What kind of person will we end up with?

The person we spend our lives with must be the person we love the most, maybe we can't determine whether we can grow old with this person and come to the end of our lives, but we must choose a person we love the most in our lives, so that we will not feel regrets for this life.

There are two things to do in a person's life, one thing is to fall in love with someone regardless of life or death. Another thing is to go on a walk-and-go trip. It can be seen how important it is to choose a person you love to complete your life.

Furthermore, I don't think marriage is like the siege that Qian Zhongshu wrote. There are also happy people in the besieged city, and not all the people in the besieged city want to figure it out. If you want to be able to live a good life under the siege of marriage, then the premise is that you must find someone you love deeply.

Living with someone you don't love, that kind of life is torture for yourself, irresponsible for others, and a tragedy for the whole family. Because a family cannot live without love.

Depending on what you are pursuing, if you give up love and choose bread, then the person you may spend your life with in the end may be a rich man, because after all, what you want is nothing more than a rich life, isn't it? So your choices determine your future.

But if you value love more, the person who spends your life with you may be your true love, the other party may not be tall or handsome, and there is no money, but it must be in love with you, very good to you, and you also love this other person deeply, my sister is like this.

My brother-in-law's family has no money, and there are a total of three children in the family, and my sister's family has no need to agree to the marriage between the two of them because the conditions of my brother-in-law's family are too poor, and I always ask my sister to find a rich family of children But my sister still insisted on her own idea in the end, and finally married my brother-in-law, and now she is living a very good life, and her brother-in-law is very self-motivated, and there is special affection between the two, and I envy the love between them.

So in the end, the key to what kind of person we want to spend our lives with is to look at what we value.

For me personally, I think it's about choosing someone I feel comfortable with for the rest of my life.

Comfort is what makes a person feel happy. Spending time with people who can make you feel comfortable doesn't need to be deliberate and you don't feel tired. Such a person will understand your personality traits, know your likes and evils, be happy with you when you are happy, accompany you when you are sad, and work hard to find the same rhythm as you, and then the two of them will slowly get better.

Life is never easy, and many of us are busy with life every day, whispering and even changing our original appearance to adapt to this cruel society. And with the people who make us feel comfortable, the home created by the two of us is the harbor in this world, which can make us stay when we are tired, and it is an existence that allows us to sleep until dawn. So, choose to be with someone who makes you feel comfortable, even if sometimes that person seems to be quiet and doesn't exist, but he has melted into our flesh and blood.

A person who fits us, he is sure that he is not so handsome, not so tall, not so rich, not so capable, but he knows my little habits, knows my likes and dislikes, we live together, live a plain but warm little life.

When we were young, we may have fantasized that our other half must be a big hero, riding colorful auspicious clouds to pick me up, but when I grow up, I want an ordinary person who can understand me and love me to accompany me for a lifetime, and I am very satisfied.

The person who accompanies me all my life must be gentle, gentle to the person who smiles at me, quietly takes care of my life, can educate our children well, be a strict father, I just need to be a smiling mother. When we are old and our children are married, he will be able to walk with me everywhere and accompany me for the last period of my life.

The person who accompanies us to old age really doesn't need to be so good or handsome, as long as we can have a spiritual fit, we can have a tacit understanding with our hearts, and we can live a plain and warm life.

If you want to live a life with yourself, you must choose carefully, which is related to your future life, and you must choose one that is really suitable for you.

Spending a lifetime with a person, it's a long-term thing, it's a lifetime thing, how should I choose this person.

First of all, whether you choose someone as your wife or as a husband, it depends on whether this person is worth it.

Can he listen to you and understand your preferences and troubles?

Can he go and negotiate terms with his parents for you. Will this person stand out for you.

Don't ask how good you are to your parents, at least you should respect them, and you should be allowed to go home to see your parents more often.

When you are sick, do you take care of you seriously, if it is perfunctory, then you still get married and have children, and now you don't take care of you when you have children.

Whether this person has beaten you or scolded you, it is not okay occasionally, because when you are in love, it is the best time, and it will be like this at any time, maybe it will get worse after marriage.

When you encounter something, will he encourage you, and does it give you positive energy at work?

It also depends on whether the person is optimistic about life, whether he has messy friends in his life, whether he will gamble, etc. These must be considered when choosing a person, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and it takes a lot of things and training to grow old with a person.

Personally, I think this person must be a good fit for me, maybe he is not my favorite or the most loved me, but he must be suitable for me. Marriage is noble and the result of love, but in layman's terms, it is two people living together. You can find someone you love and love yourself, but two people who love each other are not necessarily suitable for life.

It's like lovers are not necessarily suitable to be husband and wife, and husbands and wives are not necessarily able to be lovers. Lovers talk about feelings, and husband and wife are mixed with too many substances in addition to feelings, but these materials are indispensable, so the person who can spend my life with me must be the right person for me. When walking in the park, we can always see the gray-haired grandfather, holding the gray-haired grandmother.

I like to talk to these grandparents, and when I was younger, I liked to ask questions, and I asked an old grandmother how she and her grandfather met. She just said: "I really met after I got married, but fortunately he is very suitable for me".

So I think we'll all end up spending our lives with the right people for us.

There is no way to imagine this, we have no ability to foresee the future, so we can only be in a state of imagination for our other half. I think my partner should be a very gentle person, because I have a hot temper. He should also be a very assertive person.

Although I usually babble, I feel that I can't do anything at a critical moment, so my other half must be the kind of man who understands everything and is more mature, in fact, I am quite looking forward to the future person and the future life.

The last person, no matter what it is, must accept it, after all, it is your own choice, know that it will be very good for our future. Because feelings are sometimes very magical things, you can't choose, because I have always believed that love is destined from the beginning.

No matter what the future holds, let's work hard now to meet the excellent man or woman in the future, and make each other happy.

I will spend my life with someone who likes me and I also like. We tolerate each other, understand each other, are simple, and happy.

Knowing you, knowing that you love you, being with you when you are lonely, can give you a sense of security, and work hard and seriously.

I think there are several reasons for this; 1.A deep emotional and spiritual fit. When I meet someone and we have a high level of alignment in our outlook on life, values, and way of thinking, it may make me feel like we're really compatible, leading to the idea of spending a lifetime together.

This deeply connected emotional experience will make me not want to let go.

2.Facing the company of life's most important moments. If I've faced some important moments in my life and this person has been there for me consistently, helping and supporting, this experience might have made me feel like I already have the foundation to live together and want to be together.

3.Mutual understanding and support for specific things. There may be something going on in my life that makes Sun Dan and me miserable or Chang Kaihui is in trouble, but another person can sincerely understand me, support me wholeheartedly, and make me feel warm in her way.

This experience of mutual understanding and support also makes me feel like I have found someone to spend my life with.

4.The fit of life trajectory and life plan. If I have a strong consistency with another person's life trajectory and future plans, and we have similar visions and visions for career, family, life, etc., it will also make me feel that I can go further with him, so I have the idea of spending my life together.

Of course, this is just my personal imagination. In real life, there are certainly many other considerations involved in making up your mind to be with someone. However, I think that emotional fit and connection, companionship in profound moments of life, understanding and support in life, and matching life trajectories may all greatly influence the decision of a person and his or her significant other to continue to the end.

Finding someone who fits well with you in these areas may be an important reason why many people finally decide to spend their lives with them.

This question involves personal values and emotional cognition, so there is no standard answer. But roughly speaking, whether or not you can accept to spend your life with a person mainly depends on the following aspects:

1.Emotional foundation. If you have a deep enough emotional foundation for this person, it is naturally easier to accept living together for a long time. Feelings are lacking or there are doubts, and this long-term commitment and attachment can feel reluctant.

2.Life philosophy and interests. The more the life philosophy and interests match, the less collisions will occur in daily life, and it will be easier to get along for a long time. If it is difficult to agree on many aspects, getting along for a long time can create unnecessary irritability and conflict.

3.Individual needs. If you are a person who values freedom and independence, and you need a long distance between people, then a long-term or lifelong connection with a person may not be a good fit for your personality and needs.

And if you're more focused on stability and security, a stable, long-term partnership is attractive.

4.Life is practical. Economic conditions and living environment are also realistic factors influencing this decision. If your living situation does not support a long-term stable family or take on additional responsibilities, it will be difficult to live together for a long time, regardless of the relationship.

5.Views on marriage. If you don't believe in long-term contracts such as marriage and feel that your relationship should be more free, then the idea of selling silver and accompanying a person for life is naturally difficult to accept.

And if you believe in a lifelong view of marriage, it is easier to accept"For a lifetime"Such an assumption.

Therefore, it is a question that depends on a combination of factors of the individual. If you are in high agreement with this person in terms of feelings, life and ideas, then the answer may be more preferred"Acceptable";But if there are large differences and uncertainties at all levels, the answer may be more prolific"It's hard to accept"。This requires you to start from yourself and try to judge and make trade-offs objectively and rationally.

Hello, friend, what are the most important considerations for getting married.

Everyone has a desire for love, and the ultimate goal of love is to find someone who can give them a happy marriage.

Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not. You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life.

There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave." Therefore, many people are afraid of getting married, worried about being unhappy after marriage; But there are also people who believe that marriage is a continuation of love and the beginning of a happy life.

In fact, no matter what others think of marriage, it has nothing to do with your marriage, just like the truth of "pony crossing the river", marriage needs to be experienced by yourself to understand.

Of course, you can learn from the experiences and lessons of others, which will allow you to avoid detours. When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, it is natural that there will be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.

If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in before two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that each other is good at everything, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship. Whether you have common interests or hobbies, and the topic of getting married is not a simple matter, you must think about your future.

The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.