He s deceived you and it s okay, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, two people should at least trust each other when they are together, but if you know that he is cheating on you, if you really love him, trust is also to give respect to the other party, you can pretend not to know, but you can give him hints from many places, let him know what he should do in the future, so that you also give him a lot of face and maintain your relationship, right? I hope your relationship is getting better and better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When two people are together, they should trust each other, be tolerant and tolerate each other. As long as he doesn't do anything sorry for you, you should show your tolerance to deal with it, if something like this happens to him in the future, you can talk to him again, but you must pay attention to the tone of the conversation, and pay attention to his emotions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Internet love is very unrealistic, although love is unforgettable, but it is absolutely incapable of experiencing anything, some people go online for a purpose, not just to make friends, now people are unpredictable, don't believe the sweet words of any netizen, that's just sugar-coated shells!

    The deeper the investment in the network, the greater the damage to yourself, let's be realistic, stop this tasteless, so-called love, long pain is better than short pain,!

    Hehe, I still advise you to give up this love quickly, because I have had the same experience as you, and it was myself who was hurt, online love is too illusory, I advise you to get out of the illusory world and return to reality, for the sake of someone who is unfaithful to you like that, it's really not worth it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forgive him if it's not a big deal. If something isn't quite right, sit down and talk about it. If it still doesn't work, just consider breaking up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give up, not to mention that you met on the Internet, even if you have been with you for many years, you should give up, otherwise it is always a girl who is hurt and sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think your relationship is very weak now, after all, the Internet is virtual.

    There are very few people who can really come together, and you know each other for 3 months.

    relationship, not enough is understood, I can only tell you not to take it too seriously, hopefully.

    He deserves your love and I hope you are happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to continue, don't know; If you want to give up, you don't know it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Debunking him The two of them should be cautious when they are together, because they are online dating.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love him, you have to believe him, and there must be a reason for him to say that.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The Internet is very illusory, so I advise you not to believe it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The Internet is not to be trusted, it is recommended that you talk to him about 88

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ay! Maybe there is some reason for him!! Ask him or ask his friends!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Friend. Hello.

    Invisible troubles are brought about by life and society.

    It's like you're seeing something.

    Thinking of anything will have trouble telling the old man.

    The solution to this problem is to enrich yourself happily every day.

    And every day there must be something to do to keep oneself to do.

    This solves the troubles of your life in the first place.

    And the troubles of society should always participate in meaningful activities.

    Make yourself feel like you're not alone.

    Let this society accept itself.

    And help everyone around you to live like this.

    You also have to set your dreams and goals from time to time.

    Build your career and studies.

    Find a little more interesting things and objects.

    Regulates your own sensitive nerves and your own brain.

    There should also be enough time to rest.

    I often do some well-made socks that have a reason to brain.

    Change your perspective on the world.

    Treat the right outlook on life.

    Social outlook. Worldview.

    Here's wishing you a happy day.

    Be happy every day.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let Bei Qingyuan learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up and being poor is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door anymore, or hit your head and bleed until you don't wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This cannot be explained by white lies.

    To tell a lie is to deceive, why should a person lie, it is nothing more than to cover up the facts that he does not want you to know, and at the same time to prove that you still have some weight in his heart, but it is not enough to give up the whole forest for you.

    Choose not to forgive. First of all, you have to think about whether you can give up the relationship, or where your bottom line is, and whether he has touched it. If you can't accept it, you can only choose not to forgive.

    But the end result can lead to your breakup, and few men have good patience. He can't always explain this to you, and in your heart you will have a barrier, so you won't believe him in the future, guess the way you get along, and everyone will get tired after a long time.

    It's not a day or two since I've talked to other girls.,It's okay for him to change the name of the note.,You can add it again if you delete it.,Can you still watch him all day long**? Feelings that don't have a foundation of trust don't last long.

    If you can't let go of this relationship, you can only choose to forgive, but it can't be too easy, too easy and he will do it even more unscrupulously in the future.

    There is a second deception for the first time, and there is no prodigal son looking back, but the method of deception is more clever. You are so persistent in this relationship that you have lost yourself, you can be good to your boyfriend, you can be tolerant but not forgiving!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you find out that he chats with her, she will take away the phone and delete the chat history, saying that the chat history between them is not convenient for you to view. Then it means that they said something that should not be said in the chat, which will cause you to misunderstand, since you said that you have a spiritual cleanliness fetish, I don't think there is any need to continue. This kind of thing can happen between falling in love, but what about after marriage?

    When we really fall in love with someone and want to end the relationship, there are days when it is painful and uncomfortable. But after getting through it, and looking back, there is nothing to believe me, time will forget everything.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He likes to hide something from you now, then I'm afraid there will be more things to hide from you later, this kind of boyfriend is really unreliable, I suggest you better stay away from this kind of man, it can be seen that he likes to be ambiguous with other girls, if he doesn't take the initiative to confess to you about the things behind it, I really hope you don't be with this kind of scumbag, the sooner you leave, the luckier you are, and the fewer troubles associated with it, leave the beauty to people who really know how to appreciate you, and let yourself live a wonderful life, not depressed, Such a boyfriend will bring you infinite troubles later, don't say that you are reluctant to be emotional, otherwise you will really suffer later, stay away from scumbags, from now on.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This kind of thing depends on what you think, there is a first time and a second time, rest assured, maybe some people he is a flower, there is no other, many times I think the method may be cruel, but the effect is absolute, with the way of others to return to their bodies. Otherwise, if you forgive him, there may be a second time, because he knows that he coaxed you to pass, only let him know the pain in it, if he doesn't care, why do you forgive him, you should go your own way.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello landlord!

    Your boyfriend has cheated on you.

    Explain that he is scum, what else do you have.

    I can't let go of him, he is chatting with other girls behind your back.

    It means that they are not loyal enough to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I deleted it and may add it back. It's better to communicate well and ask what the relationship is, and the man said that there is no pure friendship between men and women, because he is a man, so he understands men. But,Men can't do it and don't contact other girls.。。。

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on what kind of deception, money, or feelings, if it is a well-intentioned deception, forgive, if it is malicious deception, it is up to you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on what aspect deceived you, whether it was emotional or money, whether it was a well-intentioned deception or malicious deception, if it was not a friend with you and there was an ulterior deception before marriage, then as long as he is with you now and has changed his evil ways and is sincere to you, then you can be willing to forgive him because no one is perfect, and there is no gold and gold. Those who don't make mistakes, as long as they know that they can change their mistakes, they are good people, I want to forgive him, give him a chance, and give yourself a chance, life is short, I hope you cherish it, I hope you are happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe they're just friends, talking about your little willfulness so they don't want you to see it, and you don't see their ambiguous words, first of all, you don't trust each other, why don't you listen to his explanation, and secondly, every man needs to be transformed, and how to transform it depends on yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he really cheats on you, you have to ask your heart if you can forgive him, think about it clearly, and then know what to do.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The fact that you are asking this question here proves that you don't really want to forgive him, and you can't accept forgiving him, so let's separate if you can't get in, don't embarrass yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you care, forgive, don't have to worry about it.

    If you have an emotional cleanliness fetish, don't you have contact with women?

    Is it so? Let go of the knot for the time being, and carefully examine whether your boyfriend is wholeheartedly devoted to you.

    If not, give up early.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I can't forgive, my husband just cheated on me, I have a child, I won't forgive him, my view of love is also clean, since you have someone else in your heart, I don't need you, if I am in your heart, how can you go to find someone else, leave it as soon as possible!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How could it not, it's addictive to chatting and chatting. As a result, it was green. Give it up! The heart is not with you. It's useless to force it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't forgive, after opening meat, there are a few people who can switch to vegetarianism.

    Girls don't forget the first boy they liked. Even in the awkward past, a girl will never forget the first boy she if things don't quite work out.

    But usually someone is there to office words of wisdom.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This kind of lie should be a white lie, right? If he doesn't tell you what happened to them, won't you be able to forgive him? It's good to look at the opening point, think about it from another perspective, if you did it with your ex-boyfriend and your current boyfriend asks you, will you admit it? Forgive what should be forgiven, and forget what should be forgotten!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on whether it is a white lie or deliberately deceiving you, if it is deliberately deceiving you, then don't forgive him, if it is a benign deception for your good, I feel that it is better to forgive him You can give him a chance if you care about him

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    For kind people, the face is the window of the soul, and for **, the face is the prop of the conspiracy In love, when you encounter**, don't be reasonable, go away, don't look back, when you meet true love, you must understand the reason, cherish it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can practice the trumpet, and after the trumpet level 50, the gift package will be given, make a few phase compasses by yourself, charge the trumpet, and then trade it so can't you?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    hello : isn't this what the landlord is looking for ? hurry up and take a look here ! Go straight to it!

    whx: First of all, I want to say that now that you are open to each other and have nothing to hide, this is something to be happy about. The reason why I choose to deceive is because I don't want to be looked down upon, and the reason why I don't want to be looked down on is because we care about each other. So there is an emotional foundation between you, you have to believe in you, and you also have to believe that the relationship and relationship between you for a year is not fake.

    In other words, since you are in love, why don't you believe that he will forgive you? If you care about him so much, you will also have a different place in his heart.

    I can understand your feelings, you may feel that this incident will become an indelible black spot in your relationship and even in your future life, and you are afraid that this incident will be ambushed and become a crisis in your marriage in the future. But I don't see it that way, since I choose to love, I must go on, because it is rare to meet a person who can talk and get by, and there may be people who will never meet in their lifetime. And feelings are such things as fate, and there is also a saying that God is destined, so nothing that should be together cannot be separated, so you should be full of confidence.

    Some things slip through your fingers inadvertently, and it's not the same thing to try to redeem them. No matter what you've worked hard for, I think no matter how it ends at that time, at least you have no regrets in life, right?

    I still sincerely hope that you are happy, everyone is equal in love, don't let this matter affect your mood and your courage to face the future life, happiness is to rely on yourself to strive for, come on!!

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Maybe you're not used to his temporary departure, aren't you sad that he deceived you, this is just a remnant of the good past, you can't give it up for a while, it's like this. It's good to get used to it, find more friends to accompany you, and if you leave, it can only mean that you are not suitable. You will meet people who are better than him, bless you.