Why is it that in my husband s heart, I don t understand anything, I don t know anything?

Is it a little boy or a little girl? If you're a little girl, when you grow up, you'll go shopping hand in hand with your mother

Women need to be independent, especially financially! You can change for the man you love, but you don't have to blindly change for him, be his sheep! 20 years old is a beautiful age, do what you want to do, and try to do it well, and your husband will change his attitude towards you!

I think you should be financially independent, and you should not be a housewife, otherwise you will be out of society and will naturally have no common language with your husband.

This is the trouble of early marriage and early childbearing...

You are very similar to my wife, and you are the same as you at the beginning...I think it's stupid to be stupid, I can't learn anything, and the two of us discuss thisWhen I first started reading it, I thought my daughter-in-law sent it

Scared me haha. I'm sorry, my child is only more than 1 month old. But I also have conflicts with my wife now, and I'm also annoyed psychologically, and my Q598922211 can chat.

Hello, feelings are mutual, when you feel that the other party does not love you so much, I think you should communicate more with your partner, truly understand each other to respect and love each other, work together to face life, and work together to achieve a better future for each other and the future.

Therefore, learning to communicate and get along with each other is the most important point, and we must continue to work hard to learn and improve.

1. Keep your profile down when communicating.

I'm right", this attitude will only lead to the deterioration of the communication relationship and make it impossible for communication to continue. When communicating, it is best to keep your profile as low as possible, that is, to fully respect the opinions of the other party, and to express your opinions and opinions appropriately and not excessively.

Even if you think that your statement is not wrong or there is a problem with the other party's opinion, you should first listen to the other party finish what Shi Chang said, different people have different ideas, the ability to express and understand is also different, maybe there is a mistake in the other party's expression or there is a deviation in your own understanding, you should lower your posture and listen patiently.

2. Keep a normal mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your feelings, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

3. Abandon your self-esteem when communicating.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

4. Be honest in communication.

It is very important to be honest with each other in the process of communication, and there is no concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen your cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication. Let the relationship between you develop more tacitly.

I think this is the case with my husband, I don't want to talk to him more, now, I have to quarrel if I talk too much, and when I quarrel, I love to cry and cry, and people will not feel sorry for themselves. Now I have a kind of mentality of getting by.

Why don't men understand me? "Why doesn't my boyfriend understand me, a woman must see.

Alas, our sisters have a life, and the conclusion of my ten-year marriage is that my husband actually doesn't love ...... himself enough

It's the same with the one in our family, he doesn't understand me at all, it's the same as yours, and even almost, we quarrel or have a cold war, he never admits mistakes or says a good word, he feels that his heart is getting colder and colder, and now he is struggling to support his children, and he doesn't know how long he can last ......

Why don't men understand me? "Why doesn't my boyfriend understand me, a woman must see.

Hello, I can see that you really want to communicate well with your husband, you should love your husband very much.

In that case, you need to reflect on how you spend time with each other on a day-to-day basis. Communication also requires skill.

The new small family formed by two families coming together must enter into marriage with their own characteristics. Behind the marriage crisis, it is not as simple as you are wrong and I am wrong, but it reflects how children with internal injuries in both aspects can find their inner self through the mirror of marriage, of course, some people will not find it in their lifetime. The pain of accepting the differences between the two parties is far greater than the love between the two parties.

If you want to solve the problem, you must accept and identify with everything about the other party, including cultural background, family habits, handling methods, values, and so on.

Therefore, if you want to communicate well with your husband, then accept and tolerate him first, maybe your husband is not good at communication, please give him time to change your current situation is not a special case, many families also have similar confusion to you, this is actually a conflict between two family cultural backgrounds and values, so, don't be sad first, take stock of the problem, face it positively, rest assured, if you are sincere, warm respect him, everything will slowly get better.

If you need psychological assistance, you can do it privately.

Generally speaking, this is how your daily communication pattern is established. It's not that the other person doesn't like you, you don't have to think about it.

In addition, if we pay attention to what the other person is thinking, it is often that our lives are not fulfilled enough, and it is easy to pay too much attention to what the other person is thinking.

As for communication, if there are no contradictions or few contradictions between the two sides, it means that there is no problem in communication. We don't need to make a negative assessment of our marital status.

It is possible that it is said that women's minds are difficult to fathom, and men's minds are also difficult to fathom.

In your case, you're too smart, he's too stupid, maybe you're too demanding, he's too far from your ideals. Therefore, you are now strongly dissatisfied, especially when you feel that it is difficult for both parties to communicate, and this sense of distance can easily have a great impact on the couple's love life. In short, if you are dissatisfied with him and he doesn't try to change, then, separate, it will be better for him.

He's not the kind of person who can handle high pressure.

Didn't find out before marriage, and found out instantly after marriage?

Seeing the word "I don't understand", Sister Xiaohong remembered: fake sexual intimacy.

Pseudo-intimacy (IRRELATIONSHIP) refers to the fact that many people are in a very shallow state of emotional connection, and then in a state of inaction.

What is the situation? On the surface, you seem to be in harmony and affection, and you don't quarrel or fight, but you feel unhappy. And whenever you want to confide in him, you always can't speak, for fear that the reason is not sufficient, for fear of making him unhappy.

False intimacy (IRRELATIONSHIP) arises in half because of mutual emotional and personality problems, and the other half is due to negligence and lack of attention. To avoid this condition, it should be like **cancer.

In that case, regular check-ups, early detection and early **.

In fact, every marriage, or every intimate relationship, cannot completely avoid contradictions. Contradictions are not necessarily a bad thing, they are an opportunity for your connection to a deeper level. By resolving conflicts together, feelings grow.

What I'm most afraid of is that those who don't quarrel are dry, but they are not honest, living in the same besieged city, but still living on a lonely desert island, this is how my husband doesn't understand you.

If you find that your husband doesn't understand you, you must calm down, don't think that your husband doesn't love you, maybe there is something coco between you to talk to your husband, tell your husband what you need, or take a look at what your husband needs, don't think that every thing or every Chinese style has to revolve around you to do a family is supported by the two of you.

You find that your own husband doesn't understand you, first of all, you have to calm down and talk to him, what you pursue and what you want, and then sue and let your husband observe yourself, or return to you to observe your husband, don't think that you are very important in this family, or he is very important, it doesn't mean everything, you know, your husband and you form a family with you to form a family that is a loss of potatoes without him and you are impossible.

You can strengthen the communication and understanding with him in daily life, tell him more about some of your ideas, instead of asking him to guess by himself, he will spare more time for each other, so that each other can understand each other enough, and Lunmu Huai can also let each other understand each other.

If you find that he doesn't understand himself, you can choose to tell him directly, because the way of thinking of male brothers and girls is different, and sometimes he really can't think of what girls are thinking, and secondly, you can also choose to use something more straightforward or more envious to tell him.

My husband doesn't understand my words, I will definitely be very angry, but I think the ideas between boys and girls may be different, but you can communicate with him from some angles, and then because the two people can communicate with each other if they are in the rented state, so I think the communication between the two people is very important.

We don't want to escape, we should find a day to talk to him alone about Douqing, I personally think that the boy is very smart to write off the remainder, he doesn't understand you, in fact, he understands everything, but he doesn't love you so much, grasp your inner emotions, grasp his heart, your love can last for a long time.

My husband, I don't understand your words, I think I must be very uncomfortable now, and then, if my friend will confide in me about this, I will tell him that men and women think differently, and it would be good to have your own friends to understand yourself, and I think that if he doesn't understand you, you can go to Bird Crack Mu to communicate with him.

I think it's a sad thing. Because after all, Yulun is two people who want to live together, if Qingsui doesn't understand anything, can't communicate ideologically, and keeps fighting with each other in language, I think this is a very bad phenomenon, and they will get bored with each other, and then centrifuge.