If you have a lower education than yourself as a boyfriend, will there be a generation gap in the fu

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are a smart woman, in fact, it is impossible for men and women in this world to love each other if they really don't talk about money.

    In fact, it's not a junior high school, junior college problem, I also graduated from junior high school, I feel that college is great, study the same major, junior college students, college students, I will be a junior high school student. Don't look at this, I feel that you should look at his people, if a person is capable, even elementary school students are fine!! Many of the people who earn tens of millions of dollars a year here have not yet graduated from primary school!!

    If you don't care about these words (as long as you really love each other), then you don't have to listen to my words above!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There will definitely be! Although now, I feel that I want to be together, but, in the future, you will find that there are many common ideas in life, but education and quality are not necessarily proportional, as long as the person is good, the quality is high, it is OK, but the career is too poor, and after a long time, you will definitely complain to him. There will be a generation gap.

    Think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People's abilities and academic qualifications do not necessarily match each other. Money and status are mostly things outside the body. Look at what you like more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look at his ability, education is only a part of him, unless you think you can find a better man, appearance, personality, conditions, ability, and education are not bad. He said that he wanted to open a store to prove that he still had a lot of ideas, and now many college students can't find a job even if they are undergraduates, and some people buy houses instead of studying and doing business.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Multifaceted: affection, harmony, economy, quality of life of the family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Family conditions do not represent his own conditions. Academic qualifications and work have a certain impact, and the key is to see whether he is motivated.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on what you think, it's just a psychological problem. I get along with my husband very well!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Education doesn't mean anything, uh, 100,000 a year... No more, no less, depending on how you grasp it, whether you want money or love, grasp it yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What do you mean!! Look down on men!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is there any difference between junior college and junior high school???

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just wanted to ask you a question. What does education stand for!?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Education does not represent everything, the melody gap with friends is very large, and whether there is a generation gap in communication depends on one's own cultural accumulation.

    In many cases, we have to face the gap caused by academic qualifications, after all, academic qualifications are only a person's proof in a certain aspect, and cannot represent everything about a person.

    This cultural accumulation does not only refer to the level of academic qualifications, but also to the accumulation in daily life and the strength to expand knowledge. Many people do not have a high degree of education, but there are always many friends around them who are highly educated, but some people are very highly educated, but they are still unable to communicate effectively with people with the same high education, which is the gap brought by strength, not the real impact of education.

    Our definition of a person's education level cannot be judged solely by academic qualifications. Nowadays, there are many people with high academic qualifications, but there are also many people with low quality, difficult communication, and unclear logic. But it just so happens that there are always some people who have low education for some reason, but they have not given up in the process of their lives, and strive to enrich themselves at every moment of every day, constantly expand their knowledge, and continue to work forward and develop, so their social experience and knowledge development are not inferior to those with high education.

    Therefore, if you and your friends still get along, and this harmony is not only reflected in the happiness brought by reminiscing about the past when the two of you communicate, but also can talk about other topics such as development at the same time, and even look forward to the future, then it means that there is not a lot of generation gap between you, but if you are only together to talk about the past, and any topic other than the old talk can not be continued, it means that there is indeed a generation gap between you. If that's the case, as a former friend, it's enough to catch up on the old days, and don't try to develop further friendships.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is indeed a chaotic hidden family hall, and the educational gap with friends is relatively large, and the level of chatting and accompanying is not the same, and various ideas cannot reach unity, and there will be a generation gap.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is true that there will be a big generation gap, two people are not at the same level of knowledge, and when talking about something, opinions and disagreements will be inevitable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There won't be a big generation gap, because you won't have an academic discussion with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's okay for a boyfriend to have a lower education than me, and it's normal now.

    Love (liàn ài) is the act of two people loving each other. There are different definitions in different eras, and the modern definition is the most sincere admiration for each other formed by two people based on certain conditions and the ideal of life in love together, and longing for each other to become their lifelong partners The strongest, most stable and most dedicated feelings.

    Mature period of love

    At this stage, people have a clear definition of love and marriage, and are not affected by universal values, and have higher internal requirements for the other half (meaning to be consistent with their own values).

    Exhibit behavior. 1: Not arrogant or impatient, rather single, never improvised, absolutely rather lacking than indiscriminate.

    2: I can afford to put it down.

    3: It is not easy to determine the relationship, but the happiness is generally higher after entering the marriage.

    In the eyes of the world, they may not be successful, but they generally have a good mentality, no matter good times or bad, they can deal with them calmly, they can find the joy of life, such people are more tolerant, comfortable with others, and respect different concepts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The fact that a boyfriend has a lower education level than himself is not a problem in itself, and this should not be a deciding factor in the relationship. However, it may cause some problems or stress in some cases, so the following measures are recommended:

    Accept the actual situation of the other party: the boyfriend's education is not all he has, he has other qualities and abilities. If you truly love him, then you should respect his career choices and life path.

    Encourage the other person to further study: If your boyfriend is unhappy with his self-rented career and future development, you can encourage him to study further and improve his skills and knowledge, which may help him achieve his dreams and goals.

    Don't deliberately emphasize the issue of academic qualifications: In daily life, do not deliberately emphasize the issue of your boyfriend's academic qualifications, which may make him feel embarrassed or stressed. Instead, one should approach the various problems in the relationship with an egalitarian mindset.

    In short, a boyfriend's educational background is not a measure of a person's everything, but more important is whether both parties have similar values, life goals, interests and hobbies in common, and whether they can respect, understand and support each other. Thank you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Academic qualifications are not the only criterion for judging a person. Because academic qualifications do not determine a person's IQ, talent, morality, ability and achievement. Love should also not be limited by academic qualifications, because the core of love lies in mutual respect and understanding, support and care.

    If your boyfriend is nice, self-motivated, like-minded with you, and willing to grow with you, then academic qualifications shouldn't be an obstacle between you.

    Of course, if you need a partner with a comparable education to meet your inner needs, then you need to pay more attention to this when looking for a partner and find someone who is a better match for you.

    On the other hand, if your family, friends, or social environment have a lot of objections or pressure on you and your boyfriend's academic qualifications, you need to learn to be firm in your beliefs and values, and put your mindset right. The most important thing is to take the turn of the car, to put the relationship between yourself and your boyfriend first, rather than being swayed by the concepts and standards of the outside world.

    If the educational gap between you and your boyfriend is indeed adversely affecting your long-term development, you can work together and support you to improve your academic qualifications and vocational abilities in order to better meet the challenges in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. If the educational background is too different, sometimes the content of the conversation is not at one point, such as what I like and my understanding of a thing, he always can't feel it, and he doesn't understand, this kind of words, it is really uncomfortable to communicate together, but this education is two levels of difference, such as one is a junior high school graduate, one is a high school graduate, such a situation! 2. If I am a doctor and the other party is an undergraduate, I don't think this is enough to cause a certificate in love, because the master's degree and doctorate are only you are very good in your field, but they have all gone through the undergraduate education, and everyone's three levels are basically the same, unless the environment is different, for example, if you are studying abroad for a master's degree and a doctorate, she is in an ordinary second-tier city in China, and this gap is not caused by academic qualifications, but by the environment. 3. I don't think there's any problem with me falling in love with someone with a low education, because after all, we all have communication before, so we are together, we have early communication, so it is suitable or not, we are relatively clear, and the so-called three views do not coincide, not caused by academic qualifications, but the environment in which we are located, this is what I agree with, because in the process of receiving education, the ability of two people is almost the same, unless one is particularly smart, there is no way!

    In most cases, if your boyfriend has a lower education than you, you can break up with him according to your choice, but there will be some exceptions.

    For example, academic qualifications do not affect the level of communication between you. This situation generally occurs when the original emotional foundation of both parties is better, and the two people are willing to pay for each other. At this time, although the girl has improved her education by her own efforts, or the boy's education is already low, she can continue the relationship in other ways.

    In other words, boys have the value that girls need. This value can be either material or emotional. Just like two people complement each other in personality, then the issue of academic qualifications will not have an impact on the relationship between the two.

    Summary. The value judgment in one's own relationship can neither be arbitrary, nor can it be deeply loved, but must be constantly adjusted according to one's own changes. Only when you make the right choice at the right time can you be responsible for yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you feel that he is not worthy of you, break up as soon as possible. If you don't think it's a problem, get along with it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Academic qualifications do not represent ability and education level!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Essentially, as long as I like this person, then I am willing to accept the culture, and people who are lower than me fall in love.

    The level of education is only one degree of universality. The level of education of your other half does not mean anything, but more importantly, it depends on the essence of this person. Many excellent people have not had a high degree of education, and there are many reasons, such as family economic problems and so on.

    Moreover, the level of education can be caught up and made up for later.

    If the communication is unhindered, the ideas have always been the same, what does it matter if there is so much high level of education; On the contrary, if the other party has a high level of education, but you can't communicate and communicate, then what's the use?

    Of course, if you don't understand each other and have no emotional foundation, it's like choosing a mate in the form of blind dates. Then let's take a look at the other party's academic qualifications, after all, the general view is that high education also represents high personal quality. In the absence of other hardware to compare and reference, it is better to choose a higher education or equivalent than yourself, so that you can have considerable topics and ideas, and there will not be too much gap.

    One person reads books every day, and the other chases soap operas every day, and it is difficult for the two to have a common language.

    On the contrary, if the two themselves know each other very well, the emotional foundation is also deep. Then it doesn't matter if the level of education or whether it is a match or not. It's good to love each other, and it's good to understand each other.

    Although some people are not highly educated, they are very cultivated, very emotionally intelligent, and very considerate of each other, so such people are also very attractive and must be very likable.

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