What to do if you are misunderstood by your best friend

Updated on society 2024-05-03
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    She didn't misunderstand you, she just didn't want to maintain a close relationship with you, and she was afraid that her boyfriend or relatives and friends would misunderstand that the two of you had a good relationship.

    After a while you will find that you are still friends, especially after she and her boyfriend have a stable relationship. Of course, no one can say anything about being in the same room, so let's never mention it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is actually no big misunderstanding between you.

    In fact, it was his family who misunderstood you.

    They believe that there is no pure friendship between men and women.

    Maybe she will have some scruples after listening to those words.

    After all, girls are not the same as boys.

    They have a lot to think about.

    I hope she doesn't have any scruples.

    And remember not to talk about it again.

    The past passed him.

    These things have to be made clear.

    You are a man, and you have the courage to be a man.

    Pick up** and explain everything clearly! ~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since it's a misunderstanding, you have to make it clear, and if it's really a friend, don't worry too much about talking to him. Sometimes a smile clears up misunderstandings!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Those who are clear are self-purifying. Don't explain. If the most basic trust is gone. You don't have to make that kind of friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It would be nice to explain it clearly.

    If he doesn't believe you.

    Then don't want this kind of good friend.

    Friends are meant to trust each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No explanation needed!

    You're not wrong, why bother to explain!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I had this experience when I was still in college, and my good sister and I planned to go to another city for a week after graduation. We were all looking forward to the trip and had a lot of things planned. But the day before departure, she suddenly picked up the trip, saying that she couldn't go because of something at home.

    I was disappointed and angry with her and felt that she was making fun of me. I had a fight with her, and it was very unpleasant for the socks to be in harmony.

    I have always believed that friends should respect and trust each other. But this time I was disappointed by her behavior, I think she didn't respect me enough and didn't tell me the news in time, which led me to do a lot of preparation and end up wasting time and money. So, I was very angry at the time, and even wanted to break up with her.

    However, when I set out alone and started this trip, I began to reflect on my actions. It occurred to me that the friendship between the two of us had not come easily, and that a momentary trifle was not worth destroying. I also realized that my argument with her might have been a bit naïve.

    I began to think about how I could salvage our friendship.

    After a while, I met up with her and I apologized to her, and she admitted that she should have told me sooner. Eventually, we cleared up the misunderstanding and the friendship was repaired. This experience has made me cherish the present even more and be more grateful for our friendship.

    Our friendship is not only about companionship and joy, but also about supporting and helping each other in times of need. Therefore, we need to always maintain a tolerant and tolerant heart, respect the other person's feelings, and understand the other person's thoughts and behaviors. If there is a misunderstanding or dissatisfaction, it should be communicated and resolved in an appropriate way to avoid conflict and harm.

    I deeply realize that a good friend is not only by your side, but also helps you to be clear. Sometimes, simple communication and understanding will solve the problem. We need to be a little more tolerant and tolerant, and less fragile self-esteem, to avoid momentary emotions that can ruin a good relationship.

    In the future, I will cherish our friendship even more, and always pay attention to maintaining and managing this precious relationship. I believe that with each other's support and encouragement, our friendship will be better and stronger.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello 3 Hello, they are good friends but are misunderstood by others as liking this situation, the best thing to do is to try to avoid explaining your situation clearly, the best way is to respect each other's privacy, and try to clear up the misunderstanding with practical actions such as expressing friendly words, offering help and helping each other. Two people can also relax and talk more about irrelevant topics to distract each other and eliminate misunderstandings.

    And the most important thing is that two people should maintain a friendly environment, and there should be no slightest contradiction during the relationship, and only by diluting this misunderstanding can the previous friendship be restored.

    Pro-3 Hello, I am Teacher Lin of Emotion, good at analysis of problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, and it is convenient for me to tell me your specific situation in detail, and I will give you an analysis based on my knowledge! Answer!

    Hello 3 Hello, I was originally a good friend but was misunderstood by others as liking this situation, the best thing to do is to try to avoid explaining your situation clearly, the best way is to respect each other's privacy, and try to clear up the misunderstanding with practical actions, such as expressing friendly words and wisdom, offering help and helping each other. Two people can also relax and talk more about irrelevant topics, distract each other's attention, and eliminate misunderstandings. And the most important thing is that the two people should maintain a friendly environment, and do not have even a trace of contradiction during the relationship, only by diluting this misunderstanding can the previous friendship be restored.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If we don't have common interests with our former best friends, then we may find that we communicate less and less with each other, which eventually leads to our drifting apart. Let's talk about what you will be detached from your former best friend. I think there are a few reasons for this.

    1. Different life circumstances will affect the relationship between yourself and your former best friend. When we are in different environments, we will react differently and interact with people in completely different ways. For example, when we are in school, we will be very close to our classmates, but when we graduate and leave school, the environment will change very much, which will have a great impact on ourselves and directly affect our relationship with friends.

    Best friends may be unable to communicate due to different circumstances, and they may drift apart. 2. I and my friends are in different cities, and the communication between them will become weaker and weaker. Relationships between friends need to be maintained by close interaction with each other, and they can only be intimate if they interact with each other frequently.

    If you and your friends will be in different cities after graduation and leave school, the interaction between them will gradually decrease, which will make the friendship between each other gradually fade, and eventually drift apart, from friends to strangers. 3. As we grow older, our concepts will change, and our former friends will drift away. Our perception of people and things is not static, but gradually changes as we age.

    As we get older, our attitudes will be very different from before, and our attitudes towards friends will change. At this time, the relationship between us and our best friends from school will gradually drift away, or even stop contacting. 1.

    Take the initiative to contact: send a message to the other party or call ** to ask about the current situation of Liangxian. If you haven't been in touch for a long time, you can take the initiative to invite the other person to dinner or hang out together.

    2.Keep in touch: If possible, you can agree on a fixed meeting time every month or quarter to keep in touch and communicate.

    3.Common hobbies: Find some common hobbies and participate in activities together to increase the time and opportunities for communication with each other.

    5.Understanding and respect: In communication and getting along, we should understand and respect each other, and accept each other's personality and living conditions.

    The most important thing is to be able to keep a normal heart, not to expect too much or to force it, and to treat the time spent together as a precious experience and a precious memory.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This one really has to be explained. Don't have someone who doesn't understand me who doesn't have to explain. All you have to do is tell your friends what you really think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Look at what causes the misunderstanding, and formulate corresponding measures according to the specific situation to resolve it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This true friend doesn't need much explanation, it's not a real friend, it's useless to explain too much, let the other party know what's going on, if you don't understand, it's not worth thinking about.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What is the misunderstanding? If it's a serious matter, you must explain it well, and if it's just a small thing, it doesn't matter, it's a friend who will forgive you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't explain blindly, look for opportunities to explain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Explain it yourself and resolve misunderstandings.

    2. Find someone familiar with you to explain and help resolve the misunderstanding.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Explain that if he doesn't listen, it's not your business, which means that your friend is too stingy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A true friend won't misunderstand you, it's useless to explain if you misunderstand you, let it be, and slowly maybe the other party will understand.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Remain silent for a chance to explain, for he doesn't believe what was said to you at the time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The best thing to do is to explain that he will believe you if he really treats you as a friend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    True friends won't misunderstand you.

    lies, at the beginning of the decision to believe will always be believed;

    Truth be told, decide to doubt at first, no matter what you do, he won't believe you!

    If you don't even have the least trust between friends, then what kind of friends are you going to have!

    Time will tell....

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Apply your signature online. The meaning is about the same, people who understand me don't have to explain, why should people who don't understand me explain.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is going to talk about feelings, explain it to him appropriately, and if you have deep feelings, I'm sure you won't be indifferent.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no need to explain, if he doesn't believe in you, he doesn't believe in your character, and love must be tolerant.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Explain clearly, clear misunderstandings, and rebuild trust!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you misunderstand and can't say clearly, just let it be.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Find the time to explain to him, I don't think that classmate of yours will not fail to listen.

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