When are you most helpless

I got divorced that winter. I don't have much money with my son alone, and my life has to go on, and I have to work hard to earn money to support my son! So I borrowed some money from a friend and opened a small shop.

When I was renovating the house, an uncle came next door and said to me, "Son, why did you find this place to open a store?" How remote this place is! The landlord of your shop has been renting the house for a long time and can't rent it out.

When he said this, my heart was half cold. I couldn't sleep all night after a hard day's work! Tears flowed down involuntarily!

I thought to myself, what should I do? If this place is really not doing well, then I'm miserable. I borrowed tens of thousands of dollars!

But there is no turning back from the bow, and since it is already like this, I will try to do it well. So the next day, I was full of energy! Unexpectedly, the business turned out to be surprisingly good.

I hung up the plaque and started to have customers. Later, it turned out to be a rumor. It's not a big business, but my son and I finally have no worries about eating and drinking.

Later, one day, the uncle walked into my shop again, and when he came in, he said to me, "Big niece, I don't accept others, so I'll obey you!" I laughed, laughed happily.

I had a cold and fever for a month, I went to the doctor, and the doctor was very good, so I had to write a leave slip to me, but it was difficult to ask for leave, so I kept going to work sick and felt very weak. I hope that I have the ability to change the status quo, have capricious capital, and rest if I want to.

There are always too many hardships in life, life will give you too many tests, and only when you are strong enough can you live. There are too many helpless, and after those years, in fact, they will face it calmly, people always have unlimited potential. Time is a long river, it is too sad to say, as long as you are strong enough, then you will definitely be able to defeat all.

I rarely feel helpless because of my own affairs. Sometimes it can be a sense of powerlessness to realize that your parents are old and that you have not lived up to their expectations. This powerlessness makes me feel that it is difficult to change, and sometimes I want to change, but I also know that the process is difficult, like a snake shedding its skin.

Tangled and timid, wanting to change and having the mood of fear of difficulties, hoping that you will feel helpless even if you sometimes feel helpless. You can also have enough strength to move yourself forward.

At 21 years old this year, I haven't reached a third of my life, but I've already experienced that feeling of being lost. At the end of the English test. walked out of the campus with light legs, ate his favorite rice noodles at the school gate with his classmates, and checked the answer.

At that time, I felt that what I could eat was not delicious, but sand and cement that was difficult to swallow, and what I drank was not drink, but poison. No one knew how hysterical I was crying while everyone was affectionately and happily celebrating the end of their purgatory-like life.

The most helpless time for me was when I didn't have anything, and I didn't have any money for my job and I didn't feel particularly miserable.

One time I didn't want to play, but the homeroom teacher and my classmates came to convince me one by one, and I wanted to find someone to help me convince them, but I couldn't find it, and I felt very helpless.

More than 10 years ago, when I met a gang that was scattered and faced with layoffs, I was discouraged and my heart was cold. If you struggle for more than 20 years, you will be unemployed. I couldn't sleep for a week.

Come to think of it, as long as you have a healthy body, sound limbs, and do things steadily, you can't support yourself and your family, and it's a big deal to start from scratch.

I have a sister who is five years older than me, and she is a witty and thoughtful person. When she was a child, every time her parents quarreled, she would maneuver around and solve the problem skillfully. And just the year before last, she got married, and that night, my parents quarreled over the hotel where she was invited back, which intensified and finally turned into a quarrel, and at that time, I realized that there would never be such a person who could help me solve the conflict between my parents and let me have a peaceful home.

When I gave birth, the hospital did not allow my family members to enter the delivery room, so I was alone in the severe pain, and I felt that it was the most tragic time of my life.

When you are adrift alone in a foreign country, standing alone under the night, looking at the bustling **, this strange country, unaccompanied, like a wandering duckweed, I don't know where to go, take out my mobile phone, I don't know who to say, perhaps, I am a hurried passerby, in this strange country, I can't leave any footprints of myself, leaving only loneliness and helplessness.

In the face of the crossroads of life, standing there in my heart countless times of wandering, countless expectations, countless times of loss. Faced with an unknown life, a life without direction, I asked myself countless times how to choose and how to move forward. In the end, I chose to be strong, and I had to build a tenacious mind.

When I was in my mother's womb, adults always thought that I couldn't hear bad things about me.

The meaning of this passage is that in the most difficult and helpless time of your life, the memory is the deepest. In the most difficult times, all decisions determine the direction of your life. Therefore, what you experienced at that time is only the most precious treasure in life.

So, no matter what time it is, faith is your best bet. Because each stage has a different experience, and each stage has its own difficulties, if you don't have self-confidence, the difficulties will easily defeat you. Believe in life, there will be rewards if you pay.

People who work hard are not bad luck.

Be your own strong and make the muddiest road wide and boundless.

1. When the mobile phone is out of battery or you forget to bring it.

2. I forgot to bring the key or access card in the bag.

3. Go to a strange place to do things alone.

4. When working independently, encounter work items that you don't know how to start at all.

5. When you quarrel with your lover and run away from home in discouragement.

6. When the balance of the bank card is insufficient.

7. The moment when you feel your shoelaces loose while walking or running.

8. When you are walking outside by yourself, and you don't have a backpack or something in your hand.

9. Unfamiliar sales**, when you can say too much private information in an instant.

10. When you call ** and send a message to find the other party but you can't get in touch.

11. When Sun Dou fluctuates when he crosses the airflow key by plane.

12. Look at the time when the lock picker uses a very simple tool to open the lock.

13. Buying a house pays for the time when all the savings have been spent in the past few years.

14. When the other party wants to look at your mobile phone.

1. When the mobile phone is out of battery or you forget to bring it.

2. I forgot to bring the key or access card in the bag.

3. Go to a strange place to do things alone.

4. When working independently, encounter work items that you don't know how to start at all.

5. When you quarrel with your lover and run away from home in discouragement.

6. When the balance of the bank card is insufficient.

7. The moment when you feel your shoelaces loose while walking or running with a key sun fighter.

8. When you are walking outside by yourself, without a backpack or without a manuscript in your hand.

9. Unfamiliar sales**, when you can say too much private information in an instant.

10. When you call ** and send a message to find the other party but you can't get in touch.

11. When taking an airplane through air flow fluctuations.

12. Look at the locksmith when he uses a very simple tool to unlock the lock.

13. Buying a house pays when all the savings of the past few years have been spent.

14. When the other party wants to look at your mobile phone.

In the time of falling out of love. At the time of losing the best time of your life. When you lose the indifference of your friends and relatives from the sidelines, you can be early.

The most helpless. When you're looking for something to talk about. But I couldn't find the time to call the sparrow.

At the saddest time when you cry. No one comforts you. Even hand over a line of old paper.

People are helpless at the most helpless and early times, often when the soul is at its emptiest and unable to find a finch to settle down.

When people are helpless, they think of people who seek comfort and support, including but not limited to:1Jia Wu Xuqin ordered the collapse of people:

Friends: Friends help us cope with loneliness, relieve stress, and may reach out for help and advice when we are struggling. 3.

Psychological counselor: When we encounter psychological difficulties, we can choose to seek help from a psychological counselor and seek professional help and guidance. 4.

Social organizations: Social organizations such as charities, volunteering organizations, churches, etc., will provide help and support to those in need, and you can also seek help from these organizations to prevent them from being left behind. 5.

Self: Finally, we can't ignore ourselves as a problem-solving force. We can find a way that suits us, self-regulation, pay attention to our physical and mental health, and improve our self-awareness and thinking ability, so as to find strength and support in Hengsun Yuan's predicament.

To sum up, the first things that people think of when they are helpless are people and organizations that can help and support them. When we encounter problems, we should face them honestly and bravely, and actively seek them.

When people are helpless, they will first think of helping their relatives and friends, or professional doctors, lawyers and other related professionals. If there is no suitable candidate for Yanguo, you may also seek some public service resources, such as help**, rescue teams, etc.

In some cases, people also choose to seek religious or religious comfort and guidance, depending on the individual's beliefs and worldview. In addition, some people may be more inclined to reflect alone, or relieve their emotions in various ways, such as listening, exercising, reading, and so on.