The competition is too fierce, I m new here, I don t understand anything

The purpose of going to high school is to enter the university, and the college entrance examination is to compete with candidates from all over the country. You don't top your game in a high-level high school, but you have a competitive edge in the city or the country. So don't put too much pressure on yourself just yet.

If you have a good learning atmosphere in high school, and your classmates attach great importance to learning, compete and compete with each other, it is a rare good thing, and you should not relax yourself and not fall behind in your studies. But you should know that the purpose of competition is to make yourself work hard, not to compare yourself with your classmates. Compared with his classmates in some aspects, except for satisfying his vanity, it has little practical significance for the college entrance examination.

In the future, after graduating from high school, your classmates will go their separate ways, and you can compare or fail to compare with a classmate in high school, what's the point?

When people are in school, they are pure in mind and have no conflict of interest with each other, and it is easy to establish sincere friendships at this time. This may be the reason why some people say that friends from their student days are crucial. However, the reason why a friend is called a friend is because not everyone can be a friend.

True friends are some like-minded people, and they don't become friends with people who have different status and concepts from themselves, which is a normal result and doesn't have to be forced. As long as you are friendly, polite, and self-respecting, you can do it.

At the age of high school, people are in adolescence, pursuing personality development and independence, and have not yet mastered too many social skills, so they are more sensitive to loneliness and need more friends. It is not possible that you need friends very much, but the relationship between friends is mutual, even if you are willing to make friends with others, others may not accept you immediately, so when looking for and making friends, be patient, gradually deepen the relationship, and do not rush. The classmates are all the same age, there will always be a common language, and the rich children will not always reject those who are not as good as them.

Even if you can't make close friends in high school, it doesn't matter much in the long run, after all, for high school students, learning is the most important thing.

1. I think you have to correct your mentality and don't compare with others (I don't know which one of the congenital conditions is the same, how to compare?) Otherwise, you will have more and more low self-esteem;

2. If you can't communicate, it may be caused by your inferiority complex;

3. Put your energy into learning, which is the most important thing for you to envy at this stage;

4. If you study well, you will be admitted to the ideal university in the future, which is the most important and critical thing.

Hope it helps.

The so-called adversity is used to eliminate the competitors in Yanzhou, and the good times are used to degenerate the tremors of the successful, what you are facing now is adversity, and if you want to succeed, you must establish a good attitude. For example! Usually exercise your will, if you have the conditions, insist on running 5 laps a day, although it seems to be relatively two, but you have to believe that few people can persist for a long time, so that you will find your own advantages, I hope you can be handy to deal with the challenge, may you succeed.

It's you who feel inferior to them, you're not the best, but you're not the worst either. Except for the money, which one is worse than them, and their money is not earned by themselves, let go of the material pressure, this is not missing the judgment of the law, go your own way, and everyone is worthy of returning to the grip if you work hard. Leather socks.

Then don't compete, and be with them all the time, instead of thinking about these ...... all the time