It is said that marriage is different from love, and choosing to enter marriage is destined to requi

It is said that marriage is different from love, and choosing to enter marriage is destined to require mutual accommodation and sacrifice? Yes, because marriage is not love, marriage needs two people to run in, and it also requires two people to make sacrifices, love is different, love wants to be with him, and if you don't want to be wronged, then separate, and there will not be a lot of ties. First, the grievances in marriage are brought together by two people who are not related by blood.

You have to integrate into his family, and he has to integrate into your family, and this is when integration and collision occur at the same time. But at this time, in order to maintain the small family between you, someone must bear some grievances to preserve and stabilize the small family between you. Therefore, when choosing to enter into marriage, there will definitely be some sacrifices, just adapt.

Second, it is easy to fall in love, and falling in love is different from marriage, we all know that when we fall in love, we are more willful, and we can do what we want. If you love him very much and are willing to accommodate him for him, then you can accommodate him, if you feel that he is too much, you don't want to accommodate him, and you don't want to pay for him anymore, you can separate at this time, there is no other necessary relationship. There is also no need to consider other people's feelings, it is just a matter of two people, unlike marriage is a matter of two families.

Third, the only way for many people Marriage is the only way for the vast majority of people, which means that the vast majority of people have made great sacrifices for marriage at the same time. It is said that there is giving and giving, and there is giving, and giving up one's own things has also been loved by the family. This is a very equal relationship, once it is unbalanced, once you are no longer willing to sacrifice for the sake of the family, then your marriage will also break down at this time.

To sum up, falling in love is relatively easy, how to do it and how to do it. And marriage requires you to accommodate for the sake of the family, to compromise, to make certain sacrifices, this is very normal, after all, you get a new family, naturally you have to pay something.

As a person who has come over, I think that for two people, marriage and love are indeed two different states, and some habits will only be slowly revealed when they live together, and these habits are not necessarily good. Choosing to get married is not destined for both parties to accommodate each other or even make sacrifices in some things, but if you want to be happy together, there is little friction, and it is indeed a better choice to take a step back without stepping on your bottom line.

It takes two people to run in to get married, because after all, everyone has their own personality, and if you want to get along better, you need to put away your edges and corners, at least to make both parties more comfortable.

Of course it is, two people walk together. That's it, there must be such a mentality. It's the kind of life that can be very good, very good.

It is true that we need to accommodate each other and make sacrifices, because two people are originally independent individuals, and there will be many differences.

I think two people will slowly develop feelings, but this relationship is never love.

When young people reach a certain age, not everyone can withstand the pressure from all sides, and many people will choose to compromise in life and seek a marriage that will be compromised in order to get rid of some kind of pressure in their lives. But in the upcoming married life, it is always doubtful whether love is still there.

In a marriage that is about to be settled, two people will run in their feelings while getting along. My own marriage should be regarded as a marriage that is about to be made, two young people who have reached a certain age and are also enduring the pressure of their parents to marry, met in the vast sea of people, did not hate each other, and then quickly entered into marriage.

If there is love between two people, perhaps even we don't believe it. But in the day and night of married life, we have slowly run in our own way of getting along, and the two people have also run in their own feelings in the long-term precipitation. I'm used to this kind of life, and the other person has become accustomed to my presence.

I think this is the norm for most marriages, if two people are not ready to end this marriage, then a long time together, the generation of feelings is inevitable.

There will be no love between two people, maybe love has already been stillborn. For two people who are about to enter into marriage, both of them actually have an obsession with love in their hearts, and this compromise on life will make both of them have a regret in their hearts. With the continuous growth of time together, the feelings between two people will also breed and develop, but this relationship can only be called family affection at most, not love.

Love is the throbbing of the soul and the fit of two people's souls, but the marriage that will be completed is just a matter of using time to make the lives of two people seem compatible. When two people decide to enter into marriage, love may have died long before the decision is made.

Of course, it makes sense to have love over time, but what happens in getting along for a long time is not love, but the mood derived from companionship. But for couples who choose to compromise, this family affection is enough to maintain the lives of two people.

When your heart chooses to live and love can only be found in memories.

I think love will slowly appear, because two people will find each other's advantages after living together for a long time, and it is normal to fall in love over time.

There are too few loves, and there are so many things about getting married first and then falling in love. It's going to be done.,There's only more and more places that you can't get used to.,There's more and more disgust.,The goodwill at first sight is quickly lost.,Slowly it's just getting tired of each other.。

Not necessarily, the main thing is to see if the three views of the two people can be unified, if it is really impossible to communicate or don't get married, otherwise it will mostly end in divorce.

It is indeed possible that two people who have no feelings at the beginning may also fall in love for a long time after being united. In the process of life, it is easy to have a good impression of each other when you find each other good, have good memories of each other.

Of course, the marriage problems of every family are different, and it can be said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. However, we also hope that when facing marital problems, couples in every family must not use a more extreme emotion to make things develop in a bad direction, and only by letting things be solved more smoothly can the family be more harmonious.

No, it won't. Because marriage is a major event in life, you will not choose to compromise, but you have to think about it seriously.

I will not settle for the sake of marriage, a bound marriage will bring misfortune to both parties, and it will bring many troubles and mistakes to each other.

I'm not going to settle for marriage, I think it's a very big constraint for me.

I won't compromise for the sake of marriage, I will still pursue the life I want.

My husband and I are remarried, in the first half of this year, I saw his ex-wife send him a message, they still beat often, they have been divorced for more than ten years, is it possible that the old relationship has rekindled?

From 04 years we have experienced a thousand difficulties, after the judgment of divorce, we remarried, it can be said that for love did not hesitate to give up everything, came together, more than ten years of life grinding, in fact, it is not very smooth, noisy and noisy often there are, I also feel that although I used to love each other so much, but there are still many contradictions in real life together, we have many things that are disagreeable, he thinks what he says and does is right, he has a big temper, no patience, If I take care of him, it will be difficult for me to live.

In fact, I am very generous, and I generally don't argue with him, and I am afraid of children laughing at him, and I am also afraid of neighbors and colleagues laughing at me. Think about him after all, he has been good to me and has loved me, but sometimes he feels like he regrets it because of remarriage, when I found out that he had his ex-wife's WeChat, he also asked my husband, but he would admit it, saying that he didn't know who it was, and he would have to quarrel if he pursued it again. I'm not in the mood to quarrel anymore, I'm so tired, and the life of remarriage is like a glass vase, which doesn't necessarily break one day.

Now I don't think about whether the vase is really going to break, if my husband is willing to return to his ex-wife, I won't stop it, I have tasted the ups and downs of remarriage, the once beautiful love has long faded, and the rest is just a kind of maintenance. When you are in love, you feel very sweet, and after you get married, the focus of your life will change, and it will not be as romantic as when you are in love, and you will put your energy and time in the emotional world of the other party, as long as you talk about love well. After entering married life, the focus should be on life.

I feel a lot of discomfort, and I will find that the contradictions are continuous, and the reason is attributed to "everything has changed", in fact, no one has changed, maybe we are only suitable for love, not for marriage. Can you still live well by imposing your own views on the other side?

Love and marriage are really two different concepts, when you fall in love, there is no family triviality, marriage is inseparable from these problems, including the elderly and children on both sides, as well as some of the things that deal with people, these things do not exist when you are in love, once you live together, no matter how you cover it up, it is an inconspicuous expression that can see each other's feelings. I believe that this kind of marriage has no taste, it is better to do what it should be, the heart should go with others, as long as you think you are right, then let go of others and let go of yourself. Nothing is great.

I really hope to meet the right person, live a good life, the plain is better, I am already old, and I can toss for a few years, and the surging love has nothing to do with us. Grasp the moment, live happily, improve self-confidence, and be a dignified old man!