I can t forget his betrayal, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-18
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, and betrayal also happens from time to time. People are by nature, and if you are born with a water-based poplar, it is difficult to change even if you want to. But people also have a process of growth, and in this process, some habits will suddenly change, because that means further maturity.

    I'm not sure if it's his nature or if it's something he's going to have to go through growing up. However, you must know that there is always at least one reason to love someone, and love without reason is immature and will not last. When faced with such a thing, such a lover, you must start thinking about whether you love him, what kind of love you love, what kind of love you are willing to love, and what is yours for him.

    If you have a positive answer to the above questions, then have a good talk with him, betrayal is not for forgetting, if it is a betrayal, you will never forget it for the rest of your life, find a suitable time, the right place, the right mood, spread your hearts, if two hearts can be fused, you will definitely get a satisfactory answer, and your relationship will go to the next level. However, if you don't know your love for him, in the face of such a person who makes you insecure, let him go, there is nothing that cannot be left without it. In short, remember, don't lie to yourself about anything, you can't lie to yourself, face yourself calmly, and let him face himself calmly.

    Serious life, hard work, happiness. Life doesn't allow you to make too big jokes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you still want to be with him? If you still want to be together, then you need to communicate well, in fact, seriously, women only love themselves, and men can't rely on anything else! Don't be sorry for yourself! Good luck!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Without trust, sooner or later things will go wrong.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really want to forget such a man who betrayed you, then you have to draw all the boundaries with him, never get along, **, delete all WeChat for him, don't have a little intersection with him, and you have to get out of your life circle to accept a new life circle, and you have to make a lot of friends, it's okay, play a game of chatter together, be happy, and slowly time will help you forget this person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A man who betrays you is not worth forgetting because he is not qualified to be the object of your forgetfulness. It's really nothing for yourself, follow yourself, live yourself, make him regret his original choice, betraying you is a mistake, remember that you will always be unique, because there is only one you will not have a second. Your demeanor is shown by you, believe in yourself, and be unforgettable for a person who betrays you, which is an insult to yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it is the man you betrayed, it means that he did not meet your corresponding standards, and then he wants to hurt you, then you have to forget the past and love a boy who is good to you and has eyes full of you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe you really can't see the reality until he hurts you thoroughly, you can't control it yourself, and it's not easy for everyone to help you get an idea, I suggest that it should be decided.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it may be really difficult for you to forget the man who betrayed you, because you can know from words that as long as he comes to you, you have no way to refuse, so the only way to forget this man is to stay away from this man and live in another city.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to start a relationship again, because this relationship forgets the previous relationship, you don't think about him because he betrayed you, you have to persuade him because he betrayed you, when he doesn't exist, so you will persuade and forget him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to forget a man who betrayed you, you have to remember the reasons why he can't let you accept, try to look at other people, once you find that there are other people's merits, you will make comparisons in your heart, so that you will quickly forget this person, and even if you don't forget, you won't like it anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

    2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

    3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A man who has betrayed me, I think it's really hard to forget. You can leave the city with him, leave the circle about him, stay away from the bits and pieces about him, and slowly after a long time, you may forget it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't have to think about the good old days you had with him, how good he was to you, don't think about this, you have to think about how he betrayed you, anyway, you have to think about the bad things he did to you, so that you can slowly hate him, and you want to forget him from then on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello. You have to learn to forgive the mistakes of others, and a person will always be a little wrong, unless it is a saint or a fool. Isn't he very good now?

    Why hold on to it? Your mood is understandable. You have to think about his goodness as much as possible, and you will slowly fade the unhappiness.

    See a psychiatrist if necessary.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Stay away from him, don't think about it anymore, even if you are in the next relationship, you will slowly forget the person who betrayed you, if you have been thinking about it, it will be difficult to forget.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can re-acquaint yourself with a new friend of the opposite sex and slowly get in touch with each other. If the man who betrayed you begged you to get back together, you agreed that something like this might happen in the future, and it would still make you sad and sad.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let yourself always remember, improve yourself, improve yourself in all aspects, and then you work hard to become excellent, you will give up on yourself, the original you like, feel that there is no need not to care.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's no way to forget. It can only be forgotten slowly. It can only be said that the people who betrayed you in the past will make you stronger in the future. Good and bad, the past can only be memories.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you want to forget about a man who betrayed you, you write down the most extreme thing he has done to you on a piece of paper, and look at the paper first after waking up every morning, and after a long time, you will naturally calm down.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to forget a person, that is, not forget, go with the flow, let him exist, that is to say, if this is the case, you slowly do not know when you will forget.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forget the words of a man who betrayed you, then it means that you find a new love, start over, and the next time you fall in love, you will not think of him again.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's start a new relationship! In this way, you will not have the energy to think about him, and if you find the right person to date, you will feel that he is just like that, and you will forget about him after a long time!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Go with the flow, do what you should do, focus on what you are doing now, and don't deliberately forget what to taste and taste the first thing I said.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When you are looking for a man, you will forget it faster When you break up, don't constantly remember the unhappy things in the past or think that he can't afford you Look forward Don't let the shadow of the past bother you!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think I want to forget about a man who betrayed you, and I think you should put some of the things you need to pay attention to in your life first, so that you can divert your attention and transfer this emotion to your life and work.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want to forget a person who has betrayed you, then let yourself live a better life, let the other party regret betraying yourself and let him chase him again.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In my opinion, the question of the other party betraying you is enough to kick the other person away. If you want to forget such a person, one is to stop paying attention to him, and the other is to know more other people.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you are a woman, it is advisable for you to give up because a man he will betray you.

    For the first time, there will definitely be.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    People have feelings, it is impossible to be unconscious after being hurt, some hurts, there is no way to forgive, because it is a suffocating pain, it hurts when you touch it, it is lying there and there is no way to smooth it out.

    There is a saying that to forget to hurt is to betray oneself. Because the scar is good and forgets the pain, it will continue to hurt again and again. There are two things in this world that cannot be looked at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.

    For the rest of your life, you don't have to embarrass yourself, and you don't have to take the time to forgive people and things that hurt you intentionally. Everyone is born with kindness, but be kind and measured. Some people, some things, you don't have to forgive, let alone pretend to be generous, you are not a saint.

    Life is already hard, and we don't need to dwell on the hurt and pain. The injuries you have experienced still hurt every time you think about them, but obsessing over these pains will only continue to consume your emotions, and even extend the sequelae of this injury to people and things in your life. There is a saying that after experiencing harm, you think that all people come with knives, and later I can realize that when we reach a kind of emotional peace, we can treat people and things more rationally.

    You can not forgive it, but you must reconcile with yourself, what kind of attitude towards life should we have, to face everything we have, to deal with the harm we encounter, to be a person with positive energy, to live happily, to practice more, healthy and positive, optimistic and cheerful people. Let there be no more betrayal and hurt in the world.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Betrayal often makes many people break down, angry, and sad, causing lasting damage in their hearts. Hurt and betrayal that occur between those closest and most trusted make people more painful and difficult to forgive. In life, the biggest betrayal often comes from oneself.

    It is ourselves who deceive us the most and the deepest. Because I dare not face it, I dare not admit it, I dare not take it, and I dare not be my true self. The more you want to forget, the more you portray the memory, instead of trying to forget, it is better to accept the past, when you accept, it will slowly fade.

    Hope you are doing well.

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