I am very tired, my husband is also very busy, I am really not suitable for marriage, and I want to

Updated on society 2024-05-23
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not easy for two people to come together, isn't there a saying that "500 times of looking back in the past life can be exchanged for a passing in this life". Now that you are married, don't divorce easily, try to relax your heart, find something you like to do, and spread the energy on your husband a little, maybe you won't have so much loneliness.

    Isn't the business at home also for money and for living? Your husband listens to his mother's words to show that he is filial, if a man doesn't even listen to his mother's words, how much do you think he will listen to his wife?

    As for not liking your mother-in-law, it's mainly because you feel that she is taking up your husband's time, be more tolerant. It's not easy to be a family, so if you can't treat your mother-in-law as a mother, try to get closer to this side.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you like him? If you don't like it, don't say it, if you like it, if you like it. Although you should pay something for the person you like, but there is a limit, if you don't think it's worth it, maybe it's a good choice to leave, after all, he has adapted to his life, and if you don't leave, you have to adapt to that life in the second half of your life.

    It's sad to think about, but it's a lifetime thing. Careful...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily. But you prove that you don't trust your husband's mother. A home is one that family members trust each other. Go for it. Maybe your husband's mother will pay attention to you and like you. Maybe it's because your arrival will make a huge difference in their family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It should be the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem, look at the description of the landlord, you and your mother-in-law do not communicate much, it is best to strengthen communication, in addition you should communicate with your husband below, make your problem clear with him (of course, not as you said here), your husband should overcome this difficulty with you.

    The second point is that your husband's family business is all in charge of his mother, probably because their family has been living like this for a long time, and you are a little disconnected now, so it is best to work hard to integrate into it.

    No mother will find a vase for her son... Find your reason, your husband is not only your husband, but also your mother-in-law's son, and he must not just be by your side. Talk to your doctor about your baby's questions.

    The landlord has to adjust his mentality, women are not only family, when the family is busy, communicate with friends more, have their own life circle, have their own career, have their own pursuit.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why don't you pretend to be stupid, stick to your husband, don't you live in your mother's house to dislike your mother-in-law???

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hey, let it be, there are a lot of things that can't be solved, just find a way to do something to change it, and if you can't change the big environment, just create a comfortable environment for yourself with a small atmosphere.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The mother's family is good in every way, after all, it is the mother's family, after marriage, you need to get along with your husband's family, you need to have a run-in period, it is recommended that you communicate with them more, the child will be in a good mood, and the harmonious life of the family will also have. Be happy to face each day and believe in yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you marry me, I don't have a job to accompany you every day.

    Wait a minute, are you saying that I'm too unmanly and don't have a job?? Or am I unambitious?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your thinking is incorrect, you should find the reason from yourself, and don't bite other people's faults.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the eyes of businessmen, there is only money, no family affection. If you are willing to be a famous lady, just endure it, and mix it up for a day. If you want true happiness, love, and family, you must take a decisive step bravely and boldly go to the vast sea of people to find your true love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Two people have been together for a long time, they may feel particularly boring, and it is understandable that they have nothing to say all day, but Liang argues that since two people have chosen to be together, they must understand what their responsibilities are to the family, which is the most important thing, and only with a sense of responsibility to the family can they know what kind of things they should do every day.

    If we say that in life, in the family, we only pursue a kind of personal enjoyment, a kind of spiritual enjoyment, then there is no need to form any family.

    When we feel that it is more boring and boring in life, we can find a time to travel and find a time to relax ourselves, but we should not think about some things that should not be done casually, or even some things that are not conducive to the family and the harmony of husband and wife.

    A good family relationship, a good husband and wife relationship, need to be managed by the two of them.

    Learn to understand life, learn to understand feelings, then life will get better and better, and feelings will become stronger and stronger.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone faces various problems when they get married, and when you feel tired, you can choose to relax appropriately to make yourself a little more relaxed.

    Everyone goes through marriage when they grow up, but marriage is a very serious issue, and the most important thing is how you look at marriage. Marriage is run by two people, inseparable from either spouse, only the joint efforts of both parties, then our marriage will be more happyIf one of the spouses withdraws, then our marriage is doomed to a failed ending.

    In marriage, the most taboo is to say divorceWhen one of the two parties says something like this, it is very hurtful, so don't say it if you don't say divorce. Especially when you are more married, you will feel very different, thinking that you are experiencing marriage for the first time, from the home where you have grown up for many years to a new environment, so that you will feel very lonely, as long as you work hard to adapt to such an environment, you will find that you are not so tired, you are also very relaxed.

    When you first get married, if you feel that you are too tired, then you can choose to communicate with your husband moreAfter all, there is a certain emotional basis for two people to get married, if you don't say it, your husband will never know your existing problems, which makes you more uncomfortable, so this requires us to be able to express our problems well, so that these problems can be solved well, only when the problem is solved, then we will become happier.

    When everyone first got married, the gap in their hearts is very large, many people feel that their husbands don't love me as much as they think, in fact, in many cases, men are like this, but there is no such thing as not loving you, many people will not deliberately express their emotions, but will only put them in their hearts, so that the other party feels that their husbands do not love themselves as much as before, so that there are more contradictionsWe have to learn to understand, and only when we understand will our marriage be happier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you first get married, you feel very tired every day, which means that the two of you are really not suitable to live together, and it is definitely not good, so let's divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think you should get divorced, maybe you don't fit in at the beginning of marriage, so you feel tired, you should adapt to it for a while, and you shouldn't divorce easily.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think that two people have just got married and have a run-in period, and they should not divorce hastily, they are not responsible for their own lives, and two people should communicate more and talk about the problem and solve it together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, you should get divorced, even if there are some trivial things in life after marriage, but it will not make people feel tired every day, that is, there is a problem with your marriage partner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, you should get divorced, and you should be happier after getting married, which is a normal marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's better to divorce, because such a marriage makes you particularly painful, and it is better to be free after divorce.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, you have just gotten married, and you may not have found a suitable mode of getting along, you should run in more, and you can't divorce over a trivial matter, which is irresponsible to everyone.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There should be no divorce. This will make you seem to be particularly irresponsible, and you should find out the cause of your tiredness and make a solution.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just married, still in the run-in period, it is normal to be tired, marriage is not child's play, look at it in a different mode of getting along.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think you completely treat marriage as child's play, marriage and love are different, and the daily firewood, rice, oil and salt do make people feel very tired, but this is life, this is marriage.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first thing you should consider is whether you really have a problem, why is your husband reluctant to talk to you about his troubles after three years of marriage? Is it that you have not done a good job as a wife, think carefully about whether you are really the best wife should do, whether you are considerate of all aspects of your husband, and whether you have taken the initiative to care about whether your husband is tired or not after seeing him tiredEven if you don't say it, do you show that you care about your husband in action?

    There is also to consider why he doesn't tell you about his troubles, is it that the two of you rarely communicate with each other, and you will not share your joys, sorrows and sorrows with each other before you get married, is he afraid that you are worried or is it for you? As a couple, you should take the initiative to observe each other's emotions, and when you have observed your husband's troubles, at that time I thought why didn't you try to ask him gently what was wrong, the premise for the two of you to get married must be that each other is someone who wants to deliver your life, and the two of you trust each other.

    Many times, people's troubles are unwilling to talk to their loved ones, and you are needed at this timeHis wife came to solve his troubles, You should ask him subtly, slowly help him solve it, and then give her arms and comfort, so that over time, you will talk about everything, you say that your husband does not talk about troubles, this is definitely not a person's problem, what you need is two people to open their hearts in an independent space Two people face to face to have a good chat, increase each other's trust, try to talk to each other about your troubles in the future.

    When two people live together, they must learn to observe problems and learn how to deal with them wellThe existence of this problem should be a lubricant rather than a stumbling block for your two feelings.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In the besieged city of marriage, you feel very tired, which means that you have not managed your marriage well, and marriage needs to be managed by both parties. Two people can go from meeting and falling in love with each other to getting married and entering the besieged city of marriage, which is just the beginning of your married life, and there are still long years to be taken care of by the two of you, living together, and operating together. If you still love each other, then communicate with him more, try to help him solve his troubles, and let him get the warmth of the family, so that you will not feel depressed.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There may be several reasons why he doesn't tell you if he has troubles in the marriage, one is that he is afraid that you are worried, the other is that he thinks that you can't help her, and the third is that he is used to carrying it himself and does not trust others. Analyze your own reasons, try to change yourself, take the initiative to care for him, and help him. More communication and more understanding are more important than anything else.

    Love and marriage need to be cultivated and studied with heart, and progress together is a happy life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's been a tiring three years of marriage, and he doesn't tell me anything to worry about. This kind of marriage is so depressing, what should I do? He doesn't tell you if he has something on his mind, because he doesn't want you to know that he is afraid that you are worried and upset with him, it is for your own good, and he only wants to carry it alone, you should understand.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your sense of security should come from getting better every day, the weight you want to keep on the scale, the sufficient balance in the bank card and the full battery of the mobile phone, and it should not come from a man's love words and promises. —NetEase Cloud Hot Comment "The Security You Giving".

    Like is probably this: it is inevitable, it is difficult to recover, there is no recovery, and you are trying to possess it. —NetEase Cloud**.

    I had to pretend to like the moon because the sun wouldn't like me, I preferred solitude but pretended to live in the crowd - Huang San's "Pain".

    You send me a dream at dusk, full of lovesick joy and the stars of the universe, you are not the gentle person they say, you are gentle itself—the sentence.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Let's communicate more, the most basic thing between people is communication.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe he really loves you! I'm afraid you'll worry about him, so I won't tell you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is no trust between you ... And you can't do it, so how do you talk about it? introduced.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This shows that you are truly in love. You learn to convince him. Blessed and shared. There are difficulties together.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    His annoyance is that he doesn't want to tell you, he doesn't want you to worry about her, and she is in charge of her affairs?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Just say it directly, just say that you don't feel it anymore and want a divorce.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is a personal feeling, others are not good to interfere, but I want to advise you, cherish the moment, as for what to do, it's very simple, let's make it clear, don't hurt each other, it's all adults can bear. Besides, he may not love you for a long time.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Think about what your husband is working so hard for? It's not for this family, it's for you, how can you bear to divorce him? To be a man, you have to talk about your conscience, you feel that this kind of thing can be cultivated, you can do more things between husband and wife with your husband, and it is best not to divorce.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why do young people nowadays want to get divorced at every turn? It's not easy to form a family, you can't break up and get divorced because of these trivial things, life is not easy, life is not easy. Persistence is victory.

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