Why should leftover women be looked down upon?

The girls who are excellent and are left will not be looked down upon. Because of self-righteousness and self-centeredness, I think her parents are anxious for her. Personally, I think the standard of good women is that kind.

A woman who is not financially dependent on men, and who has the brilliance of women, and who will take responsibility for the future family. Instead of a woman who shouts about her other half's shortcomings every day, she is never willing to take on the responsibility that a woman should have. I also personally think that excellent men are the kind of.

Be willing to take on family responsibilities, financially bear the expenses of the family, and love their children, honor the elders of both parties, and be loyal to their lovers. And to help her other half become mature, willing to recognize the glory and darkness of society, and correctly guide her to a kind ordinary woman to spend the rest of her life together. Instead of being a person who is a hanger and does not do his job.

In fact, it's not like this, it depends on what type of older leftover girl is, if it is a queen and a strong woman, it is not that the society looks down on her, but that she looks down on most of the people in society. If you are a calculating, unkempt, and lazy person, you may be disdained by others.

The reason why it was left behind is somewhat problematic in itself. I didn't look down on the leftover women, but got along with them for a while, you don't feel happy, they themselves are the embodiment of entanglement, constantly bringing negative emotions to the people around them, being friends are tired, let alone falling in love. They're a little pathetic and a little pitiful.

The core essence has not changed, and the standard for everyone to measure a woman is still whether she is married or not! In a truly equal society, the first thing to look at is whether the individual is attractive, positive and energetic, and will never be based on whether you marry well! He laughs at you for being single and can't get married, how do you know that others don't laugh at him for being pedantic and old!

Insist on being a good self, a beautiful choice, your heart is firm enough, just smile at him and let him live in his own pedantic circle.

Older leftover men come uninvited, and my opinion on older leftover women is mainly because they keep saying that they are not in a hurry to get married, but they often go to the blind date market to harm others. I have met many male compatriots on the Internet, many blind date women look down on each other, but they don't accept or refuse, and they hang as a spare tire, which is very disgusting. And in order not to be scolded by their parents and matchmakers, they told the matchmaker that the man did not take the initiative, so that the male compatriots who went on a blind date were often scolded by their parents, and the matchmaker also went everywhere to say that the man was very picky.

I don't think it's that I look down on it, but I can't get used to seeing it more. It's always a habitual thinking, thinking that everyone has to get married and have children. The purpose of getting married and having children is to make you feel happy in life, and it is okay if you feel happy even if you are single.

It can't be summarized as looking down on it, no one buys a mink coat for tens of thousands of yuan in the store, is it someone who discriminates against mink coats, and mink coats are leftovers that no one wants? In fact, it's not at all that no one wants a mink coat, or that a mink coat is a leftover, but that people who want to wear a mink coat can't afford it. Just as the fox can't eat grapes, it is exactly the same as saying that grapes are sour.

The older leftover girls are in their thirties, that is, after the 80s and early 90s, the parents of the leftover girls are forty or fifty years old, and they are all old ideas, hoping that you will become a servant and quarrel with the family, even if you don't like it, you want you to have a home of your own.

No, if you meet the right one, you will still get married, there are many older young people in China who don't look for a partner, don't get married, and even get married and don't have children, what is the reason? I think it has to do with the following reasons.

There is an imbalance between men and women. In 1982, due to the implementation of family planning in China, and the idea of preference for sons over women at that time was also very serious, there was a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, resulting in the lack of targets for older young people, so there was a large number of single people.

High housing prices, the cost of marriage is too high.

Now the housing prices are too high, and it is not enough to get married and buy a house, and it is not enough for both families to spend all their money, and they have to take out a loan, and the repayment period is 30 years, plus it is difficult to make money, which causes a lot of pressure, causing the boy not to find a partner and not to get married. Boys have a lot of pressure at work, and it is difficult to make money.

Now life is stressful, it is difficult to find a job, it is not easy to make money, and the job is unstable. Children in their thirties are basically only children, and their parents are more doting, and they are unwilling to do things with less money, and they can't do things with more money.

It's good to barely make ends meet, and even my parents pay back a part of the money every month. If you don't have responsibility, you don't dare to take responsibility, so you don't want to get married and have children. Girls are becoming more and more demanding.

Because girls are basically graduating from college now, the requirements for boys are getting higher and higher, and they are dazzled, always thinking that they don't have to worry about getting married anyway, and there are more boys now, and the prince charming who is not his ideal does not marry, it is because of this idea that there are more and more older leftover women.

Leftover women refer to women who are old and unmarried, because their existence does not conform to people's traditional thinking of "men should be filial piety and women should be married", so people will look at them differently, but with the development of the times, people are more and more self-conscious, and people will gradually change their views.

However, the reproduction of human beings also depends on the combination of young men and women, and entering into marriage to have children not only meets the physiological needs of people, but also the needs of the development of human society.