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For most people, when they make friends, they make friends who are about the same age as themselves. Because people of the same age generally have more common topics, everyone has a topic to talk about together. At the same time, there is almost no generation gap at the same age stage, and everyone's interests and hobbies are similar, so they can play together.
If there is too much difference in age from us, we generally do not make friends with them, after all, if they are older than ourselves, they will generally be treated as elders. However, there are also good friends with a big age difference. If a person is more mature in mind, then he likes to make friends who are older than himself.
For example, Hua Chenyu and Xu Qing in "Flowers and Boys" have a good relationship, and the two are said to be each other's "soul mates". For this reason, many people are skeptical. So, do you believe that Hua Chenyu, born in the 90s, and Xu Qing, born in the 60s, are really pure soul mates?
Personally, I still believe it, because from the process of getting along with them, I can feel that Xu Qing treats Hua Chenyu as a younger brother.
In the program "Flowers and Youth", you can see the exchange between Hua Chenyu and Xu Qing from time to time. Without mentioning Xu Qing's age, some people may think that they may be able to develop a relationship with each other. However, after all, the age difference between the two is about 20 years old, I believe that Hua Chenyu will not find a girlfriend who is so much older than him, right?
At least from their interaction in the show, it can be roughly seen that Hua Chenyu respects Xu Qing very much, and Xu Qing takes good care of Hua Chenyu. Therefore,Personally, I feel that the two are pure friendship, and I believe that they are indeed "soul mates".
But what about pure friendship between men and women? If Xu Qing simply regarded Hua Chenyu as her younger brother, then why did she choose Hua Chenyu? Since they have already said that the other party is their soul mate, they must know everything.
Doesn't such a state look like intimacy between couples?
In short, what exactly is the relationship between them is known only to them, and we outsiders do not know. But in terms of the signals that are conveyed between them, I personally think that they should still be pure soul mates. What do you think?
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It's okay to mess around and have fun.
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Of course, I believe that first of all, the age gap between the two of them is so big, it is not suitable at all, they just appreciate each other.
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I believe. A post-90s and a post-60s, two people together can only be pure soul mates.
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I absolutely don't believe that the two of them will be pure soul mates, it should be that Hua Chenyu wants to find a backer and befriended Xu Qing, and Xu Qing happens to be relatively lonely.
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Personally, I think it is indeed a pure soul mate, after all, the age difference between the two people is still very large, and they can only be soul mates.
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I think yes, I feel like they appreciate each other, understand each other's thoughts, and are soul mates.
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The two of them should be soulmates, because the two of them may be more topical and understand each other better.
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What kind of secret is between Hua Chenyu and Xu Qing, we don't know, but Xu Qing once used a paragraph to summarize the relationship between himself and the other party, that is, the two will love each other for life, but this kind of love is not the love of men and women, it is the third kind beyond this relationship, the wonderful relationship between the two is more like friendship, the love is not full, and it stops at family affection.
When Hua Chenyu and Xu Qing participated in the show together, Xu Qing did not hide her appreciation for this big boy at all, and even showed her shy side to each other unabashedly, Hua Chenyu also fell drunk in Xu Qing's arms several times, and there is indeed a very close relationship between the two from an outsider's perspective. However, because of the huge age gap between the two, and the fact that they were both silent about this relationship, there was no sound after the scandal spread for a while.
Hua Chenyu said to the outside world that the relationship between himself and Xu Qing is more like brothers and sisters, and Xu Qing also recognizes this statement very much, after all, the variety shows in which the two of them have participated in archaeology, the two of them are very close, and Xu Qing always looks at Hua Chenyu with deep eyes. Hua Chenyu also once emotionally said that he really likes Xu Qing, but at the same time, he also said that the two people are really too similar, and they will not fall in love with each other, liking a person and falling in love with a person are different feelings, for Hua Chenyu, love will rush up to confess directly, get married and have children, on the other hand, with Xu Qing, it is more like a big sister taking care of her little brother, this kind of intimacy is spontaneous.
When Xu Qing was a guest on "Venus Show", she was also sharply asked by the poisonous female host Jin Xing: Is there a love relationship with Hua Chenyu? After Xu Qing heard this question, she also said frankly that the two really love each other, but they can only be soul mates, and they don't have much contact in life.
Xu Qing is very frank when it comes to this question, and the relationship between her and Hua Chenyu only stops at relatives, and is more like pure like-minded friends.
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The two of them are each other's soul mates, although there is a big age difference between the two people, but in the process of getting along, they found that the personalities of the two people are very similar, and they can understand the deepest thoughts in each other's hearts.
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She said that the two are the soul mates who know each other best, and the two of them met each other by participating in a variety show, and they have been getting along as good friends in recent years.
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The relationship between aunts and nephews, their relationship is great, the two of them are very connected, and they are also relatively intimate.
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53-year-old Xu Qing said the real relationship with Hua Chenyu, the two are intimate beyond friends, first of all, Hua Chenyu said that Xu Qing is his goddess. Secondly, Xu Qing thinks that he and Hua Chenyu are soul mates, the kind of relationship that transcends a romantic relationship.
When it comes to Xu Qing and Hua Chenyu, I believe that many people's impressions of them have remained in the former variety show "Flowers and Boys". There is also a lot of speculation about the intimate relationship between the two, some people believe that the two are in a relationship, and some people think that the two are soul mates. In this regard, the two of them once admitted the relationship between the two parties.
First of all, Hua Chenyu said that Xu Qing was his goddess. Hua Chenyu is actually not very shy about his relationship with Xu Qing, he feels that Xu Qing is a goddess-like existence in his mind. In fact, Xu Qing is not only the goddess of Hua Chenyu, but also the goddess of many people, because he is in his 50s, but he is so young and beautiful, like a little girl in her twenties and thirties.
Xu Qing speaks slowly, very gently, a little playful and cute in maturity, and her acting skills are so good, so powerful, who wouldn't like such a girl. Therefore, if Hua Chenyu really regards Xu Qing as the goddess in his mind, I think it is completely understandable.
Secondly, Xu Qing thinks that he and Hua Chenyu are soul mates, the kind of relationship that transcends a romantic relationship. Xu Qing once generously admitted in a variety show that he and Hua Chenyu are soul mates, they understand each other very well, they understand each other very well, he appreciates Hua Chenyu's ** and appreciates his talent, so he really likes each other. He also emphasized that the relationship between them is not a romantic relationship, but goes beyond a romantic relationship.
Netizens said that it seems that the ideological realm of the two is really high, and they have reached the kind of feelings that ordinary people can't understand. In any case, at least it can be proved that Xu Qing really appreciates Hua Chenyu, they appreciate each other.
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I think Xu Qing and Hua Chenyu's acquaintance is very distinctive.
About the two of them, we can see that on May 6, 2014, Hua Chenyu said in an interview: "The relationship between me and Sister Qing is that kind of bosom friend, I can understand each other's soul mates, don't worry too much about what kind of emotion it is, otherwise it will be too boring." This also clarifies that they are actually just very close friends, not some scandals and the like.
Regarding Xu Qing's evaluation, we can know that she once said that "the two of us are gods and flash love"., Regarding her relationship with Hua Chenyu, Xu Qing once commented like this. Indeed, the two have cherished each other since they met, and they will always make friends when they travel or dine. For the appreciation of both sides, the two are not shy about it on major occasions.
It wasn't until the belated appearance of Sister Qing that this situation was broken, and the sentence "You are my idol" directly broke all kinds of barriers and strangenessAt the same time, Huahua also said later, "I didn't expect (the team) to have someone like me", and cherished this fate with Xu Qing even more. This is also fate, so that the two of them have established a good friendship relationship, and it is also a gap across the age.
In the show, the first time she went abroad and the first time she traveled with strangers, it was quite novel for Hua Chenyu, so Sister Qing also started the "Flower Protection Action" all the way, explaining to Huahua who was not good at English along the way, which is also one thing.
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Explain to Huahua, who is not good at English along the way, this is also one thing.
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The two of them are not shy about their appreciation of both sides on major occasions. In this week's "Venus Show" program, Xu Qing came as a guest, and took the initiative to respond to the rumors of a relationship with Hua Chenyu's sister and brother. Hua Chenyu is Xu Qing's soul mate?
Xu Qing responded to whether the two are sisters and brothers, which makes people not calm. Xu Qing said frankly: He is my soul mate, both Aquarius and type B blood, I like his **.
I think we'll love each other for the rest of our lives, but it's not the conceptual love that everyone seems.
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Xu Qing said that Hua Chenyu was her soul mate, how did the two of them meet? They met on a variety show.
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, Regarding her relationship with Hua Chenyu, Xu Qing once commented like this. The two have cherished each other since they met, and they will always go together whether they are traveling or dining. The appreciation of both sides, the two of them are not shy about it on various occasions.
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Maybe I met because of a variety show.
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The two of them are not shy about their appreciation of both sides on major occasions.
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They met on a variety show, so they should have been able to talk about it.
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