There are psychological hurdles after a breakup, and the psychological stage after a breakup

We always think that a relationship is over, if the other party proposes to break up with you, then you will definitely think that he and she don't like you and let you down, you will be miserable, and then angry, and it will be difficult to accept the reality that the other party proposed to break up. Actually, don't think that he proposed to break up with you first, then after the breakup, he will be relieved and relaxed. In fact, at this time, his feelings are not necessarily better than yours at all.

When a relationship ends, both men and women are in a bad mood.

Please don't be wary of people because of a failed relationship, because there is a problem with the compatibility of the relationship itself. Not being able to open your heart means that you will have a hard time finding someone you love with. Because you are timid in the process of falling in love and refuse to release your true self, your personal charm cannot bloom, which will not help you in your next relationship.

Handsome guy, why are you so infatuated?

She's with someone else, it's useless to think about it, just find another one, don't be wronged, your body is your own, and no one cares if it collapses.

It's a psychological problem, and it's good to think about it. A man, what's this, what if he is dumped? You're just hurting your own Jiangkang. Be chic, and find a better one.

Combat the lack of sexual affection, and punish yourself. Since you have been wrong, you can't change the past, you have to learn to forgive yourself, go with the flow, and change it.

There are three psychological stages after a man breaks up, which are the release period, the aftertaste period, and the chasing period.

1. Release period.

A man will feel that he has finally thrown off a burden and gotten rid of the angry and quarrelsome woman, and he will begin to enjoy a free life, and your upside down begging will make him look down on you and hate you even more. I have to say that they are very different from women. What are the three psychological stages of a man after a breakup?

I believe that many women are basically immersed in sadness in the period after the breakup, and it is difficult to get out. And men are relatively easy to come out.

2. Aftertaste period.

When the woman begins to give up, the man will feel as if he has lost something, and will begin to think of your kindness to him, and remember the good memories of the past. This huge contrast will make a man's heart produce a huge sense of loss, and he will feel lonely and lonely in his life. Then he began to miss your goodness and recall the warmth you brought to him during the time you were together.

At this time, the stage belongs to the aftertaste period, and he will have an urge to redeem it, and at the same time redeem the ** period. At this stage, the success rate of recovery will be greatly improved.

3. Chase period.

At this stage, the woman starts a new life, you don't care about him, you are unwilling or even better than before, the man will feel that he has completely lost you, he will have a strong desire to conquer, and he will start to come back to you.

At this time, most men are surprised to find that women's self-healing ability is very strong, if you find that women have begun a new life, in response to this situation, it is recommended that men should not waste energy, if at this time the woman you have not come out, there are still feelings for this man, then please be cautious, you have to find out whether he is truly remorseful, or just unwilling to break up the loneliness, it is not too late to make a decision.

Friend, you feel bad. I can understand that, but I don't think I have to. In other words, your girlfriend doesn't love you, even though it's because you're wrong.

I don't think it's worth doing this for someone who doesn't love you. The so-called scholar is dead, but your girlfriend doesn't want you anymore, so why do you care about her and her current boyfriend?

The best thing you can do is to love yourself now. You should be glad that she has a new love so soon, and I don't think you should care too much about this kind of person. At the same time, you should also strive to improve yourself.

There is nothing to be sad about losing someone who doesn't love you, people should also be generous, this is growth.

Friend, do you know my pain? I can't be with my beloved, we love each other in every way, and we have parted countless times, but we can't cross it because of the barriers in reality. Friend, what you have to cherish is yourself and the person who loves you, and don't feel bad for someone who is no longer worthy of love.

Good luck. The road ahead will be better!

You're still a student, I'm working, and I've probably experienced more things in my life than you, hehe. I advise you to cherish yourself, you say that your heart is not good, it may be that you are distressed and hurt by love. Let it go.

Remember, change your bad feelings, forget about people who don't love you, and disdain people who don't love or don't really put you at ease, why not? Chasing a better life.

It's a matter of time, these days you should do something to make yourself happy, such as working with peace of mind, or caring for your parents, or going on a trip, separating and separating, and meeting better and more suitable ones in the future, as an experience, if it's really because of yourself, just find a quiet place for yourself, think about it, I wish you happiness...

It's okay, time is the best medicine, you'll be fine after a while, don't be sad.

The next day, she spent 24 hours trying to choose between you, and finally decided to let go because it was too uncomfortable, hoping that you would do the same.

Thank you for your invitation.

Good afternoon. What is the hurdle that cannot be overcome? There is a glimmer of hope.

It is very difficult for people who are caught in feelings to completely detach themselves from feelings. No matter how both sides leave, there may be a glimmer of hope in her heart. Maybe beautify him over time.

Two short stories

I have a friend who used to like a boy very much, and when she was in junior high school, she liked her, and at that time the boy didn't have that kind of love like it, maybe it was ambiguous at most.

Later, after graduating from junior high school, they got together. I also forgot who confessed. The girl has always liked him very much, but then something happened and they broke up.

Later, in high school, the girl agreed to someone else's confession, but in fact, she still couldn't let him go. Later, the girl and the current one encountered an emotional crisis, and then broke up. (The girl's relationship this time is a little out of wanting to be angry with the boy)

Later, the girl reconciled with him (the first), and this time it seemed that neither of them could let go of each other, and thus passed the three years of high belt middle school, during which the girl went to the boy's house several times, and his parents knew their feelings. Later went to college.

Later, when I went to play with her, I learned that she and he had broken up.

And a friend. We went to high school together. There was a boy in our class who liked her, but the girl didn't have that kind of affection for him. Probably due to everyone's coaxing, he confessed, and she agreed.

Later, something happened and they broke up, but the boy still liked her and always liked her. In my senses, all three years of high school were like this.

I don't know what she likes about him, but after they broke up, sometimes the boy was kind to other girls, and she felt a little uncomfortable. And that boy has always been nice and considerate to her.

Sometimes, when she tells me about it, I think that maybe she doesn't like it, but is used to the boy's love for her.

Habits are the hardest to change.

You said that you didn't like him at first, and you were together because he was good to you. Your friends don't think he's worthy of you.

At the end, you say that he wants to follow you wherever you go.

When I saw this, the first thought that came to my mind was: He is safe — you love his security. So he wants to be there for you all the time, so that he will feel safe.

It is impossible for him not to feel what your friends think of him, and it is impossible not to feel what you think.

After getting along for a long time, everything is easy to expose.

Because he likes you, he keeps pursuing you, and you say yes. He must have been very happy, indescribably happy. So he's afraid of losing you, so sometimes he reacts like that, violence that no one likes, but instead crying can have some effect, so he will be like that.

I don't know if you like him or if you're used to relying on him.

Maybe it's both, but to a different degree, maybe it's just one of them.

I think you have to see if you "like" or "habit" him. Then you will decide. Best wishes.

When I gave all my enthusiasm and initiative in exchange for his words like you are funny, you brag!

When the indescribable loneliness hits me in the dead of night, I don't have a good night to chat with him, and I fall asleep by myself, but when I wait until dawn to face the giant panda eyes, he says that he is not doing his job!

When I looked for him in the crowd, only to find him smiling with another woman!

When I was sick and hospitalized, he knew that he didn't have a word of comfort, and he didn't have **, when the message!

Each of us yearns for a happy relationship, but he lost to wishful thinking, obviously he loves so seriously, he has paid so much, but in exchange for the disdain of others, it turns out that the sincerity is really worthless, but it will drag down a person's body!

From the moment I gave up the person I loved the most, I felt that I had become the only version of myself, and I would no longer have the feeling of gaining and losing, let alone losing sleep for anything and anyone, and I found myself becoming more confident!

Couple.