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It's not a person's business to get married, do you think that if you break up now and find another one later, similar problems won't happen? So. It's normal to encounter problems, but since you have encountered problems, you have to face the reality and solve the problems. The current suggestion is this:
1. What moved me to this woman at the beginning, making me willing to wait with her for the rest of my life, and do I still love her now?
2. The attitude of the family, the attitude of the woman, due to the different experience and cultural and educational background, the purpose and expression are different, I am very angry, is there no room for resolution? If you look for another one, (in the same area, the general customs are similar), maybe it's about the same.
3. Be calm and deal with problems rationally. If it's really not suitable, cut through the mess quickly.
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This belongs to the ignorant lord, it's okay to tell him the reality of the situation, there are still people who run away from marriage on the day of marriage, not to mention that they are not married yet, and they are all in a hurry without getting a license
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Sometimes you can see a person clearly at a critical time, you are doing very well, I admire your decisiveness, like you learn from you, men have to look forward!
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You've already decided that you're not going to be with her, so what's there to worry about?
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Tell her honestly, I believe she won't keep pestering you.
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Now she wants to be nice to you, don't be good anymore, live together in the future, and there will be a situation where she listens to their family again, and it will be even more difficult at that time So it's good to break up as soon as possible!
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There are many different reasons for breaking up between couples, but there are also many that vary from person to person.
In some cases, many reasons for breaking up may be considered very outrageous, let.
People are incomprehensible. Here are some reasons for a breakup that might be considered outrageous:
1.The horoscopes are incompatible. Some people are superstitious about horoscopes and feel that the characteristics of the constellations on both sides are incompatible.
If the two don't match together, they think that the relationship will not last long, so they propose points.
hand, which is obviously a superstitious act, even on the absurd.
2.Because you're left-handed: Left-handedness isn't a serious problem and shouldn't.
It's time to be a reason to break up. Use such trivial things as a reason to break up.
is ridiculous. 3.My mom disagreed. Some people insist on getting home at the beginning of their relationship.
Long agree and bless, otherwise choose to break up. But it's not reasonable, emotional issues.
It should be left to the discretion of the person concerned and should not be overly reliant on the opinion of the parents.
4.There is no common language. Some couples feel interested in love after dating for a while.
It's so different, and there isn't much to chat about, so I chose to break up. But the number of common languages is not.
It does not mean the depth of feelings, as long as there is an open mind and a foundation of understanding, there are many with each other.
Understanding each other, understanding that the other party wants to be a law, and empathy, this does not affect the relationship.
key factors.
5.One of the couples felt that they didn't feel it anymore. The amount of feeling often varies with the interaction.
It is normal for time to change and change. If you choose to break up for this, that's almost.
All long-term relationships are hard to hold. The appearance and departure of feelings need to be taken care of even more.
Sexual judgment and mutual understanding. 6.The appearance is not as good as before. Some people are attracted to the appearance of their lover at the beginning of their relationship.
But after the development of the relationship, I gradually found all kinds of unsatisfactory, and put forward it on the grounds of changes in appearance.
Parted. This is clearly superficial and irresponsible. The change in appearance is inevitably sincere.
Feelings should be based on inner identity.
These outrageous reasons for breaking up are obviously untenable, and mature love needs to be more reasonable.
Sex and responsible thinking. Any relationship requires the efforts and dedication of both parties.
To be able to last for a long time, we must not only understand our own feelings, but also respect each other's feelings. Sincerely.
Feelings will transcend all superficial reasons, which require the verification of time and the formation of the heart. Long.
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