What to do if you can t forget your crush? Is it possible to forget about the crush

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You like him very much, time is the key to diluting everything, and there is a person who must maintain a good attitude, don't get too drilly, relax, there are still many people waiting for you in the world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him directly. I like you. Do you accept me. Easiest. But it's as simple as if you have the courage to say it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, it would be more beautiful to hide it deep in my heart like that... Reality often disappoints you. I've all had this experience ...

    I had super feelings for him. But I don't know how to have a convulsion and tell him. In the end, he kept annoying me, and he kept annoying me...

    There is no good feeling at all. So... Let's hide it in your heart and become the most beautiful scenery.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why don't you tell him, look at what he says, and if his answer is no, then put him in the bottom of your heart, and if you are sure that you are good! There may be some chance to say it, but if you don't say it, there will never be a chance!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People live and don't know what tomorrow will bring? Crush is very hard, why not try to say it, confess that no matter what the result is, it is an opportunity for you to be him (her), maybe he (she) is secretly liking you. I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can try a new relationship or find something to distract yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Make a bold confession! Otherwise, re-target and find a new occupant for your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Have you tried to confess"? If you really can't live together, then cultivate your own interests and shift your thoughts...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've also had a crush on someone. But he didn't recognize me.

    I was happy to see him.

    But after leaving school.

    I don't want him anymore if I haven't seen him for a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's keep it as a good memory and start a new life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Time will wear it all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then start a new relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You still forgot about it, crying and laughing, alas. Love can make people fools.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Start a relationship of your own.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dear, everyone has their own unforgettable person, you can't forget, it means that you have a deep affection for the person you have a crush on. You may not be able to let go of it for the time being, and you may not even be able to let go of it in the next life, since you can't forget it, then don't forget it, why forget it? Crushes are also a beautiful thing, and it's a good thing to remember when we're old.

    I used to have a crush on someone else, and now I am married and have children, but that person is still in my memory, not that I don't love my other half, I also love my other half, this is not in conflict with my memories of anyone, everyone has a young time, when they were young, many people had a crush on others, maybe some confessions were successful, and their wishes came true; And some may not be able to confess success, but they are still living happily!

    It doesn't matter if we forget it or not, as long as we keep a good heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I can't forget my crush, probably because he is beautified in your heart, and it is always difficult for us to forget those beautiful people and beautiful sceneryTherefore, in your current situation, I don't think you have to ask yourself to forget about your crush, just let it be.

    If you have the opportunity to get close to this person you have a crush now, you can muster up the courage to get close to him and see if you have a chance to develop, if you don't have a chance to get close to him now, he is only suitable for being your crush, then you will live your life normally, when someone you have made your heart move that day, you basically can't remember him very much, even if you still remember, it is just the beautiful him in your memory.

    I myself had a crush on a cool and handsome male classmate in the class when I was in junior high school, and I haven't forgotten the beautiful and handsome image he stayed in my mind at that time, I don't even want to forget this image, because I think this image is very perfect in my aesthetics, you say I haven't seen him again, I've seen it, it's just the ordinary image when I see him again, so I can't believe that this is the person in my mind, so I selectively ignore this reality, So that I can firmly remember that beautiful image. Hahahaha!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The reason why you can't forget your crush is because you haven't found the right person yet, and you haven't found the person you loved, so you will be haunted by the past, the person you once had a crush, and want to confess to her, but you are afraid of losing the opportunity to get in touch and lose the opportunity to see even the last side, so there are regrets, you will often think of the past and the person you have a crush.

    But when you look back at the people around you, you will find that there are people around you who are worthy of your love and who are worthy of your hard pursuit.

    When I was in high school, I always thought about my junior high school tablemates, my cute tablemates. I sometimes dream of her a lot. Because I care about her very much, maybe this is a good feeling, this is like her.

    But I never expressed my heart, and I never expressed that I liked her, that I missed her.

    Until I was in high school, there were times when I was unhappy, and I used to think about her, how she made me happy, and how she did something funny to get my attention. I remember that we were doing problems together, playing smart when the teacher was away, standing outside the door together, going on a spring outing together, and writing down every diary, the past is beautiful, but we also have to look at the future.

    It wasn't until I was in high school that I found out that I also had a crush on the girls in front of me. Even now, I often think of her. Sometimes in the dormitory, I suddenly want to go to the classroom to see if she is there.

    It may be that if you fall in love with another person, you will slowly forget your previous crush.

    So you have to cherish the people around you and look for the person who is worth cherishing. Someone who deserves your sincere dedication. will forget the past and better welcome love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not so much that you can't forget the person you have a crush, it's better to say that you can't forget the crush, the best time of your life.

    I had a crush on my classmates in high school, and when I got to college, some people confessed to me, and I tried to accept other people, but I always felt that it was wrong, and I compared him to others. It wasn't until the high school reunion after college that I realized that the person he gave me a crush was different, and some people said that the person I had a crush on might just be the person I imagined.

    Ways to want to forget your crush:

    1. Try to start a relationship of your own.

    Love still has to be discussed, try to associate with other people, not to treat each other as a spare tire, but through the interaction with each other, re-understand your feelings, and give the people around you and yourself a chance.

    2. Really know the person you have a crush.

    Are you sure you really understand the real character and real life of the person you have a crush. The one in his heart is the real him, and many times, a crush is blinding a person's eyes.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Probably everyone will live in such a person's heart, you like him, but you don't dare to tell him, don't dare to tell him, many years later, he still has a place in your heart, and even occupies most of your heart.

    Crush is always beautiful, although the other party doesn't know, but there is still the feeling of falling in love; Crushes are also painful, one carefully hides them, and one manages a relationship.

    This love that has no beginning and no result is so unforgettable, probably because I think that crush is too beautiful, and I am reluctant to forget it, and I am not willing to forget it.

    There is a third party called a crush, people put it in their hearts, you don't know if it's broken, and you can't find someone to settle the account.

    There is a couple of friends around me who is like this, and the woman has a secret love in her heart that can't be let go, and it's the kind that can't be hidden.

    From time to time, I will think about it, and I will compare the current with the crush, and I always feel that the man around me is not as good as the crush in my heart, which is very sad.

    The woman has talked to several boyfriends over the years, but in the end they all broke up unhappily, and she didn't change her mind or split her legs, just because the woman always remembered the crush, and she couldn't devote herself to the current one.

    In fact, it's completely unnecessary, and you haven't been the girlfriend of your crush, how do you know that the crush will be good to you, maybe not as good as your current one.

    Why a crush is always the best, because what you fall in love with is what you imagined it to be.

    Especially the kind of person who likes to know indirectly, usually it is beautified and passed to your ears, and then it is beautified in your heart, and it becomes very perfect, this person has no shortcomings in your heart, so no one will surpass your position in your heart.

    So your liking may also be an illusion.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I can't forget my crush, because the crush must be something you yearn for and like it so much, so the crush is often not easy to forget.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to forget him, you find a new friend, and then you will quickly forget him, because now you only have him in your head, no one else, so you will never forget him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is normal, I myself am like this, the person I had a crush on 10 years ago, I can't forget now.

    This is because it happened to be the beginning of our love, and the love at that time was very beautiful and pure.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you haven't met the right person, the right person, the person who can win your heart. When you meet the right person for you, the crush is just the "white moonlight" in your heart, that is to say, the real person you have a crush on is not as good as you imagined, but because you have a new relationship, you will re-examine your own crush and the crush of the fact itself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can't forget my crush. It may not be long enough. And this person has always made a good impression on you, you haven't seen another side of him.

    Or when you need care and helplessness the most, it is always this person who comes to help you, and you have something to rely on. There is some spiritual support.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Crush is actually a very energy-consuming thing, and the difference from love is that crush is a person's emotional giving, and the probability of getting a response is very low. Long-term relationship giving and not being reciprocated will make it more difficult for you to part with the relationship, because the sunk cost of the relationship will increase over time. So if you are unwilling to give up this crush, there will be a feeling that you can't let go of the person you have forgotten your crush.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because you once really liked him, and what you didn't get was always in turmoil.

    It's because you only have a crush that you think he's really good, and if you can't forget it, you don't have to deliberately forget it, as long as it doesn't affect your current life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Your question is, why do I never forget my crush? This situation is normal, that is to say, when there is no person to talk to, they all think that someone is particularly good and temperamental, but seriously, you don't think so after you talk about it together, that is, everyone has something bad, it's just that your crush, he is good at everything, I think since it's a crush, it's useless, or find a girlfriend who likes you on the spot, this is the real thing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's hard to really forget the person who has appeared before, not to mention that she is still the one who walked into your heart. There's no need to forget, as long as you put her in your heart, when you think about it, you don't get as excited as you used to be, you just let it go. That's also a good memory of my own.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why do I never forget my crush? Because of the other party's behavior or other things that make me obsessed and impressed by myself, I can't forget my crush.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That shows that you are very affectionate, although you did not confess to the other party, but in your heart you like him very much, you are indeed very painful, if you really love him and it is possible, you should confess to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What you can't get is the best. We have a man here who said that he would not marry so-and-so. Wait until he is actually married to the girl.

    Within two years, he was looking for a new love! Your crush on someone is more of a self-anesthetic, maybe after you have been in contact with her for a while, you will not be in pain when you find that the other person is not as good as you imagined!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can't always forget the person you have a crush on, because you yourself said that person is your crush, and of course you can't forget him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you don't have a new love life to enrich your life, it's good to start a new relationship.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A crush is not the same as going both ways, a crush is your liking for that woman, which has surpassed the immeasurable liking for yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You don't have to pay attention all the time, you can forget it after a long time, time can dilute everything, and it is also the best medicine.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. Hello, can you forget your crush, can you forget, forget your crush can find spiritual sustenance again, keep your distance, treat with a normal heart, travel, and clean up items related to him. Rediscover spiritual sustenance.

    It is not easy to have a crush on someone, and it is also very active yourself. So it's hard to forget. He's like sleep, the more you want to sleep, the more you can't sleep.

    At this time, you should take the focus away from him and find something worthy of your pinning. For example, playing ball, reading books, and chatting with friends. When you have something to look forward to in your head, it's easy to forget about it.

    Hello, can you forget your crush, can you forget, forget your crush can find spiritual sustenance again, keep your distance, treat with a normal heart, travel, and clean up items related to him. Heavy knowledge of lead new search for spiritual sustenance. It is not easy to have a crush on someone, and it is also very active.

    So it's hard to forget. He's like sleep, the more you want to sleep, the more you can't sleep. At this time, you should take the focus off him and find something worthy of your pinning.

    For example, playing ball, reading books, and chatting with friends. When you have something to look forward to in your head, it's easy to forget about it.

    He also liked me before, and now he doesn't know if he likes me or not, but he has already talked about two girlfriends.

    Is he breaking up now? Have you been in touch lately?

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