What is it like to meet someone who is very entangled and scheming?

I am also such a person, I used to go shopping, I always like all kinds of price comparisons, do all kinds of strategies and spend a lot of time, tangled for a long time just to buy a so-called most cost-effective clothes. Later I found out that the time cost I spent on this little thing was far greater than the amount of money I saved, and it was really not worth it. Of course, I will still compare prices when I go shopping, but I don't want to spend a lot of time worrying about whether this dress is the most cost-effective, as long as I like it and I need it and I can afford it, I will buy it.

Wouldn't it be better to spend the time saved in the struggle to do more valuable things, and your calculation, in my understanding, is that you are too concerned about inconsequential things, which is essentially a selfish manifestation of being too concerned about personal gains and losses, and you can't afford to lose a little. If it happens between two lovers, it may also be caused by your insecurity. Everyone is not perfect and has different degrees of shortcomings, and this is the time when we need our love and tolerance to make us grow better together.

The love and entanglement you said should not be one, the tangle I understand is that you can't make up your mind and are easy to waver, but you are stubborn. You say you care a lot and care, but you still have to figure out whether you really care or don't have sand in your eyes. If you care, you will listen to explanations and understand.

Don't try to take possession of someone. Each other is free people. If you care, give each other what you want.

If you are just suspicious and suspicious, it may be due to your own insecurity about feelings and possessiveness towards the other person. Love is pure, dare to love and dare to hurt.

Most people who love to get tangled don't know what they really want, don't know what is most important to themselves, and are not confident and determined enough. You're not confident, you're afraid. Not only are you afraid that the outcome of your choice will not be satisfactory, but you are also afraid that you will not be able to bear the responsibility of your choice.

But there is also an immutable truth in life, which is that you are the only one who can really take responsibility for your choices.

Feelings are fixed and quantitative, and squandering will be reduced. That's why it's about business. If you don't manage well, you will be responsible for your own profits and losses.

When you meet the right person, you will become better, easy and smart, and you will not become stupid. Pain is even rarer. So I guess you've chosen the wrong person.

It's so bumpy to fall in love, be careful that the man abandons you after fighting his last breath to get on you a few more times. Men love the woman he likes and loves him, and in the end, what can marry is that this woman not only loves him, he loves her, but she can also give him relaxation, happiness and no pressure.

In fact, I am also such a person, I am very careful about the people I love and care, and I have lived until now to find that I am not broken, restraint! Restrained! Restraint again!

When I want to think about it now, I will first balance it, which is more important than the things I care about or the loss of that person? Sometimes we have to think about things that are important, and when it comes to matters of principle, we have to think about them. Other things that don't matter can be endured, and it's not worth it to be knocked on a hat for a trivial matter.

When we linger between two choices for a long time, hesitating, we are indulging our greed, we want everything. But we should understand and accept the unshakable reality from the outset: although there are infinite possibilities in life, there is always only one that will actually happen.

You can only choose what you want most.

Anyway, I always remember what my mother said when I was 18 years old: no matter how big or small things you choose, the people around you will give advice, whether it is up to you or not, once you decide on that path, you have to bear the hardships and hardships yourself, because you are already 18 years old, you must take the responsibility for the path you choose, and bear the consequences of the choice.

Identify a task and assign it a specific amount of time. During this time, no matter what happens, even if the sky falls, you don't care. Your task is to do the thing at hand, to think about what to do, how to do it better.

It is best to turn off your mobile phone, turn off the communication software on your computer, and be in a space that is not easy to be disturbed by others.

A person who loves to care is born with low selfishness and selfishness, because she always feels that she is inferior to others, and others are better at everything, in such a situation, he can only worry about others. Fight to win, or you won't be able to stand it. In this way, I feel that I have face, I am amazing, not worse than others, I won, and the other is that I am poor and always pick up a little cheap in my own circle.

This kind of scheming person is developed from a young age, until the old is also this habit, the habit is formed, no matter how old he is, he likes to care, not careful, he is not used to it, the person who cares, there is also a problem that the cultural literacy is not enough, if the cultural level is improved, he will not be like this. Because the education is different. Then he will change.

People who like to be calculating, this kind of people are very small people, they just know what they know in their hearts, they never think about each other, everything is based on their own interests, it is difficult for them to live with people, because they are not healthy in their hearts, they love to care about everything, and never think about others.

There are such people around me, who care about this and that at every turn, and they always look down on others.

1. Must have a sense of responsibility. This is true for work and family;

2. Be humble. The ancients said: Humility is like a big husband. Without modesty and self-righteousness, how can it be possible to show grandeur?

3. Have lofty ambitions. People's ambitions are lofty, and they naturally pay attention to the big things and the big things, and they don't care about the small things.

4. Have the spirit of sacrifice. Taoism says that one gain and one loss, the way of heaven is circulating. In reality, there is no spirit of reluctance to be small and not to be big, and people have no spirit of sacrifice, of course, it is not open-minded, let alone generous?

Generous and large, being a man is fundamental, small belly chicken intestines are not good, people teach me ruler, I respect people. Don't care, don't care about others, make friends fairly, and be fair.

People have all kinds of tempers.