story happening, if necessary, create opportunities, and how he grasps it is left to fate.

Psychological Q&A: Why do you inexplicably hate certain people?

One: Because her values are not in line with yoursTwo: Because her behavior makes you feel uncomfortable.

Three: Too selfish and modest, let people dislike. Humility is a virtue of a person, but excessive modesty.

For example, when you take an exam, people usually ask you how well you did on the test. Q: How do you prepare for the exam? But you never share, and you say you don't understand anything.

When you don't get higher than anyone else, you will definitely be complained about and hated by others at this moment, because you are a selfish person who is afraid that others will test you, so you never share the secret of your success.

All in all, there's a reason for the wonderful dislike of a person, and it's not a strange psychology either.

Projection Effect - A wonderful phenomenon in psychology, have you ever tried to like or hate someone inexplicably?

It's normal to always suddenly hate a person inexplicably, mostly because the other party has done something that he particularly hates, and then he feels that this person doesn't look good, which is normal.

Maybe it's because I think that everyone can't get along for a long time, and only yourself is the best.

Personally, I feel that if you suddenly hate someone for some reason, this kind of psychology is a bit lonely in your heart, and others haven't provoked you, why do you hate him? Is this person doing something that you hate?

It shows that there is always one aspect of him that you are not used to, guide yourself more, everyone in this world is different, you don't like people to stay away from him, there is no need to hate it, and it will affect your mood.

It may be that you don't like this person from the heart, so you suddenly hate that person, or you may be jealous of other people's advantages.

Maybe you have encountered troubles, a little pressure, no place to vent, blame others for no reason, and relax more.

Maybe it's because you're not good enough, so you can't see others treat you badly or can't get used to seeing others live better than you, which is actually a kind of jealousy.

disliked, probably because his whole style of doing things seems terrible in your eyes.

Always inexplicably suddenly disliking a person is the psychology of self-protection.

In this world, everything is relative, and no one has a different position, has different views on things, and has different words and actions, so it is easy to have different opinions with each other, and even cause disputes. If you understand, you should not be obsessed with other people's actions and words, let alone affect your own emotions because they affect your current emotions.

It turns out that I like a person very much, and I will slowly hate him, and there may be two situations.

The first is that you don't know this person, what you like is actually what you imagine him, and then through getting along, time makes this person more clearly shown in front of you, and you find that he is far from the person you originally liked, and then your psychology will change. One possible change is that you feel that he has changed or that he has deceived you by pretending to be himself, so he is a hateful face, so you slowly hate him. Another possibility is that the person you like is a fantasy of yourself, feeling self-deception, and a little self-pity, such a self also makes you feel a little disappointed and ashamed, so slowly hate the person who makes you feel ashamed.

Second, you know this person and really like him, but he is ordinary or even indifferent to you, and the feelings, effort and time paid cannot be exchanged for the same giving, and you will slowly hate this person, because you hate him for despising your sincerity and feelings, and hate to like this person yourself, so you should stop liking him, and replace it with hating him, in order to comfort your injured self-esteem and retain that little bit of dignity.

Most of the interactions between people are about reflecting themselves through others and deepening their understanding of themselves. And the self refracted from others may be good, and it will be the self that we like, then we will like to associate with this person; It could also be bad, it would be the self that we hate, then we might hate associating with this person.