Will you get hesitation after falling out of love?

No, just fix it. No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Whether you will get depression depends on whether you know how to regulate yourself and self-enlighten. To put the weight of the relationship between men and women in your life in perspective, remember that it is not all you have, you still have family, friends, they have always loved you, cared for you, and always supported you. Don't keep thinking about that, go out for a walk, take a break, find some friends to get together, chat, spend time with your family, don't be bored alone, remember that there are many meaningful things you can do.

When you just fall out of love, you will be very unaccustomed to it, and you will feel that your heart is very empty all of a sudden, and you don't know what to do. Normal, don't continue to think about it alone, this is the process of your growth, and life must go through. If you fall out of love, congratulations, you waved goodbye to your mistake and are closer to his destined person, the most suitable Mr Right for you is the one who will never let you fall out of love, and will appear at the right time and on the right occasion! Oh.

Falling out of love is painful for some people, but some people forget it quicklyWhat are the after-effects of falling out of love?

I have been breaking up for half a year, so I will briefly introduce the sequelae of my lovelorn.

According to three months as a stage, the mood before and after the stage is different, and the sequelae of falling out of love are also different.

Three months ago.

Three months before the breakup, I will be sad every once in a whilewill miss your ex very much, all you miss is the good of your ex, and it doesn't matter why you broke up for a long time.

It doesn't matter if I'm in class or listening, as long as I see or hear about topics related to love, I feel sad. Then silently comforted himself.

Three months later.

As long as it isPassing by the place where two people used to goand then dismiss those memories in an instant.

Go to see a movie with love material, because many love processes are almost the same, so every time I see some similar fragments,There are always fragments of getting along between two people in my mindThese clips are beautiful, but a long time has passed, so there are no particularly uncomfortable emotions.

I always think of the previous bits and pieces, whether it is good or not, it's all memories.

When discussing other people's feelings with friends, I always think of the quarrel between me and him and unpleasant things, by the way, before complainingTwo people quarrel over a small matter.

Summary:

The above is the sequelae of my broken love, it was very sad in the first few months of the breakup, but as long as I persisted, I will find that it is not a big deal, for me now, when I mention my ex, I will just smile and say that it is over.

After the breakup, I can't remember what the ex did badly, what I think of is the only good thing left on both sides, even if it is a reluctant breakup, don't get back together after the breakup, because we will only repeat the mistakes of the past, we have to look forward, and we will always meet new people.

The above are personal views and opinions only.

When a relationship finally ends up falling out of love, this is actually not very good for two people, of course, there will be some performances, which is called the sequelae of broken love.

For me, the first stage after falling out of love is to complain with my girlfriends, complain about the reasons for falling out of love, and at the same time sigh the happiness of getting out of love. During the day, I will try my best to enrich myself, so that I will live a good life and will not think about falling out of love, and will post some very happy things on social platforms or**, to be honest, I want to tell the other party that I am not living well without you, but at night I will enter the second stage of falling out of love, I will miss some of the good times I had together, and even fantasize about whether there is a reunion in the future, but more often I am still lamenting that I am not ladylike, and I sigh why I made such a decision so easily, Caught in a cycle of self-doubt. The last stage will feel indifferent, and now that the decision has been made, there is no need to delve into it.

I don't think it's terrible to fall out of love, what is terrible is that in the mood of falling out of love, it is difficult to pull out for a long time, since a relationship has reached the stage of breaking up, then it means that he has no room to save this relationship, and he has been holding on to this matter, which will only make him more sad, and breaking up will be a relief. But it is not excluded that the other possibility is that the two of you actually have feelings for each other, if this is the case, then don't be bold to say the contradiction between the two people, to communicate, to solve, so that you can make yourself more comfortable.

But the broken love is true, there is no need to be overly sad and sad, a failed relationship, but will make you grow rapidly, in the future relationship, you will have the experience of the previous relationship, you will be more vigilant, will be more, clear about what you want. I don't think it's terrible to fall out of love, it's not terrible to have the sequelae of falling out of love, it's terrible that it makes you more pessimistic.

The sequelae of my lovelorn is that I always go to his social network to see his likes or ** records, in fact, I don't always go, but I will watch it every day, which seems to have become my habit. I want to take a look at his Weibo to see what he has seen every day, what he is paying attention to, and what content his Zhihu has approved of.

I'm still a sophomore this year, and I haven't experienced a lot of relationships, so I talked about a very short long-distance relationship in my freshman year. In less than three months, my relationship ended and we both broke up peacefully. Because I think the long-distance relationship is more difficult, and he also went to be a soldier, the long-distance relationship plus the military relationship, he can leave me not a lot of time, I don't know if he is too tired or what's going on, I don't make me feel that I am particularly liked by him, so I mentioned the breakup.

But that doesn't mean that I don't like him, it's because I like it, so I don't want to delay him, I hope he has a better life.

The night I proposed to break up was just the beginning of my winter vacation, in fact, at that time I wanted to go to the army to find him and want to celebrate my birthday with him, but he said that he had a mission and would not let me go. I said when you can go out before the Chinese New Year, he was silent. I was a little aggrieved and wanted to cry, and then I really cried, in fact, I don't know why I wanted to cry so much at that time.

I gave him the news to break up, and within a few minutes he agreed. And so we parted peacefully. I deleted his QQ, WeChat, ** number, and then cried all night, I don't know what I fell asleep on.

Because all the chatting methods have been deleted, but I still think about it in my heart, and I still want to see what he is looking at. So I will secretly go to his Weibo, Zhihu's dynamics, although it sounds a little humble, but I think it frees me from the pain of falling out of love. After a few minutes of browsing every day, I feel like I've become a habit, which is probably the sequelae of my broken love.

I don't know about others, but everyone may have some "sequelae" to resolve the pain caused by falling out of love.

I never talked about this with others, occasionally thinking of him, I still feel very happy in my heart, thanks to the good question of the subject, let me recall all the good things at the beginning.

<>It's your first day away, meOne eats dinner for twoEverything is as if it were yesterday, as if your shadow is still on the other side of the table. Actually, I still want to call your ** and ask you what time you will be home. In the end, he picked up the phone again and again and put it down.

I don't say a lot of things, not because I don't want to say them, but because I know in my heart that I won't be listened to and understood when I say them. It's better not to say it, let go of my expectations, and let go of your ears.

It's the second day you're gone, meSit alone on your favorite couch and listen to a song that both of us loveOnly this time, I didn't have the habit of humming along, because there was no one around me who laughed at me out of tune. Suddenly I seem to understand the dynamics of your circle of friends,"Some songs, others listen to the beginning and cut through, and you cry like rain when you listen to the first line, just like some people, just hearing his name, they will panic."

It's the third day you're gone, probably because it hasn't been long enoughI'm still not used to staring at the ceiling alone, the lilies in the bedroom, I still change them once a week, because I know that you will have insomnia if you can't smell the lilies. Like I say to you every day:"I'll pat you on the back a little longer, and I'll sleep again when you're asleep.

"It's just that I haven't had a chance to say this sentence for many days before you left.

It's the 7th day of your absence, a good friend called**: The wrong person is the wrong person, and it will never become the right person because you endure each other or can stay up for a little more time, and you still have to go. I said to him:

Maybe some people will be cold if they don't contact each other for a while, but she is not, she is the person I will not be able to part with even if I don't see each other for the rest of my life.

It's your 12th day awayIs it true that we think we can let go of feelings? That feeling of going from crazy longing to calm relief, how much time has it taken to slowly precipitate, after all, that person has been with you for so long.

It's your 29th day awayI felt like I was sickSometimes, like having depression, you will suddenly feel badSometimes, like having autism, you suddenly don't want to talk. I hug you when you're covered in thorns, and I smooth all your edgesBut now I can only watch others hold you who are close to perfection.

This is the first time you leave. I forgot how many days it was, you know I'm not sensitive to numbers, I'm used to eating alone, but there is still your favorite dish on the table every day. I'm used to sleeping alone, but the lilies I'll still remember to get new ones.

I'm used to chasing dramas alone, but I don't know who to peel the mango on the table. I didn't delete the previous tour, I just encrypted itI didn't lose any of your used things, I packed them in that big box. And you, I haven't forgotten, I put you in order and put you into those love songs every day before going to bed.

This is the first time you leave. Leave me alone, can't wait for the beginning, say okay, after that, well, you'll treat me as if I forgot about you.