I fell in love with someone who had a girlfriend and I didn t want to ruin their relationship

I think you must love very deeply, love is selfish, I think you should show your love, everyone is equal in front of love, I think you should be bold to say it, whether he accepts it or not is another matter, if it's just your wishful thinking, then you have to give up earlier, I think you must be a person who confesses to like, you don't want to destroy their feelings, prove that you are a kind person, if you really love him, say it boldly! Wishing you happiness and happiness! If there is anything else you want to talk about, my QQ number is 63126104

If you give up, I really appreciate you for being a person, with a kind of atmosphere and a peaceful state of mind. When you are distressed about your love, you can also consider whether it is against your conscience. I want to be like you, but I can't, I'll chase him, just for myself.

Frankly, as a bystander, I want to say to you, you shouldn't ruin someone else's happiness, after all, that girl is innocent, you haven't got him yet, so there won't be (at least not so strongly) the pain of gaining and losing, she's different. But if I were you, I know that it would be very painful to fall in love with someone and not be with them... It's contradictory.

The choice is yours.

Hehe, I think you'd better give up.

Really don't do anything third person, that's very uncomfortable.

You're going to share a man with her.

And you're still a third party.

It's a thankless job.

It's too much to destroy the relationship between them.

In saying that liking doesn't have to be having.

So really, I really hope you don't ruin other people's own feelings.

While you're still not deep in the middle, you'd better leave.

Give it up

Don't get caught up in a triangle. That will make you more miserable

What's the way to do it, you must not destroy people, this is not good, I also liked boys who had girlfriends, but I put up with it, you had to endure it, and it will be fine after a while, really.

Since you like it, you should boldly chase it, you must seize your happiness, the opportunity should not be missed, and act quickly.

Go chase it, my current girlfriend was snatched by me from someone else, they were in 6 years at that time, and they were almost getting married, didn't they get it in 50 days, see if you have my process faster!

If you don't want to destroy, give up.

Be bold and pursue your love.

It's painful!!

Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love.

give up！！！

If I were you! Go after him boldly! You must seize the opportunity in early love!

In my opinion, if the man you like is still having an affair with you when he has a girlfriend, then you have to suppress your feelings. There are two reasons for this:

Because a man is still having an affair with someone else when he has a girlfriend, then even if the two of you are together one day, he may have an affair with someone else, because he has no sense of responsibility. A man should be responsible and responsible, I have a friend, her boyfriend was also ambiguous and entangled with another girl at the same time when he was dating her, and finally the two were pregnant at the same time, this man just cried that the family had no money and couldn't get married and couldn't have this child, and finally my friend took the child and broke up.

Another girl because of the trouble, so the man gave 5000 yuan to take off the child, and then the man apologized and apologized to reconcile with my friend, my friend felt that he had been in it for several years, so he forgave him, and in less than 1 year he was entangled with his colleagues in the company, and finally this relationship ended tragically.

02.Suppress your emotions in order to see him clearly

There are some people who just like to have an affair with someone else, but they won't be with that person. All he wanted was that feeling, and it probably didn't have anything to do with the girl. When you don't suppress your feelings, he will feel that you like him and will do things that may hurt you.

In the world of feelings, although men and women are equal, it is undeniable that most of the feelings will be a girl if one person has to be hurt. Therefore, as a girl, you still have to love yourself a little more, only then will you find your own true destiny.

No one can say anything about feelings, but if you keep it chaotic, you will be in great pain. If you can't let go and can't think about it, you can try it, avoid him, and then see how he reacts. The resulting situation may be:

1. Or if he never contacts you, and remains silent and avoidant, it means that he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend, then you are dead.

2. Or he contacts you with various coincidences and matters, but there is no clear attitude, you can take the initiative to be clear, and you need his clear reply and action. Either he makes a decision, chooses you, you get love, choose a girlfriend, and from then on you break your thoughts, which is good for both parties. Either he continues to have an affair with you, but this relationship is dangerous, it is harmful to you and him and his girlfriend, and you need to decide wisely.

3. Or he takes you very seriously in his heart, and decides to break up with his girlfriend and then stay with you.

Love is a matter of two people, you need to be willing, but there is also morality, so that your love will be blessed and fulfilled. Hopefully you'll figure it out.

I can only say that you are a stupid woman, knowing that he has a girlfriend, and still having an affair with you, it proves that he is not dedicated to his current girlfriend, if you become his girlfriend, he will not be dedicated to you in the future, what will happen to you in the future, say that you are a fool, it is you.

A senior who has a girlfriend is still with you, then he has another person who likes him, you are just his spare tire, one of the many spare tires in his eyes, what does this kind of non-dedicated man have that you like. Ambiguity is fruitless for you, and in the case that he has a girlfriend, you and him are fruitless, he just wants to find something new.

Don't be nostalgic for this kind of casual ambiguous scumbag, you can't restrain yourself if you have a girlfriend, think about two situations.

1. If he doesn't break up with his current girlfriend, are you willing to be ambiguous all the time?

Second, he chooses to be with you, aren't you worried that he will have an affair with someone else in the future?

Such a man is not worth liking, what's the matter if he has a girlfriend and is ambiguous with others? How do you feel if you are his current girlfriend, compare your heart to your heart, and empathize with it.

Continue to like it, don't have to suppress the room and don't deliberately pursue it, there will be a day when you find that you don't like it anymore.

Don't dig into the corner like this, if you are a third party, then when you become the main palace, how can you guard this country, or enrich yourself, people have girlfriends and are still ambiguous with you, unless you also want to play with others. Crying doves, no mulberries; Crying out for women, there is no delay.

If you like it, take the initiative to create opportunities, if you can't do it, you can solve it with money, as long as you grab it, and then talk about the follow-up problems, but don't be too involved, and if you get tired of playing after grabbing it, throw it away. Three-legged animals are hard to find in the world, and three-legged men are everywhere.

Those who can't be single-minded will not seek the result of loyal love. It's just an impulsive desire.

I don't know what you mean by ambiguity, if it's just language care, life care But there is no physical overstep, then say that your senior is a warm man, you can confess to pursue Even if you are rejected, there will be no regrets, I have loved I have pursued No regrets, but you met at the wrong time!

But what you say is ambiguous is physical, and he is more familiar with the upper and lower three points than you, so I advise you How far can such a person run, and a man who is worth "sexual pleasure" is an unreliable, One day you can't satisfy him You dissipate faster than fireworks and be more silent!

has a girlfriend who is still having an affair with you, what kind of person can you want? Pig, you!

You're just a doll, men like that, eating in the pot and looking at the bowl.

Toss a coin and you'll know what you're thinking the moment the coin is tossed.

There is no standard answer to whether you should act or not, and it is your own choice.

Since it's your own choice, don't regret anything.

Rob, why don't you rob? Can't you score a goal if you have a goalkeeper?

The key question is, he has a girlfriend and is still having an affair with you, can you keep the door after you snatch him over?

If you like it, you can pursue it, there is no right or wrong in emotional matters.

If you chase her like this, you'll find that she gets more and more annoying.

Those who can't be single-minded will not seek the result of loyal love. It's just an impulsive desire.

It can only be said that your senior is not single-minded.

If you like someone who has a girlfriend, you should indeed suppress your mood and thoughts and give up decisively, because it is immoral to get involved in someone's love that will not end well and will not get happiness, so you should take the initiative to quit.

He already has a girlfriend, so don't bother others, control your emotions, don't do something regretful, what is right and what is wrong, you are very clear.

He already has a girlfriend, don't intervene, and you can't let others know, if others don't like you, he likes his girlfriend very much, you just do meaningless things It's better to stay away from him, don't see him, you won't think, you have to do what you have to do to keep yourself busy He already has a girlfriend, don't intervene, and you can't let others know, if others don't like you, he likes his girlfriend very much, You just do meaningless things better stay away from him, don't see him, you won't think, you have to do what you have to do, keep yourself busy, don't think too much, you can also make other friends You will slowly he already has a girlfriend, don't intervene, and you can't let others know, if others don't like you, he likes his girlfriend very much, you just do meaningless things It's better to stay away from him, don't see him, you won't think, you have to do what you have to doKeep yourself busy, don't think too much, you can also make other friends, and you will slowly put it down.

Someone else already has a girlfriend, and you should let go of this relationship.

sense, looking for another love partner.

I know that people have girlfriends, why should I be lazy? Interesting? Think twice before you act!

Of course you should suppress your feelings, absolutely.

First of all, do you know that this senior just likes you? The so-called ambiguity in your eyes may just be the senior's concern for the senior. Maybe it's just that you're too involved. If you take the risk of confessing, won't you feel embarrassed to meet in the future?

Secondly, what is the character of this senior? Do you know him well enough, maybe it's just because of the senior's good looks and temperament and the aura of the senior that you feel like him? Let me tell you from the bottom of my heart, this senior has a girlfriend, if he is really playing ambiguously with you, then I think this person is really not good, and it is not worth your attention to him at all.

Do you think that he is dating his girlfriend just because he hasn't met you yet, you are the person he is destined for, how much of this idol plot may be true, you have to weigh it yourself. Even if it were, should his girlfriend endure all this? If you did snatch him, would you be like his current girlfriend and still be in the dark when it comes to such a thing?

Can you handle the pressure of meddling in other people's feelings? In college, all your life is connected to the people on campus, and if your classmates know about it, will they treat you differently? Is it worth it for the sake of such an unblessed and fruitless relationship?

In this case, the best option is to wait, time will tell. As time passes, you will understand whether your feelings for your senior are impulsive or genuine, and time can also tell you what kind of person your senior is and whether he likes you equally. You might say that time can change a lot of things, but wouldn't it hurt anyone to make such a choice?

It is recommended that you should still suppress this feeling, what you like is a senior, and then the senior you like already has a girlfriend, but this senior still maintains an ambiguous relationship with you, but at this time, even if you have a good impression of this senior, you should not take the initiative to rob the senior, and the best choice is to give up this senior, and the reasons for this recommendation are as follows:

The first point is that you and the boy you like are not in the same class, this boy is your senior, and in fact, the relationship between the senior and the senior is probably really difficult to succeed, because the age is different, the boy will graduate first, and the girl will graduate later, this kind of relationship is not what the boy yearns for, most of the boys are eager to find the same class of girls, and will not consider the schoolgirl, and the senior you like already has a girlfriend, and he and his girlfriend are still in a relationship, If you do this now, you are seducing your senior, which is a very unethical behavior, and it is very likely that it will be criticized by others.

The second point is that even if you want to get involved, in fact, the possibility of success is not very high, because for this senior, you are just a strange schoolgirl, and that girl is his girlfriend who has been with him for a long time, he doesn't know you well, but he has been developing with his girlfriend for a long time, so the probability of your success is also very low.

The third point is that this senior maintains a relationship with his girlfriend at the same time, but also has an affair with you, such a boy is not reliable, even if he is with you, it is very likely that he is ambiguous with other girls, such an unreliable boy can't give you a sense of security, and it's not worth your pursuit of him.