If it s ugly, it s hard to get along with people

After a period of time, everyone can accept that your source is still good, and it is caused by your inferiority complex that you can't keep up with the crowd; In addition, looks are innate, and there is no way to change them. Have you ever seen an article about how a person with a large birthmark on his face deals with this problem? He said"Don't you think I'm special?

That's why I've been living happily and happily, because angels have always been with me, and if there is no birthmark, the angels can't find me, so where does my happiness come from? "

Let go of yourself!

Smile more and others won't have such feelings, go with the flow and get along with others, if it's always deliberate, it will make people feel fake, be your true self, observe and listen to what others say.

You put the thumb and index finger of your right hand at the corners of your mouth, lift your fingers up, fix it, and people will feel better when they see you.

It depends on what kind of friends you want to make, if you want to call people like you, like-minded, then you don't change yourself, wait slowly, but the probability of that is very small.

If you want to have more friends, you can change yourself appropriately and integrate with them, but don't be too reluctant.

Well, that's the way the objective reason is.

Unless you're a good friend to play with you, everyone else cares about how they look!

It has nothing to do with whether it looks good or not! Let's change your personality slowly.

Take your time, don't blindly cater to others, there will always be people who appreciate you.

There's no need for that, people will be happy to be friends with you when they get to know you, there's no need to change yourself for messy things. If you want to make more friends, you need to be proactive and enthusiastic when you first get started. If you keep a straight face when you're with someone you're new to or just met, no one wants to get to know you.

Let's tell me what I see. In high school, there were two girls. a b is nearby.

I first came to this school as a high school, A B is a junior high school, and more than half of the junior high school in high school studied in this school, so my classmates are familiar with it. I remember the first time we met in the hallway, I was surprised that I should have stayed there right away. There is such a beautiful girl in reality.

Later, when I was doing military training in the dormitory at night, I heard the name of a junior high school called B, saying that many people said that B was as beautiful as A, and he was not sure that he would ask for his opinion.

I didn't have a say, but I didn't seem to hear any opposition at the time. Later, I had the opportunity to meet B, and I took a closer look, and I felt quite disappointed. Although the B eye is large, it is clearly not at the same level as the A ratio.

It can be said to be a little weird, but it can't be said that there is a problem. In short, it is not the type of traditional beauty. It's a bit reluctant to say that it's a beauty.

A year later, the class was adjusted, and I didn't expect to be assigned to the same class as A B. I got in touch with B a lot, and I found her more and more attractive. Recall what I said before, B is as beautiful as A, and it is not a lie.

What's so appealing about B? I can't tell, I can't tell. In retrospect, I can cite the following:

She is warm, and it feels warm to talk to her. Her eyes are big, and when she talks to her, she always stares at people with wide eyes, and she can see people's hearts.

I've seen a similar problem, and from a psychological point of view, it explains why I don't feel ugly after watching it for a long time. But I didn't make an accurate decision on why I didn't feel so beautiful after a long time when I first looked pretty. Personally, I think the latter should be explained by aesthetic fatigue, and after a long time I haven't seen it, I feel beautiful again is the best support for this explanation.

In addition, I will say again: A person who doesn't think it's good-looking at the beginning but looks better the more he looks at it, even if he looks at this person for a long time, can't he exceed the initial feeling of a person who feels particularly beautiful at the beginning! I'm talking a little bit of a twist.

But it should be clarified. So what looks good is still good-looking, it's just aesthetic fatigue. If it's not good-looking, no matter how long it is pleasing to the eye, it can't surpass the most beautiful feeling in your heart.

In summary, I don't know if my analysis is correct, but I think there should be some truth to it.