I don t know what to do next

1。Why is it confusing? Your stress is mostly caused by an unstable job and you don't have a purpose in life.

2。You say there is no family affection? Just because your father doesn't like to talk doesn't mean he doesn't care about you and doesn't love you.

Most fathers are not good at words to their children, perhaps because they have a generation gap with their children and do not understand communication; Maybe it's because I don't want to fight with my children, it's neither big nor small; In short, he has always established a father image with strictness, but he will use his actions to show the meaning of love. 3。No friendship, you say?

You say you don't know how to handle relationships, which explains why you have few friends. 4。No love, you say?

As you can see from the above, your personality is introverted, some lack of assertiveness, you are not very active in your feelings, and you like to go with the flow, which can only be said that the other half of your life has not yet come. Combined with these four reasons, whether you stay to study medicine, English or other industries, you should first find a stable job (since you like English so much, you should try again, there is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people who have a heart!). As long as you have perseverance, you will succeed) Life is no longer confused, and the mood will naturally improve.

About family affection? Since your father doesn't like to talk much, you can take the initiative, such as cooking a few good dishes for your family, and your parents will be relieved and moved when they see it. What about friendship?

It is actually normal for former friends and classmates to go their separate ways and have less contact for their own business. But if you take the initiative, you will have more friends, and on the contrary, you will not be contacted. You can find new friends when you find a stable job.

About love? I can only say that your fate has not yet arrived, rest assured, there will be. The four points are solved, and you will find that life is not as bad as you think.

I'm in a similar situation to you, I studied law. Hobbies, friends, and family status are almost the same as yours.

I am full of anxiety about the future, my friends around me hurriedly pass by, and the friends who I used to think I could confide for a lifetime are gone. For me, my family is the source of loneliness during the festival. Love, I used to yearn for it, but because I didn't have enough courage, I missed what I wanted the most, and then I stopped thinking about it.

Some time ago, a high school friend hinted at me and confessed, and I refused in a joking tone, maybe this friend is also going to be lost.

I like English, I passed the fourth or sixth level, but my major told me, don't think about it, there are so many students majoring in English, I, what's the matter. Including my major, many of my classmates came prepared, and their families either had money or power, and they basically didn't have to worry about their future. I'm not afraid of your jokes, after I studied law, I didn't have a good impression of the law, the law is not pure, it involves too many rights and interests, justice?!

Hehe, you can't control it when it's time to use it.

Your condition, or ours, is rooted in the fact that we always face life negatively!

Family, we need to communicate more actively!

Friends, old ones, married people, just turn them over, because your circle of friends changes with your position, meet new people more.

Love, I think it's better to pursue your own future first. When it stabilizes, it will come across a good one.

My current task is to take the law graduate school exam, but I have not given up on English and plan to study English on my own in the second year of graduate school. If unfortunately I don't get into graduate school, then I will do my best to find a job first, settle down and seek opportunities. To give you this, I was interrupted a few times by my classmates, and it was written very messily, if you can see this, then we can communicate, I'm a girl, and I think you too.

Your problem, it's really hard to say, it's simple, it's very simple.

Learning English is actually not difficult, as long as you master a large enough vocabulary and find the true meaning of each word, not the kind that is translated literally in Chinese. It's like a kanji, the meaning of the same word is different on different occasions, but the meaning of the root remains the same.

And your team members, what a good observer, the mistakes they make, as long as you summarize and improve and absorb, you can avoid countless detours. If you share your experience, they won't like you?

Having said all this, what I mean is that you don't experience the real life, you can't see the inner connection, you can only look at the surface.

I recommend: experience life more, suffer more intentionally, summarize experience from it, accumulate to a certain extent, you will find something, hehe.

That's ...... overYou have low self-esteem. Then I should have low self-esteem, I will only go online every day to help others answer questions, you are better than me!

Reality this thing ......The more you run away from it, the tighter it follows, and you have to chase it in turn.

If you want to develop your English, then you should encourage yourself to get back the energy you lost! We live on ourselves, not on others!

Your original self-confidence is very good, and then look at your current self, compared with your previous self, which one will you choose? So I say: Struggle. You're still young, and being negative too early can really bury your whole life!

A typical newcomer's phobia is not familiar with the society that is about to enter, so it is actually normal to have a fear of it. Studying medicine is still promising, I studied pharmacy. I have been in the hospital for nearly ten years, and I envy the doctors, only if I get the professional physician certificate, it is easy to find a job anywhere.

Now many hospitals are privatized, so doctors still have a future. Well done, bro.

There's no way around it, you just grab the one thing you want to do the most and stay the course. There's nothing I can do to help you, I can only support you on the Internet side to persevere to the end.