How can I make my social network stronger?

I think that if you want to become stronger, you must first improve your ability, read more books, and improve your connotation cultivation.

Be sure to take the initiative to make some friends, and then get together with your friends more often in your leisure time to connect with each other.

Read 10,000 books and travel 10,000 miles.

Human beings are inherently afraid of the unknown. Only by knowing the world a lot, understanding the world a lot, and having no strangeness to the world, can there be no fear of it. For example, we don't have a sense of fear in our hearts about man-made things, and we have a lot of fear in areas that we don't have to explore, such as the deep sea and primeval forests.

In fact, you should let yourself learn some social skills, so that it will be better.

Make yourself valuable first, otherwise why will others socialize with you.

Before you speak, you must know how to listen. If you know how to listen, you will get more information, and give yourself time to organize your language, thinking is very important, and the process of listening is also a process of thinking. Listen more and talk less, and it's not easy to make mistakes.

Everyone should learn to be a listener. In the process of socializing, we all make mistakes, but if someone makes mistakes repeatedly and makes the same mistakes, would you like to make friends with such people? It's not terrible to make mistakes, dare to face your mistakes, learn lessons, and all mistakes are wealth in the future!

Take care of your emotions. Calm down and realize what kind of emotions you are in now, whether you have anger, grievances, or guilt, and calm your emotions first, so that you can better solve the problem. Again, take care of each other's emotions.

You can use empathy strategies such as "I know you're angry right now," "You must be sad," and so on. Accurately identifying the other person's emotions can also help protect yourself, for example, by avoiding the other person's emotions when they are angry.

Personally, I have met many new friends in the off-campus ways, such as travel, volunteer teaching, large-scale activities, and on campus, evening parties, ball games, etc. Of course, I know that expanding your social network needs to start from an area or way that you are familiar with. For example, if you like sports, you can go to clubs, go out to exercise more, don't hide in the process, and communicate with people boldly.

Don't be afraid of crowds, timidity, weak voices, and vague expressions are all taboos in social interactions. Introduce yourself clearly so that others can get to know you for the first time; Express your meaning clearly so that others can immediately understand your intentions. Starting a conversation easily is the first step to socializing.

Overcome social fears, don't be afraid to communicate with strangers, don't be afraid to make deep friendships with acquaintances. Overcoming your inner fear is the first step you can take. The only way to overcome fear is to face it boldly!

Be bold enough to make friends and go to occasions that you are not familiar with, such as proms and parties.

A good-tempered person is most likely to become a "partner" with others, with a tolerant heart, able to accept various points of view, and the boredom of others. A smile may be worth a thousand words. A tolerant mind is more able to accept various points of view peacefully, and will not easily quarrel with others, and it is easy to mingle with all kinds of people.

Find the right people.

Don't pander to people you don't appreciate, because they won't give you good feedback. You have to take the initiative to reach out to those who are right for you.

If you're an introvert, how do you get out there and make new friends? I think first of all, you will definitely find someone with a similar personality and a common topic to try.

Because people who have something in common will make friends relatively easy and relaxed. So those people who make you feel particularly close to each other, people who share the same worldview, people who have common interests and hobbies will be more likely to get into your heart.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, just go with the flow. Desperate to make someone as a friend, you may run into something inappropriate.

03. Know yourself.

When you feel like you're too introverted to take a step. You need to know yourself well, and often after understanding yourself, you will become stronger. Being able to understand what kind of friends you need, and facing them calmly, will not produce a sense of restraint and constraint.

04. Peace of mind.

When people's hearts are calm, they can behave better in crowded situations. Such as job interviews, negotiations, or other similar occasions.

To find this peace of mind, you can find an iconic figure who has similar problems as you. For example, celebrities; Speakers, many of them are introverts who have become what they are now. Learning their ways and methods will make you feel calmer.

05. Speaking in public.

There are many people who are afraid to speak in public, because under the gaze of others, you will be so nervous that you will forget your own train of thought. This feeling of extreme fear and tension can make you hold back, but when you have such thoughts, the more you should overcome it.

Take small steps at a time, and growth is slow. You can't start speaking on stage, you can start practicing in a very small environment. In an environment where no one blames you even if you mess up, such as a morning meeting at a company, or a discussion group start.

Slowly you will find that you have adapted to this stage.

I think it's important to apply what you've learned. Therefore, it is hoped that the university can increase the number of social science majors, so that students can better adapt to the development of society and bring adaptability to students' work.

1.In college, we need to communicate with people more, after all, social skills are not our innate skills, they are formed after tomorrow, and practice is the way to test the truth. We can participate in clubs that we are interested in, such as the debate club, where there will be a variety of talents, we can communicate on the topic of interest, the debate club will hold a debate competition every week, which can improve our thinking skills, language organization skills, exercise our communication skills, and improve our social skills.

2.Opportunities are not waiting for them, and friends will not be waiting for them, we need to take the initiative to communicate, show our most enthusiastic side, and naturally others will show their enthusiastic side, and naturally become friends. University is a place where we need to be good at discovering and observing, for example, some people can get a perfect score in mathematics, and some people can know a skill, we can take the initiative to communicate with them and develop towards topics that others are interested in.

Not only made friends, but also exercised social skills.

In short, college students should always remind themselves to work hard to improve their abilities in order to adapt to social development!