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I felt so good that I suddenly felt that life was not as bad as I thought.
I used to care too much about other people's eyes, and I always felt that I was tired of living, and I seemed to be living with other people's will every day.
Last year, my health became bad, and I suddenly realized that it didn't make sense to care about other people's eyes, and I started to become self-centered and focus on my family. Suddenly I feel a lot lighter on my shoulders, I don't have to think about many things, and I don't have to worry about what others will think of me.
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It's going to be a very relaxed, very happy state of mind, because when you don't care about other people's eyes, you follow your heart, learn to reconcile with yourself, and when people ask you why, you will say something about you, and I think this is the best state, because my life is only about me, and not about others.
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I think it's a very pleasant feeling to live without caring about anyone's eyes. At that time, we lived in this world, and there were all kinds of people around us, and we lived to interact with all kinds of people, so I don't think it's possible to care about other people's opinions at all.
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I don't think it will be nice to be alive if you don't care about anyone's eyes, but you will be condemned by many people. If you don't care about anyone's eyes, it means that you are a selfish person, and if I meet such a person, I will also be very unhappy, he only cares about his own feelings and never thinks about others.
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I don't care about anyone's eyes, it should be what others love to do, what they like to say, and I just feel good. Such a person has a big personality, a very generous heart, and a person who can sleep peacefully in big things, and others will not take his evaluation to heart and will not care.
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I think that such a person must be very chic in life, because I think that if people are alive, they live for themselves, and if they don't care about other people's opinions and take their own path, I think life will become chic. And this kind of life is to live for yourself.
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Human beings are social creatures, and it is impossible to completely ignore the opinions of others. Otherwise, you will become a lonely boat living in society, doing your own thing, looking at ease, but in fact you have to pay more price. But then again, if you care too much about other people's opinions, you will not have ego, and you will be too tired to live, so you must have your own choices and bottom line.
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If you don't care about anyone's eyes, it's also very difficult to do, and if you do a very embarrassing thing in a public place, you will be very unable to pass this hurdle, or you will be laughed at by others after the last few places in the exam. If you really don't care about other people's eyes, you have a big heart. But such people live happier.
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Can anyone really do it without caring about the eyes of others and only living for himself?
There are such people. Especially some people who have a strong heart.
I feel that life is my own, so it's good to be happy. The most important thing in life is not to mind the eyes of others and truly live for yourself.
The days are their own, good or bad has nothing to do with others, the days are the mood, no matter how difficult the days are, they have to work hard to live, life is short, everyone has to experience happiness and pain in this life, no matter what, this is their own life wealth, live a good life, live up to the time, let their life without regrets. Even if there are still many difficulties on the long road ahead, we must face them with the best attitude and live each day well.
Life is like a glass of boiled water, whether it is cold or hot, as long as the temperature is suitable for yourself, live a good life, put a good mentality, embrace the world with a heart that loves life, life is most afraid of comparison, focus on yourself, envy the life of others, it is better to live a good present.
Living a good life seems to be a simple sentence, but the essence is not. But just a good one is enough for people to play, what is called good, isn't it also thousands of people with thousands of thoughts, and thousands of appearances? Some people think that being rich is good, and for people who are sick, health is good.
After all the hardships, we know that peace is precious; After all the dangers, I know that it is rare to be open; After all the quarrels, it is good to know that we are together; After experiencing prosperity, you know that contentment is precious.
Every day, we learn to leave gratitude in our hearts, have great awe of life, carefully collect the scenery along the way, let the sun illuminate every place under our feet, do not frustrate and fear, do not bear others, and live a leisurely life. Live simply and happily, choose one thing, love someone, and live a lifetime.
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Everyone has their own unique analysis of the things they come into contact with, and finally forms their own judgments. ......Based on the results of his judgment, he will make his own response decisions, which will guide his actions.
In the process of analyzing and judging, drawing conclusions, and finally taking action, it is inevitable that one's own thoughts and practices will be influenced by others, and eventually one's own thoughts and practices will change.
This is a natural situation. ......Everyone is in a crowd and is bound to be influenced by others.
Therefore, each of us will change ourselves to a greater or lesser extent because of the influence of others.
However, there are people who are strong-willed, unaffected by external factors, and able to stick to their choices at all times. ......Some people insist on themselves, don't follow the crowd, and eventually succeed and talk about it.
If that's the case, then, that's a good thing.
However, there are also those who have only ego in their hearts and no one else. ......This kind of person is extremely selfish, self-serving, does not care about others, and everything is self-centered, such a person also exists.
Compared with the kind of people who are determined to insist on themselves, the reputation of this kind of people is much worse, they are self-respecting, hurt others, and ultimately despised by others.
Therefore, people who do not care about the eyes of others have two states:
1. Insist on yourself, work hard, and finally achieve success and be respected.
2. Self-respecting, selfish, and willing to hurt others for their own profit. Such people will eventually reap the consequences.
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I don't think anyone can live for themselves without caring about other people's eyes. Sometimes you look at some people, he is not disturbed by others, he can do whatever he wants, in fact, you don't know, he sometimes cares about other people's opinions, whether he does right or wrong, he accepts other people's opinions, or does not accept other people's opinions, everyone as long as they live in this world, they will be disturbed by external factors.
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Most people can't do that. If you can do this, then it means that you are still very self-conscious and will not be easily changed by others.
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Everyone wants to ignore other people's eyes, once or twice can be ignored, but a life is very long, in the long road of life, there will always be a different vision, it may be a kind and caring eye, it may be a demeaning and squeezing eye, and it may be an ideal state to want to live a life completely free from the influence of others.
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Go your own way and let others say go! Everyone lives their own wonderful life.
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The focus effect, also known as the social focus effect, is a manifestation of people overestimating the attention of those around them about their appearance and behavior. The focus effect means that humans tend to see themselves as the center of everything and intuitively overestimate how much attention others pay to us.
For example, every time you go out, you have to spend a long time choosing clothes, and you feel that as soon as you go out, people on the street will look at you, so you have to dress up beautifully. Actually, there is no need for us to be so nervous.
Experiments have shown that we are not so popular (when we are not public figures).
A lot of times, it's because we pay too much attention to ourselves, and think that others will pay so much attention to us. It's a kind of self-focus effect, always feeling like you're the center of attention, and your every move is being monitored, which can create social fear.
Know yourself correctly.
Only by knowing yourself correctly can you be yourself. Caring about other people's eyes because you want to be recognized, not criticized, may have something to do with your parents' lack of a need to belong and recognize their own importance from an early age.
Keep updating yourself and you deserve better. Past experiences don't determine where we live now, what really determines our lives is the way we look at the past. We need to understand that we are the creators of our own destiny, and that our external destiny is actually driven by our own inner consciousness.
If you want to live your own life, you must first know yourself before you can be your true self. People who are accustomed to using an internal evaluation system respect their own feelings and do not take the evaluation of others to heart. They listen to their inner voice and enjoy the joy of doing things, and this joy brings great motivation.
Learn self-acceptance.
Self-acceptance, first of all, we must realize that the "functional self" is the self that is manifested in real life, and every act of his is to protect his "inner self", such as what you said cares about the eyes of others, why do you care? I don't care, can I do it?
The second is to accept the inner child, which requires someone with the same authority as your parents, to let you go through the same situation, and in this situation you will be treated in a warmer and more appropriate way.
If you want not to care about other people's eyes, first of all, you need to have a strong heart, learn to accept your own strengths and weaknesses, and then have your own realistic goals, the next thing you have to do is not to close your own efforts towards the goal, adjust your state in time, people can not care about the eyes of others at all, but you can choose not to care!
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Absolutely. Now people who go to the deep mountains and old forests to live in seclusion are comparing themselves.
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<> "You shouldn't achieve self-worth by pleasing others.
You shouldn't blindly choose because the people around you get married and have children.
You shouldn't have no confidence at all under the questioning of others.
You can't always procrastinate, day after day, the Sparrow never changes.
Know what you want.
Learn to take control of your own study, work and life.
Love yourself fiercely.
I hope you can be brave enough to be yourself and live a good life for yourself.
No matter what kind of past we have experienced, we should embrace it and have a better future as soon as possible.
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<><1. You should not achieve self-worth by pleasing others.
2. You shouldn't give up your love because of others.
3. You shouldn't blindly choose Yuanxi because the people around you get married and have children.
4. You shouldn't be questioned by other Zheng Shuren, you don't have any confidence at all.
5. You can't always procrastinate, day after day, and never change.
6. Know what you want.
7. Learn to take control of your own study, work and life.
8. Love yourself fiercely.
9. I hope you can be brave enough to be yourself and live a good life for yourself.
10. No matter what kind of past you have experienced, you should shout that those who are cracked should have a better future.
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In life, for each of us, we should not care too much about other people's eyes, because others do not know us very well, if everything is based on others, then we will live very tired, so at this time, no matter what others say, we don't need to pay attention, we just need to do our best, because after all, everyone and their ideas are different people are not perfect, so at this time, we don't need to pay attention to others.
First, we can do things according to our own ideas every day.
In life, we also need to live according to our own ideas every day, do things according to our own ideas, at this time we can also enrich ourselves more, as long as we do not do things that hurt others, we also do not need to care about the eyes of others.
Second, we also need to be more optimistic and confident in life.
We also need to be more confident in life, so at this time, we don't need to pay attention to what others say, because for many people, they also like to chew their tongues, so these people are also very gossipy.
3. Everyone will be said behind their backs.
In life, no matter what kind of person you are, no matter how good you are, there will always be people talking about you behind your back, so at this time, we don't need to look at the eyes of others to act, so at this time we just need to do our own thing.
In life, for many people, they also like to talk about others behind their backs or discuss others, so at this time, as long as we don't do anything wrong, it's okay, because for many people, she is also jealous of you, so she will say that you have it behind your back.
So usually, for many people, they are also very concerned about the eyes of others, so that they will not be able to do anything well, because they are influenced by others, so at this time, he is also living a very painful life and a very tired life.
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