I like him, but he treats me like a sister, how can I be good

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He knows you like him!! Look at it as a sister, either you have someone you like, you just don't think it's worthy of you!! If he doesn't like you or thinks you're not worthy of him, he won't pay attention to you!!

    He's going to be your sister because he doesn't want you to waste your time on him, and he wants you to die! 1 But he didn't dare to say it to his face. I'm afraid you're sad!!

    Since he doesn't want to, don't waste your time!! Even after a long time, as long as he doesn't change his original intention, he still won't accept your !! Don't force him!!

    Girls have to learn to be tolerant!! As many people have said, liking him doesn't have to have him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he knows, and he still treats you as a sister for half a year, it is probably hopeless, why don't you be happy and treat him as a brother, wouldn't it be better to have a natural relationship and not be so embarrassing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I used to like a girl and I didn't say it, but the other party knew that I liked her, and I didn't say it, and then she went to work far away and came back for the Chinese New Year, and I already had a wife, and I called my sister, and he called me brother, in fact, sometimes, it feels better to call my brother than to call my boyfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He doesn't treat you as a sister other than that means he doesn't have feelings for you. You see, either give up, or take the initiative to win his heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Like a person, but he has always treated you as a sister, which means that he really does not have more than brother and sister feelings for you, even if you work hard, he will not treat you as a girlfriend, then hide this emotion silently in your heart or turn this emotion into a brother and sister relationship, stay by his side even if you look at him from a distance to be happy, it is worth it, sometimes liking a person does not necessarily possess, let go is also a kind of happiness.

    There are three situations in which a boy treats you as a sister, the other party likes you, and is close to the relationship between brother and sister; The other party has someone he likes, and he is afraid that you will misunderstand, so he will be a brother and sister with you to avoid emotional entanglements; The other party really treats you as a sister, and has no other ideas.

    Except for the second one, for fear of misunderstanding the girl he likes, choose to be commensurate with your brother and sister, you are easy to become a spare tire.

    In the first and third, you still have a chance. Between people, after a long period of contact, feelings will arise, such as liking, gratitude, dependence, resonance, etc., which will warm up the relationship between two people.

    If you feel that you are a good fit for him, it is okay to continue to like him, but you should find a suitable opportunity to reveal it to him. After all, if no one pierced the window paper, they might really miss it.

    Emotional things, I think it's good to move forward bravely, and it's not that you fall in love with a certain star, you can't see it or touch it, the people around you, let him know if you like it.

    1 should insist, after all, it is a boy you like, it is easy to meet, you should boldly explain to him, confess, don't not explain. Let him feel that it's a little hard, men sometimes worry too much, and once they say it, they're afraid of losing you.

    2 should not insist, if he treats you as his own sister and takes care of you with family relationships, then it is time to give up your idea and keep the current relationship the best!

    If you like him, it doesn't mean that he likes you too, liking doesn't mean love, some people are suitable for being a couple, and some people are suitable for marriage. Think about what you want, if you want to develop a marriage with him, you have to think about it, if you just like to be with him, it's better to just be like that.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can continue to like each other, since you are said to be a sister, it means that he is not disgusted with you, so you can stay by this boy's side for a while. If the guy is in love, or if he has another girl he likes, it's time for you to leave him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Can continue to like. But this kind of liking, you can only like each other as a brother or a friend, but it is best to grasp your feelings and no longer have other ideas. In this way it is possible for the friendship to continue.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feelings are based on it, if he only treats you as a sister, it means that he still has a status in his heart and feels and likes it, but how to change this feeling, if you say that you love him with your heart and work hard for him, it will change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dear, there's no need to continue liking. The boy only treats you as a sister, which means that he has no heartfelt feelings for you, and he does not like you like love, so even if you continue to like him, I think it will not come to fruition.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think you can continue to like it, although he just treats you as a sister, but you can treat this feeling like love excessively depends on your own way of doing things. I think it's okay, and this kind of liking can actually develop into a good relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's really someone who has always regarded you as a sister, then don't continue to like him, maybe it's okay to treat him as an ordinary brother and an ordinary friend, because it's impossible to become a couple, so you don't want to be entangled anymore.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No. The person who only treats you as a sister, he values family affection, and it is not easy to elevate this feeling to love, he can't step through the hurdle in his heart, and his heart will be quite resistant.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the person you like just treats you as a sister, it means that the other person has no affection for you and can continue to like you. But the premise of liking is that you can't disturb and interfere in his life, and you can't destroy his feelings in the name of liking.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The other party only treats you as a sister, which means that you are less likely to develop into a couple, so it is recommended that you give up liking him and be an ordinary friend rather than having a bleak relationship after being rejected.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Can continue to like. But since he treats you as a sister, it's possible that he doesn't have a love for you. So you can like him, but you can control your liking and do it to your friend's liking.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can continue to like it, but the other party just treats you as a sister, and it is impossible for the two of you to have results, and if you continue to like it, it will be a waste of your time and energy. It is recommended to let go as soon as possible, and the feelings cannot be forced.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, you can continue to like him, because even if it's a sister, you have to build on the basis of liking. If you are just commensurate with your sister, and you are not a family relationship in the real sense, in fact, you can still become a couple in the subsequent development of your relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can continue to like it, but if the boy shows that he only treats you as a sister, you can only like it like a big brother, and don't have any other ideas.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course you can, you can continue to love him, you don't have to get him to love someone, as long as he is happy, you will also feel very happy, right? Maybe because of your persistence, he will be moved by you and will accept you as his girlfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, let's be friends with this, because the other party doesn't treat you as a couple, so there's no need to like it anymore, even if you can't become a couple, you can be an ordinary friend, as long as you can stay by his side and watch him well, it's okay. I believe that one day you can also meet someone who is interesting to you, and someone will always walk into you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the person you like is single, then you can continue to like it, pursue it, and he will definitely like you before he treats you as a sister. If he has a girlfriend or someone he likes, you give up and find someone who really likes you, and you will be happier.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course, you can like it, but if he has always treated you as a sister, then you have to think clearly, whether the relationship you like should continue? I think you have to be thoughtful.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think if you like someone, maybe she only treats you as a sister, of course, you shouldn't continue to like it, because his liking for you may just be a sister's like, so it shouldn't be liked.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think it's better to continue liking it, because if he treats you as a sister, he won't have feelings for you, so I don't think he will like you in the future, so I don't think you need to continue.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think if you like it. A person who only treats you as a sister should not like it anymore, his feelings for you are just not that lover, and there is no lover between the two of you, so don't waste time with him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't continue to like him, because the guy just treats me as a sister and doesn't have feelings for me between men and women, and it doesn't lead to any result if I continue.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can also continue to like the other person, and as long as he is single, you can pursue the happiness you want. You are in love with him, and he is family affection to you, and this kind of love is like a moth to a fire, and it will not come to fruition in the end.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you like someone who only treats you as a sister, then you shouldn't continue to like him. Because he only has affection for you, not love. So if you're going to keep liking it, then it's going to hurt. You can't get love either.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I will continue to like him, I will tell him, although he said that he treats me as a sister, but I can honestly tell him that I have never treated him as my brother, but as my partner, I want to be a couple with him, and not keep him in the dark, so that he will always get along with you in the way of brother and sister is not a couple.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you like someone who only treats you as a sister, then in the other person's heart, there is only family affection, but no love. Then there is no need to think about continuing to like it, because the other person has no love for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A boy who used to like him, and now he is still very good to you and says that he wants you to be a sister, it may be that he has completely let go and has no feelings for you, instead of liking you.

    Guys like very different people at different times. During that period, he may have taken a fancy to some of your shining points for some reasons, and these traits just attracted him at that time, so he tried his best to pursue you, hoping to make you his object, but once that time period passed, he may not like this type of girl, and you are not so attractive to him, so he no longer likes you, so he can naturally put you down and treat you like a sister, although the two of them have no fate as a couple, but after all, they are still friends, and they know each other. Just be nice to you.

    Of course, it may also be that this boy already knows that he will never be able to catch up with you, and your actions have already let him know that he is not destined to be a couple with you, so he would rather choose to treat you as a sister, and the two of them get along as friends, so as to maintain the friendship. This boy generally doesn't like you anymore, he used to like you, but was rejected by you, boys don't have to chase girls reluctantly, they will also weigh their interests after knowing that their pursuit is rejected, and no longer choose to continue to be a couple with you, but retreat to the second, and instead maintain a friendship that he feels is more important.

    There is also a situation where this boy has a relatively high emotional intelligence, although he doesn't want to like you anymore, but he wants to give you a face, and he doesn't want to snub you immediately and make you sad. He treats you well by treating you as a sister, which can not only justify the relationship between the two people, but also make you feel less embarrassed, so that the friendship between the two people can quickly return to a normal state, so that he can tolerate you, is a kind of cherishing of friends, and also reflects that this boy's emotional intelligence is very high, but he doesn't still like you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, this is still like you, because for a boy who has liked you, it is your own charm that is very great, so he still treats you as his own sister, so he is afraid of losing you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This doesn't like you anymore, he may now have transformed his love for you into affection, hoping that you can be okay and doesn't want to be with you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's obvious that he doesn't like you anymore, he just wants to maintain a good friend relationship with you, because he knows that he can't catch up with you, so he can only be friends.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Let's talk about the specific situation, such as whether it is a sister control or something.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If the guy you like treats you as a sister, it could mean that he doesn't have romantic feelings for you, but rather sees you as family or friends. In this case, you can consider the following:

    1.Communicate honestly: If you feel comfortable and comfortable, you can communicate your feelings openly with him. Tell him that you have feelings for him that are more than just a sister, but also respect his thoughts and feelings.

    2.Accept reality: If it is true that he only sees you as a sister, then you need to accept this reality and try to let go of feelings for him. You can laugh at him and try to adapt yourself to this new role.

    3.Divert your attention: You can try to divert your attention to other areas, such as developing your hobbies, making new friends, etc. This helps you shift your feelings and makes you more fulfilled and happy.

    Whichever approach you choose, respect the other person's thoughts and feelings and don't force him to accept your feelings. At the same time, be kind to yourself and give yourself the time and space to adapt to the new situation.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Category: Annoyances >> in love.

    Problem description: I like him very much, but he said that there is a girl he likes, he treats me as a sister, but I can't help the feeling towards him, when he is with other girls, I will cry, who will help me???

    Analysis: It doesn't matter, it shows that he still has you in his heart, think about it, since he recognizes you as a sister, it proves that he still cares about you.

    If you love him, you have to learn to let go, you have to give him a piece of your own sky, if he doesn't belong to you, or you can't give him happiness, don't force it, give it up for him. Bless him silently, help him, and I sincerely bless you.

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If you really like him, don't give up, you can be his sister first, contact him more, care about him by his side, I believe you will have a chance, what a man needs most is a woman who is really good to him, he may not understand it now, but he will know it in the future, and then he will feel that you are the person he should cherish the most.