How did the love between you and your ex boyfriend disappear?

Let's talk about the disappearance first, after we met in class in the first semester of our sophomore year, we slowly chatted and became familiar, and we gave each other in the first half of the year, and after eating breakfast, lunch, and dinner together, the days became sweet, and after slowly getting used to it, we began to have fantasies and plans for the future (at this time, the feelings began to mix with the future, the difference in family and living habits, and slowly changed).

First of all, the disappearance of our love lies in the freshness - when we are tired of being together every day, we have aesthetic fatigue, we don't have the original heartbeat, we no longer feel how much we need to cherish together, and we feel that it is very ordinary, and sometimes even in addition to ordinary couples watching movies, eating, etc., there is no topic that can be talked about for a long time, and the shortcomings of the other party are more and more, resulting in a lot of attention to details, it is easy to evaluate and criticize each other, and the days slowly become boring.

Secondly, the disappearance of our love lies in the difference in values - in the face of the near future, whether it is a graduate school entrance examination or a job, the two people have different views. Sometimes they even deny and question each other's plans, making each other feel that they are not supported and often quarrel. In the end, there is no desire to speak to each other, and no one is willing to take the initiative and is angry with each other.

The quarrel was wordless. In the end, the disappearance of our love lies in the family - when we broke up, he couldn't hide the fact that he was a mom in the past, because his mom, after learning about my family, was prejudiced to think that I would drag down his son and thus prevent us from being together. In the end, he became a good baby who listened to his mother and went his separate ways.

Parted. Love is so extravagant that it can't be bought with money, and it's a brave thing to try to accept and understand each other, and I hope that there will always be lovers in the world who will always have the sweetness of love.

The reason why the love between me and my ex-boyfriend disappeared was because the love between the two of us was slowly washed away by time and we no longer liked each other.

I'm not an adult yet, and I used to be busy studying every day and never been in a relationship, so I don't have an ex-boyfriend.

The long-distance relationship is getting more and more boring, he comes to me, and he can't make any waves in his heart anymore, it's all about the "beauty" produced by distance. I didn't think about how long I was going to talk, and I lost most of my impulse in a different place. Love, I didn't appear much in my heart, I don't know if he has it, and "love" disappeared flatly.

Because my ex-boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship, and then he went behind my back and split my legs at his school. I felt like I had green grass on my head.

Long-distance relationship, there is not much contact, not even the most basic emotional foundation, and I can't see any hope for the future. Otherwise, the two of them were too tired and chose to break up.

Time is the best medicine for everything, and it will naturally be forgotten after a long time; The real time to disappear should be the beginning of the next relationship!

The distance is far away, there is less contact, the circle around me has changed, the common language is becoming less and less, I don't feel like I'm there, and finally I broke up very tacitly.

Long-distance relationship plus being green, if the relationship doesn't disappear at this time, can you keep yourself sad? I don't want to keep that kind of feeling.

Distance, he fell in love with someone else in Shanghai at the time, and thought I was ugly and dirty, and that's probably it.

Let's do it decisively! Every time he doesn't pick you up, you find all kinds of reasons for him to comfort yourself? If he cared, would you be like that? Every time he changes a little, think about how many times you need to split your hands to change it for him? Next time, don't fool yourself. Adopt it.

There is no one in the world who can understand whom! People are sometimes fickle with faces! Sometimes it can be the heart!

Without love, what else can be reunited? Getting back together only makes us more tired and sadder. I believe that in a relationship, we will always break up with each other for various reasons, or a little thing, and some of us will be broken up without even realizing it.

In this era of fast love, it is probably easy to start and easy to break up. And in the face of her boyfriend's proposal to get back together, whether you want to agree or not, first of all, you have to ask your heart, whether you still love each other, and see why he got back together with you, if it's because of love, you can consider it, but if it's because of emptiness and loneliness, then forget it.

Many girls are often very soft-hearted in the face of the reunion of their exes. But please hold on and think clearly, because if you are soft on others, you may be cruel to yourself. The problem of force, everyone knows that a man who beats his wife can't ask for it, because once he hits you once, there will be a second time; If a person can't even control whether he hurts you or not when he is angry, such a man is not advisable and must be decisively refused.

The biggest manifestation of a man's love for you is not necessarily not to beat you when he is angry, but the person who can beat you when he is angry must not want it; Don't reconcile.

The biggest problem in the life of two people is the problem of money, for example, you and your boyfriend broke up because of the problem of buying a house. Now, you still can't afford to buy a house, so don't reconcile, after all, it took you a few months to finally get out of the pain of falling out of love, if the problem is still not solved, then reconcile or break up, why bother for yourself. The standard of a good man is that he can make money in society, be shrewd and capable, and can immediately become a big fool in front of you.

Immediately after the breakup, I found another girlfriend and showed affection in a high-profile manner, regardless of your thoughts. Just breaking up and making a public relationship with others will inevitably make people feel that they have been in close contact before. For this kind of man, basically don't think about getting back together, there is no longer you in his heart, he doesn't care about your thoughts and feelings, even if you question him, he will say that this is his own business, and you have broken up.

Don't ask for a reunion in a state of unclear mind, although the breakup is painful, but if the man really loves you, he will not bear your own discomfort, since the man has not come back to get back together, it proves that he does not love you so much.

Many people want to get back together because they can't bear the beauty that two people were together before, but they don't think about whether they are worth paying for this man. To get back together is not to make life worse for two people, but to regain happiness. If, back together, makes you feel unhappy, unhappy.

It's better not to get back together, be yourself, become a better person, and maybe, in the next second, you will meet a better person. After all, no one can say what the future holds.

Because I don't know how to fall in love when he treats me with all his heart, I hate him for turning around every day. When I understood, I was no longer worthy of him. In the end, time let him let me go.

There is no possibility between us.

He was my first love and the only boy in my life who didn't care about being kind to me in return. At that time, I didn't understand love and thought his gentleness was cowardice. He was very respectful of my opinion and would not force me.

But it seems to me that this is not opinion and cowardice. He told me about his family, circle of friends, etc. At that time, I had never been in love, and I didn't know that such a boy was the most precious.

He is willing to tell you everything and give you all his good temper. He is willing to spend his life with you. In just two or three months, we broke up many times (what I did and what I raised) and he always happily accepted and then continued to be nice to me.

I finally realized that I really cared about him and didn't want to lose him at all.

Finally, once, in order not to let myself break up again. I wanted to give it to him for the first time, but he didn't touch me for fear that my body would hurt. Maybe he was considerate and respectful to me now, but then he always felt that he was falling behind for the future.

Maybe in the future he won't love me and won't touch me because he's afraid to be responsible for me. What a gentleman he was. His upbringing in his bones did not allow him to be a girl.

But if at that time, he could tell me that he hoped to touch me when he got married, maybe I would be happy. In the end, neither of us said anything. I was so scared of falling in love for nothing, so I didn't want to sink deeper and deeper.

Finally, I asked him if I could be friends again, and he said yes. We separate.

In the months that followed, his QQ signature wrote my blessings. If you're well, it's a sunny day. All I need is your smile, and that's enough to let me know you're happy.

Once, we met with my classmates while walking on the road, but I deliberately hid. Maybe it was my only chance to save him, and the last time I saw him in my life. But I don't cherish it.

He had someone outside, so he broke up, and he could never get back together.

Because she and her ex-boyfriend are incompatible because of their personalities, they either have many aspects that are compatible, so they can't get back together, maybe there are all kinds of things, maybe there are all kinds of problems in all aspects, so the two of them broke up before, and now if they want to get back together, there are more or less traces. If there are some traces, the possibility of them reuniting is relatively low, and they may not be able to reunite, after all, they have already been cracked once, and if they want to merge, they will leave a scar.

There is no emotional foundation, and there is no reason to cultivate feelings in what you do now, so there is no love, and there is no concern, so you can never get back together.

Because we all feel that the other party is not a person who can live a lifetime, and is not the right person.

Know you? It's too big a quarrel with an ex-boyfriend, and it must not be resurrected, either it's a fight, or it's a lot of quarrels, and only in this way can the two of them not meet the very little hope of getting back together.

Because he is already married, he has no chance to get back together with him.

People who have changed their minds still change their minds easily, and this kind of person dare not want it and can't afford it. I saw that he could have three girlfriends in a month, and he was really cool.

Because of the distance. The mother was forced to die. I had to give up love and choose to give birth to me and raise my family. The husband can be found again, but the mother has only one.

If two people don't have compatible personalities, they won't be happy, so break up. Don't get back together.

When the two broke up, they had a very stiff quarrel, just like enemies, and there was no possibility of getting back together.

Everyone has their own ideas, and if they are separated, they will be separated and it will be difficult to reunite.

There is only one chance, and if the time is missed, there will be no going back.

The two are emotionally discordant, and there is no need to get back together.

The ex-boyfriend is too hard to be a person, and he can't bear it, and his feelings can't be reunited.

People who touch the bottom line and don't have intentions.

My ex-boyfriend was looking for a woman outside behind my back, and I was very angry at the beginning, and we broke up in the end.

I'm in your case, too, but I took the initiative to chat with my ex, he was a little cold at first, but he responded positively after saying a few words, and joked with me, and replied a little naïve, if that's the case, I should still like you.

Why do you still have to contact after a breakup, do you still love him? If you want to test whether your boyfriend still likes you, it's very simple, if you still like him, just tell him your love for him, if you don't like him, why do you have to test, instead of guessing in this, it is better to express it directly, guessing that he likes you is also a comfort, just guessing, so take practical action.

Just send a message. If he is very positive and proves that he still has feelings for you, as for whether he is still in love with you, further contact is needed, and you will feel it through the details, just don't deceive yourself.

I think you are looking for some romance movies intentionally or not, saying that you are looking forward to it and want to see it and see how he responds. If it's interesting, I'll definitely invite you to go with you.

It's already an ex-boyfriend, it doesn't matter if you love you or not, what about love, what if you don't love, should people learn to look forward, don't get entangled in those meaningless things, learn to find the best version of yourself.

Since you're already an ex-boyfriend, why do you have to test love and not love? What about love, what about not loving.

It's all ex-boyfriends.

There must have been a reason why you were separated before.

Did you solve the problem at that time?

Is it your fault or his?

Or is it the reason why the two of you have a bad temper?

If you don't figure it out, I don't think it makes much sense to want to get back together.

On the other hand, there is no above problem, I want to see if the other party loves you.

The first direct question, I think it's best, don't waste time.

The second is to say that you are pregnant is his, see his reaction, it is not good to deceive, use the third carefully to find out if he has a girlfriend or married, and then contact if not, so as not to be embarrassed.

Feelings should be treated with caution.

Good luck.

You can continue to date, he is still willing to accompany you at any time, and your ex-boyfriend must still love you.

An ex-girlfriend is always thinking about her ex-boyfriend, indicating that she still wants to return to the world of love and regain the life that the lost love gives, and the ex-girlfriend can use the psychology of love to contact her ex-boyfriend.

As an ex-boyfriend, if you have you in your heart, he will also take the initiative to contact your real world, and he will also sense your change of heart, and the two people should be able to feel the love world that they understand each other.

Any thought you have is his emotional cognition, and his response must have made you overjoyed.